pitrouillesque, to random French
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Hi everyone! I want new faces in my tl
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aby, to random
@aby@aus.social avatar

I got an HD on the paper I handed in last week. It was a critical analysis of the policy report from People with Disabilities Australia and Domestic Violence NSW.

I'm pretty chuffed with the comment I got from my lecturer 😊

aby, to random
@aby@aus.social avatar

Also, being face to face in a room full of people for 8 hours a day, 2 days next week is:

  • a HUGE fucking covid risk
  • going to have me dysfunctional for the rest of the week
  • a waste of the time I should be using to get my assessment handed in

StevenSaus, to autisticadvocacy
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@autisticadvocacy
@actuallyautistic

Accommodation Or Abuse: The False Choice Managers Have With Employees

Do you want to be a leader or manager who actually works with your neurodivergent employees, or do you want to create a hostile, toxic, and inefficient work environment because of the fragility of your ego?

https://ideatrash.net/2023/09/accommodation-or-abuse-the-false-choice-managers-have-with-neurospicy-employees.html

kkffoo,
@kkffoo@mastodon.social avatar

@StevenSaus @autisticadvocacy @actuallyautistic
..because running an efficeint business for the collective good comes in second place to wedging oneself into the structure and not being shown up for any perceived deficiencies.

hmm_cook, to random
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If you could name one wildly improbable dream—one thing you would love to be able to do if people issues were no obstacle—what would it be?

notagander,
@notagander@dftba.club avatar

@CynAq @hmm_cook @actuallyautistic ahaha People issues aside? Accessibility Coach. I wanna yell at people/corps for not making appropriate/legally-mandated/completely normal and low effort accommodations for people with disabilities of all kinds. Autism being just one of many things that are normative to the point that someone should write guide to it. “seeeeeeeee i promise it’s not that hard to be nice to people who have different needs than you.” 🤣

hmm_cook,
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@notagander @CynAq @actuallyautistic Yes! I hope you do this and can help lots of companies which can help lots and lots and lots of other people! You’re right, it’s not that hard. It does take letting go of some assumptions though.

johnnyprofane1, to actuallyadhd
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The really cool thing about posting my stuff on Saatchi Art is I get to go back to the time-pressured blog post sketches ... and make them right. Ya know?

Sometimes I'm Lost Without a Clue in the Nonautistic World. How About You?

👉saatchiart.com/autisticaf

#ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #AuDHD

@actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd
@actuallyautistics
@actuallyaudhd

johnnyprofane1,
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johnnyprofane1,
@johnnyprofane1@neurodifferent.me avatar

Sometimes I'm Lost Without a Clue in the Nonautistic World. How About You?
Ever feel like an outsider in your own homeland? Alone. Alien. Unseen...

This tableau could be your epiphany. Feel a connection? This piece could be your roadmap...

The Emotional Odyssey
The dual sensations of alienation and kinship in intricate settings.
A young boy, back turned to us, gazes upon a fantastical Palestinian village under a surreal sun. Another boy, in silhouette, observes. What are they contemplating?

The Art of Digital Illusion
Digital art and AI allow me to paint this scene in vivid hues, capturing the complex emotional states of the subjects. Ready to dive into this visual narrative?

The Encoded Message
A catalyst for dialogue about empathy, nuance, and the human emotional spectrum.
This isn't just art; it's a viewpoint shift waiting to happen. Want to spark crucial dialogues? Let this tableau be your catalyst.

@actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd @actuallyautistics @actuallyaudhd

autism101, to actuallyautistic

Many autistics deal with insomnia and other sleeping issues. It is something I have struggled with my entire life.

Here is a guide that has some things that have really helped others.

@actuallyautistic

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1MpCcfePk9dTz7rhEHYAsKjoVa8_L2oTF/view

markusl,
@markusl@fosstodon.org avatar

@yourautisticlife

I can't get melatonin or THC here, so I've no data on those.

CBD makes my sleep deeper and more solid, but doesn't lengthen it.

Bright light certainly wakes me up if I see it in the small hours. Before bed, it seems more important to avoid excitement, cognitive demands, and thinking about the next day.

I fall asleep within 30s (because I'm always sleep-deprived) but struggle to stay asleep or go back to sleep after awaking.

1/

@autism101 @actuallyautistic

markusl,
@markusl@fosstodon.org avatar

@yourautisticlife

I naturally go to bed very late: typically between 1am and 2am. That might be consistent with the observation that many autists are short of melatonin (so I don't get tired when the sun goes down), but I've not measured it.

I'm considering getting a formal autism dx just so that I can ask my GP to prescribe melatonin and see if it helps. But, as the world slides towards fascism, there are also reasons to keep it dark.

2/2

@autism101 @actuallyautistic

veecorreia, to actuallyautistic
@veecorreia@mstdn.ca avatar

Alright, I saw another person try this with great success so here I am. Let me know if you're a traumatized or traumatized human. DMs open. A very trustworthy psychotherapist said we might get along (and for more than 48 hours). @actuallyautistic

VoxofGod,
@VoxofGod@mastodon.social avatar

@veecorreia @actuallyautistic trauma is my mother's milk

KitMuse, to actuallyautistic
@KitMuse@eponaauthor.social avatar

Durkheim: The negative cult cannot exist without causing suffering. Pain is one of it's necessary conditions.

Why yes, I do believe that my big fekkin' research paper for this class (REL580 Theories of Religion - capstone class) will be Autistic Masking as a Means of Devotion to the Negative Cult of “Normal”

Mind. Blown. So. Many. Thoughts.

@actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics

theautisticcoach,
@theautisticcoach@neurodifferent.me avatar

@KitMuse @actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics

sounds like an awesome paper Kit. Happy to help however I can and at the very least am very excited to read it!

mariyadelano, to actuallyautistic
@mariyadelano@hachyderm.io avatar

Question:

What are your favorite resources about ? (, , , , , etc)

(Articles, books, videos, podcasts, tools, posts, accounts to follow, apps, etc.)

Putting together a list of recommendations on my newsletter, and would love to supplement with things the community here likes

@actuallyautistic

P.S. On the road so won’t reply to comments till later tonight!

saralobkovich,
@saralobkovich@thinkydoers.social avatar

@mariyadelano @actuallyautistic I came across an article by Ludmila Praslova Ph.D. somewhere and have been a LinkedIn fangirl of hers ever since. She’s a prolific writer herself, but also shares great resources at the intersection of organizational psych and neurodivergence.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ludmila-praslova

mariyadelano,
@mariyadelano@hachyderm.io avatar
KitMuse, to actuallyautistic
@KitMuse@eponaauthor.social avatar

Question for those who are or with --

It's not exactly situational muteness, but I'm finding that when it comes to sharing my thoughts and theories and the work I want to do, I find that I cannot. There's not just a lack of executive function, but a block.

I feel like it's related to my cPTSD and constantly being told I was wrong or bullied in work/school life. (Work triggers cPTSD daily)

How do you get past it?

@actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics

amazing_bookworm,
@amazing_bookworm@mastodon.social avatar

@KitMuse @actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics I don’t know if you ever get past it. I don’t even tell family about things that I want to do. I’m afraid of them telling me that I wouldn’t be able to do that, whatever “that” is. I think that it’s a matter of trust and of rejection.

autism101, to actuallyautistic

I hope you have a good day today. I know life can be really hard. 💛

image: @BlessingManifesting (IG)

@actuallyautistic

Ray_Of_Sunlight,
@Ray_Of_Sunlight@mastodon.social avatar
autism101, to actuallyautistic

Autistic people can sometimes be criticized for being too blunt or rude. Many of us use direct communication with no filters.

We say what we are thinking, and mean it.

If we see an emperor with no clothes walk by, we will point it out to you.

@actuallyautistic

simid,
@simid@neurodifferent.me avatar

@nellie_m @autism101 @actuallyautistic
well, I can emphasize with your reading of it is that the different of hyperempathy and AFAB socialization, or not a hyperempath and having more typical male autistic expression? I wonder. That pressure if you just can't in any way reconcile your clear perception with what's expected of you...

EternalOutsider,
@EternalOutsider@mastodon.social avatar

@autism101 @actuallyautistic Story of my life. I've gotten a lot of flak for being blunt (aka "rude). It's caused a lot of pain when I was younger (I've told parents more than once if their kids were being brats, exactly like that and was treated like garbage). Nowadays, I don't care if people like it or not, I'm going to say what I think.

izabelamisiak, to random
@izabelamisiak@mastodon.social avatar

As always after a meeting (a nice and good one):
Who am I? What should I do? What's going on? What? Who am I, again?

[I went to collect all my molecules, brb]

#AuDHD

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