len_klapdor, to bookstodon German
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My signature move as a is that all my characters are some flavor of , even the ones that seem neurotypical at first.

: What’s your signature move?
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DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to autisticadvocacy
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

For the sake of the Autistic people in your life.

"Autistic burnout is more than being tired"

Yes, there can be exhaustion. There can also be an infinite number of other ways it presents.

Not everyone stops during burnout. Some people push through. Some people shutdown completely. Some people feel like they are losing their minds.

Professionals and families need to realise that Autistic burnout is a traumatic experience.

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy

brainpilgrim,
@brainpilgrim@mastodon.social avatar

@simid @KitMuse @JoBlakely @DivergentDumpsterPhoenix @actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy

I don't seek a cure. So what if I lack conformist abilities?

That's not a bug. It's a feature.

SleepyCatten, to random
@SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf avatar

Query for other folks who both are autistic & have ADHD:

What has been your experience with focus & executive function compared to folks who solely have ADHD? :NeurodiversitySymbol:

Bonus question: if you've found medication helpful, which type & amount are on (if you feel happy to disclose)? :BlahajHoldingNeurodivergentSymbol:

Boosts welcomed :BoostsOKPrideSymbol:

grammaticus, to actuallyautistic
@grammaticus@nerdculture.de avatar

Five hours of sleep... 😴 Not bad, in the end, I guess. Just to share what finally helped me to fall asleep - a white noise stream on my radio app. 📻

I've heard of it before - people using white noise machines and such, but I've never tried it before. I guess I can put this on my list of life hacks that actually work ☑️

@actuallyautistic

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to actuallyadhd
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

do you experience imposter syndrome?

I have been so good at hiding parts of myself over the years that I now doubt they are there.

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @actuallyadhd

Roundcat, to random
@Roundcat@mastodon.social avatar

I got pushback on for saying this, but I think that the fact many or content creators and influencers continue to use is hypocritical, and undermines their integrity. I might create a larger blog post explaining my thoughts on this. But I guess I would like to hear from what you think of this take. I can understand users who still need to use it for their job or livelihood, but not creators who encourage their audience to follow them there.

Kabbaway,
@Kabbaway@aus.social avatar

@Roundcat I do agree with what you're saying to an extent, although I've also heard from many people of colour (especially ) that the mass is very white dominated, because we have the privilege of running when things become dangerous or undesirable for us. still has a white-dominated issue, and unfortunately there have been problems due to many instances not yet having gone through the growing pains of the various communities on , or worse that some of them are actively run by bigots and/or their enablers.

For many people of colour, Twitter was NEVER really safe but it gave them a platform to widely share their existence and protest where they otherwise couldn't. They arguably have to work harder than anyone else to build their online communities and supportive networks, so I personally don't blame them for being hesitant to completely abandon it. For them, Twitter is more than a social media platform. It's a lifeline, a fundamental source of human rights information, resources and support networks. Twitter, even today, simply has an unmatched level of accessibility, popularity and influence on society. has a similar problematic history yet is also a crucial source of information for various marginalised groups.

I personally chose to jump ship since it was getting too toxic for me as a + and person, but I also acknowledge that I had the privilege of being able to do that with only the slightest amount of inconvenience; I never particularly liked Twitter, and had other outlets available to me so it was an easy choice to make. Twitter did majorly help advertise my content when I was first starting out in early 2018, so I can empathise with why many and content creators still use it.

It's one thing to try and rigidly comply with our principles, but reality is that we all live under a broken system, and those of us who are marginalised often have to play that system in order to survive, share our stories and resources on how to implement systemic change. If we waited for the perfect circumstances/platforms to do this (free of moral contradictions, compromises and sacrifices), our voices would just fade into obscurity. For many, abandoning ship is letting the bigots win - I wouldn't be surprised if silencing progressive and/or marginalised groups was THE reason Elon bought Twitter in the first place. Ultimately, it's a very personal choice whether someone decides to remain on Twitter or go elsewhere. On the surface the former is hypocritical, but the rhetorics used against it are full of privilege and purity politics which have their own air of hypocrisy to them.

There are no easy answers, except that we're all just trying to get by in this hostile, rigged system and turning on each other only serves to benefit and perpetuate that system.

johnnyprofane1, to actuallyadhd
@johnnyprofane1@neurodifferent.me avatar

Neurodivergent Kiss: Autistic Fairytale… or Fabulous Marriage?

Folks ask about my #neurodivergent marriage. Umm… over and over. Like… "Is that even possible?"

@actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd #ActuallyAutistid #AuDHD #AutisticJoy #AutisticLove #Autistic
http://autisticaf.me/2023/08/18/neurodivergent-kiss-autistic-fairytale-or-fabulous-marriage/

queerscifi, to lgbtqbookstodon
@queerscifi@mastodon.otherworldsink.com avatar

Queer indie review!: Night Ivy by EDE Bell:

"The world-building is seamless, with beautiful details that give a real sense of what the world Xelle lives in is like. I really enjoyed Night Ivy, from start to finish. I need more Xelle."

https://www.queerscifi.com/review-night-ivy-e-d-e-bell/

@lgbtqbookstodon @diversebooks @bookstodon @edebell

PsychTink, to autisticadvocacy

Would quote more, but word limit.
gives us access to everything but oppression. That’s the only thing we can’t colonize. So, what do we do? We turn into social currency.” They comment on the obsession w/ “uniqueness” the internet has; white people get “extra points” for belonging to identities that are like queer, trans, . A lot of white folks are blind to their white "
@audhd @socialwork @autisticadvocacy
https://www.autostraddle.com/autism-is-not-a-trend-but-there-are-problems-with-how-its-discussed-online/

johnnyprofane1, to actuallyadhd
@johnnyprofane1@neurodifferent.me avatar

"Neurodivergent Kiss."

Cuz autistic love is the most precious love.

For my wife. Who claims to be typical.

We all humor her.

#ActuallyAutistic #Neurodivergent @actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd

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johnnyprofane1,
@johnnyprofane1@neurodifferent.me avatar

@actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd

People have asked about my #Neurodivergent marriage...

Umm... over and over.

👉 Later today? Gonna start sharing about 12 years of working toward #AutisticJoy...

through #AutisticLove...

With my wife🤶, who confidently claims to be typical.

Big topic. Just a short post to break the ice for future writing...

Later today. Turns out there WAS hope for me...

🚨 mebbe you too.

#ActuallyAutistic
#AutisticX #AskingAutistic #AutisticAdults
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DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to autisticadvocacy
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

People wrongly assume that Autistic people are asocial or anti-social. In my book "The New Normal" I make the case that we are AuSocial with our own cultural and social practices.

Here I expand on that a bit further.

https://emergentdivergence.com/2023/08/16/ausocial-towards-an-understanding-of-autistic-social-culture/

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy

Mysticcshadow, to random
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DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, (edited ) to autisticadvocacy
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KitMuse, to actuallyautistic
@KitMuse@eponaauthor.social avatar

My poll on how welcome you feel in autistic spaces as an person has ended.

Only 43% feel welcome.

A whopping 41% have felt unwelcome some or ALL of the time.

16% provided comment/nuance trending toward the 41% and offering reasons.

Seriously. We have GOT TO DO BETTER. We're failing, especially Autistic Elders. I have blog posts perking on this and will share when I have energy.

@actuallyautistic

essie_is_okay, to random
@essie_is_okay@aus.social avatar

I can't remember where I read this. But telling mentally ill people to eat well and exercise to boost their mood is like giving someone a new pair of scissors that is still in the packaging. The person needs scissors to open the new scissor packaging. This is not a helpful thing to do at all.

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to bookstodon
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

If you enjoy the content I create, you should check out my books!

The New Normal looks at neuronormativity in society and how it affects Autistic people.

Unusual Medicine talks about my experiences as an Autistic addict.

Even if you can't check out my books right now, sharing this post really helps me out.

https://emergentdivergence.com/my-books

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @bookstodon

AAT_transcribes, to academicchatter
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Twitter was our main marketing channel and it collapsing plus ongoing crisis in UK academia means we’re struggling to survive.

We are proud to offer our , and fairly paid work through our business.

To help us keep doing what we do and for high-quality & for your audio and video, get a quote today: http://academicaudiotranscription.com/our-prices

@academicchatter

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to autisticadvocacy
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teaaddictedgeek, to random
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Hey all! Here for my , I'm new to this instance, but not to Fedi.

I'm Ashkenazi, my parents and I belonged to a Reform temple growing up. I currently am a member of a non-denominational synagogue near me that has conservative roots. Most of social media online is antisemitic and exhausting. Happy to see a Jewish server on here and have been meaning to join for a while.

Huge and fan including and , also play . I am a software engineer, primarily / , , and --pretty much in that order. Also in a ton of fandoms. I'm (), , , and .

Still seeking decent sources of bagels near me as a New York-to-Boston transplant, have been ordering bagels as gifts for my equally transplanted parents straight from NYC. Goldbelly has saved us all. I did manage to find a very good Jewish deli near me whose bagels are pretty tasty, although not quite the same.

eilisnichaoimh, to actuallyautistic
@eilisnichaoimh@mastodon.ie avatar

Question for @actuallyautistic and communities.

I'm writing a paper on deconstructing neurodiversity. I'm looking for archival copies of the Autism Network International newsletter published in either 1992 or 1993. Any help much appreciated !!!!!!!

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