agenderfox, to actuallyautistic
@agenderfox@babka.social avatar

my girlfriend found this, and it's ... indescribable, what this means to me. my Hebrew name is Yonah, bc I felt so drawn to him as a biblical character, and yet I wasn't fully able to put my connection to him into words, until this article

"We know why Jonah runs because the prophet himself tells us at the end of the text. Jonah objects that God spares the Assyrians the consequences of their actions. They have done evil and they do not deserve to retain their status as the capital of the Assyrian Empire. Jonah is not particularly impressed with the fasting and the public repentance; but he knows that God finds such behavior acceptable and averts their doom. If Jonah knows that there will be no real change and that Nineveh’s might and cruelty will ride roughshod over his people, why should he prophecize to them? Why do they not deserve justice?"

@actuallyautistic @mazeldon

https://www.yeshivatmaharat.org/post/finding-justice-in-jonah

obrerx, to actuallyautistic
@obrerx@neurodifferent.me avatar

One difference I see between mastodon and twitter:

On twitter the autistic community is very large, and issues regarding such things as hashtags, acceptance of self-assessment, etc, have been substantially worked out a long time ago. There are some disagreements that arise from time to time, but on these core ideas it's just a few individuals who oppose acceptance of self-assessment.

The concepts associated with the neurodiversity paradigm are widely supported.

My own dislike of twitter was (and is) mostly centered around the silo effect of Twitter structure. There are influencer accounts that dominate discussions, towering over the crowd like big vertical silos, and most significant discussions that get any real notice occur within those silos. It's really hierarchical, and vertical rather than horizontal. I've written threads there which discuss this and while there were a lot of supportive people who agreed with me, some didn't, and a few of the huge influencer accounts took a disliking to me. Names some of you would be familiar with.

Yep, that really happened.

Seems most autistics there don't mind that top-down structure, which is why they stay there, I guess.

It is a much bigger world there, that is true.

I really like the relative degree of absence of that verticality here on Mastodon.

@actuallyautistic


@allautistics

marzours, to disabilityjustice
@marzours@kolektiva.social avatar

Sanism is normalized in relationships with institutions.
It’s not talked about.
It’s woven tightly into unquestioned assumptions (common sense knowledge)
It’s a tool for power and control.


The Wildflower Alliance

Grassroots Peer Support, Advocacy, and Training organization with a focus on harm reduction and human rights.
https://wildfloweralliance.org/

Thank you @leftvu 😍

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btaroli, to actuallyautistic
@btaroli@federate.social avatar

I know I shouldn’t be nervous but I am. Son is attending birthday, and they’ll be playing laser tag. But parents are DROPPING OFF their kids, which is something very unusual for those of us with kiddos! I suggested and then all parent left phone numbers juuust in case.

It seems like a simple milestone but I’m actually anxious about it. Probably more than him!

@actuallyautistic

CuriousMagpie, to actuallyautistic
@CuriousMagpie@mastodon.social avatar

Interesting though slightly fluffy piece. I 🙄when the writer said it was "virtually unknown" when they actually meant, science hadn't yet verified it because they are the arbiters of truth. 😒
: what’s behind the phenomenon that makes certain sounds unbearable?
@actuallyautistic https://www.theguardian.com/science/2023/sep/17/misophonia-phenomenon-sounds-unbearable-new-book-dr-jane-gregory

yourautisticlife, to actuallyautistic
@yourautisticlife@mast.yourautisticlife.com avatar

@actuallyautistic

I've posted my opinion about the new hashtags, in the following article. I've prevented commenting directly on that article, because unfortunately the ActivityPub plugin makes a mess of it, when you have replies to replies.

(Actually... I'm not sure whether the plugin will prevent people from commenting in the fediverse... oh well.)

https://www.yourautisticlife.com/2023/09/15/actuallyautistic-is-for-both-formally-diagnosed-people-and-self-diagnosed-people/

obrerx,
@obrerx@neurodifferent.me avatar

@Gtmlosangeles @yourautisticlife @actuallyautistic

Not only that, but some of us are multiply neurodivergent. So there are different hashtags for each neurodivergent category we may experience.

to give one example.

And there are groups:

@actuallyadhd
@actuallyautistic
@allautistics

johnnyprofane1, to actuallyadhd
@johnnyprofane1@neurodifferent.me avatar

🌈 Hey fam!

Ever struggled being in a neurotypical world?

I get it. That's why I offer all my content for FREE. But to keep it that way, I need your .

Click to learn how you can this space.👇

@actuallyautistic
@actuallyadhd

thequirkybraincoach, to actuallyautistic
@thequirkybraincoach@neurodifferent.me avatar

Want to know how I prepared to influence my sensory needs when trekking to Everest Base Camp?

Read how I worked out my needs, influenced what I can influence, and understood how this could help me - and how you might be able to do some of this stuff for yourself if/when you want to travel!

https://thequirkybrain.coach/how-i-prepared-to-meet-my-sensory-needs-for-an-amazing-trip-of-a-life-time/

@actuallyautistic

essie_is_okay, to actuallyautistic
@essie_is_okay@aus.social avatar

Update to my request for non minty remineralizing toothpaste! Thank you a for your help.

After doing some research it seems I can pretty safely use kids toothpaste that's for 6+ years old. Baby toothpaste has 500ppm fluoride, while kids has the same as adults, 1450ppm. My dentist okayed this.

For anyone looking for your own use, look for kids toothpaste with 1450ppm F, and preferably no SLS (sodium laureth sulfate) which gives the foaming effect.

You can buy unflavoured toothpaste but it's hard to come buy. After researching I've found I can use 2 or 3 different supermarket products, which is so much more convenient than ordering online.

I looked into fluoride tablets, and they are not used or recommended anymore (at least in Australia).

Thank you everyone for your suggestions. Here is the original post for anyone curious. Check the comments for the suggestions I got. https://aus.social/

@actuallyautistic

PsychTink, to autisticadvocacy

"constant fighting with our own sense of identity causes further psychological distress...

"Instead of asking “what’s wrong w/ me?” We need to shift discourse over to “what happened to me?”. It’s vital that psychological distress be placed in the context of one’s environment&
experiences of the complex power dynamics within them."

@audhd @actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy
Thanks for your work @DivergentDumpsterPhoenix https://emergentdivergence.com/2023/02/17/power-dynamics-and-mental-health-neurofuturist-discourse-of-mental-health/

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to autisticadvocacy
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar
DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to autisticadvocacy
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

When you find the right book, it can be a revelatory experience for the reader. This is why it was so difficult for me when I went through a long period of being unable to focus on reading.

I felt lost without my books.

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy @bookstodon

mariyadelano, to actuallyautistic
@mariyadelano@hachyderm.io avatar

Question:

What are your favorite resources about ? (, , , , , etc)

(Articles, books, videos, podcasts, tools, posts, accounts to follow, apps, etc.)

Putting together a list of recommendations on my newsletter, and would love to supplement with things the community here likes

@actuallyautistic

P.S. On the road so won’t reply to comments till later tonight!

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to autisticadvocacy
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

Autistic people often don't have great experiences with doctors. I suspect that in part it's because of doctors failing to humanise their patients.

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to autisticadvocacy
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

Psychiatry in the west has been built upon a long history of colonial aggression. If you are part of a minority group, chances are you will end up in a psychiatrists office at some point in your life.

Psychiatry then positions the problem in your brain, rather than the political and material circumstances of your life.

Psychiatry needs to do better.

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy

Xopher, to actuallyadhd
@Xopher@wandering.shop avatar

Hot Take: Sometimes, it just sounds a lot more fun to think of myself as batshit crazy instead of . @actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd

DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to autisticadvocacy
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

If there were no barriers, and you had unlimited resources. What one thing would you do?

I would start an academic institution dedicated to the study and advancement of the neurodiversity paradigm and movement.

#actuallyautistic #autism #autistic #neurodiversity #neurodivergent #askingautistics #askingadhders

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy

marzours, to disabilityjustice
@marzours@kolektiva.social avatar
DivergentDumpsterPhoenix, to autisticadvocacy
@DivergentDumpsterPhoenix@disabled.social avatar

Two things to understand about harm-reduction:

  1. Harm-reduction does not make something "safe".

  2. Harm-reduction is only effective when both the professional and service user have a good understanding of each other.

If either of these points are misunderstood, the harm will not be reduced.

https://emergentdivergence.com/2023/08/28/creating-autistic-suffering-camhs-advise-safe-cutting-for-autistic-children/

ND Social Care & Family Services

@actuallyautistic @autisticadvocacy

marzours, to disabilityjustice
@marzours@kolektiva.social avatar

Mad Crip doula: offering holistic and emotional spiritual bodymind care, mixed with practical and crisis support (and plant medicine). moving from a liberation-centered and anti-oppressive lens. a transition doula with skills in: abortion, death, grief, Madness, and Disability.

https://www.stefaniekaufman.com/madcripdoula

endorsing: non-carceral, peer-led mental health care systems that exist outside of the state, reimagining everything we’ve come to learn about madness, and intervening in systems that oppress, disappear, and kill Disabled and mad folks.

Please Note: I don’t know Them in any capacity and They sure look bad-ass

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marzours, to disabilityjustice
@marzours@kolektiva.social avatar

Disability doula. Peer support. Social support. Physical support. Cultural roots.


Newly disabled people aren’t given a ‘how-to’ guide. Disability doulas are closing those gaps.
The community care practice, pioneered by queer women of color, reorients newly disabled people to a different life

https://19thnews.org/2023/07/disability-doulas-support-newly-disabled-people/

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seekingfreedom, to random
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Hey fellow ND peeps, question for you:

Is it just me or is drinking water a wildly unpredictable sensory experience? Like I want to drink more, but there’s so much VARIANCE. Curious what y’all’s thoughts are 🚰💦

StevenSaus, to actuallyautistic
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@actuallyautistic

I am seriously wondering -- with the massive under- and mis-diagnosis of neurospicy things:

Are we really the "divergent" ones here, numerically? Or are we just not the ones who made the rules?

PsychTink, to autisticadvocacy
PsychTink,
PsychTink, to autisticadvocacy

Great episode.
Navigating Neurodiversity: The Struggle to Figure out the Rules


@audhd @autisticadvocacy @neurodivergent
https://pca.st/episode/f56cef4a-5325-4d72-907e-70f7731158d2

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