So this just came to mind, since it’s kind of related.
My wife’s family recently did another round of “family cookbook” reprints, since her sister died earlier this year and reminded the older generation of their own mortality, so they better make their additions and pass it on.
My wife did not receive one. The reason? “well you didn’t have kids, so it’s not like you can pass it on”
Due to genetic disorders, she decided to make sure she couldn’t have kids. The doctor that performed the TL asked her about it in his opening small talk, “but you’re so young!” then he opened her file, started reading, and apologized.
Her mother and remaining sister agreed with the decision and refuse to give her a copy.
Jesus that is so messed up. It’s such a weird obsession too, furthering the family line. Like are we all royalty all of a sudden? Which hearths will I inherit, mother? Or will I inherit a bunch of debt and grandma’s Beanie Baby collection? Get off your high horse.
Having said that, this shit must hurt. Sorry she went through that. It’s such a stupid thing to be this shitty about.
Little Bourgeois like to pretend they’re rich and imitate the rich because of that. It’s why people have lawns in a desert climate and eat way too much meat.
She desperately wants people to view her as fancy, high class and powerful, then she goes home to government housing.
Incidentally, this same woman had a trump flag hanging up in her living room the first time I ever went over, then she committed fraud by using my address to get “one of them damn Obamaphones” for free, claiming to be the resident. I only found this out much later after she nearly disowned my wife because I’m pro-choice, and my wife finally realized her mother is psychotic.
Literally the only thing keeping me from reporting this woman to the police is keeping my wife happy, because she’s convinced if I do anything to piss them off too much, she won’t be able to visit her nieces and nephews anymore since her sister will cut her off. I think that is a possibility, soooooo yeah.
The woman defrauds the social systems she elects people to destroy.
It was baffling to me. Like holy shit you, by your actions, are saying you don’t consider her family because she won’t have biological children. It’s a family cookbook. Therefore it goes to family. If it doesn’t go to someone, they aren’t family.
Because not all people have toxic extended family, lol. Most of my extended family are awesome, friendly folks. I think you meant, “avoid toxic people in general,” versus, “avoid extended family specifically”?
Well yeah pretty much. It is incredibly difficult for some though to come to that realization and apply it to family, because there’s so much pressure put on family relationships that nearly all abuse will be overlooked when if the people weren’t family they’d never choose to interact or ever get along. The arbitrary family connection causes years of pointless suffering.
There are some good families out there as I’ve dated myself into some of them over the years.
However there are many where you can hear the banjos playing a little too close when you go to a family event like a wedding.
It takes having your own banjos at times to know which ones are really playing them and which ones to cut out which is hard for many. I’ve been able to do it over the years but it wasn’t easy for others to understand. I know I’m better off for it in the long run.
The doctor that performed the TL asked her about it in his opening small talk, “but you’re so young!” then he opened her file, started reading, and apologized.
Way out of line. He was probably about to ask what her husband would think.
I’ve chosen not to have kids by choice and I use to hear all the time from coworkers that weren’t born here, “gasp! what about your grandkids and your old age? Who will take care of you? You will regret it!”
Many years later now that I’m older I hear from the same ones say I made the right decision. “You get to enjoy your life and not to worry what those little a-holes have done wrong now. They aren’t a burden you can’t get rid of” I then usually ask them are they sure it’s not too late to abort?
I’ve never understood old cookbooks. Why would I make cow cunt boiled in fish oil with kale when I have the internet ,and can make food meant for human consumu?
Haha, yeah, it’s ironic that the people bitching about us needing to have more kids due to shrinking population growth are the ones most staunchly against immigrants.
I saw a pretty good three hour cut of all three Hobbit movies. I don’t remember what it was called, but I think they only used like 20 min of the last movie.
Maple Films’ edit is pretty good. Chops out the majority of the dwarf backstory, all of the wizard side quests, and significantly cuts down the superfluous action sequences, resulting in a strong narrative which follows Bilbo’s story exclusively, as it should.
Don’t forget the shitty political views that fucked up the environment and the economy. If my parents want grandkids they can adopt, I can’t afford any of that shit and I won’t put someone else through this hell if I can help it.
He was a Maiar of Aulë, which was the Vala of Crafting, so prodigy is probably underselling it. As a side note, considering what happened with both Saruman and Sauron, I would say Aulë was probably a very shitty boss.
Aule also created the dwarves against the explicit orders of Iluvatar, so it kinda runs in the family. Wasn’t Morgoth a Maiar of Aule too? Nope, a Valar. Thanks for the correction!
I’d cry too. Have you ever used pans seasoned over years? I actually flinch every time I see that scene in the movies now that I’ve seasoned pans of my own. 😢
Mouse would escape the tape and stick its head through the ring. Then you have an invisible mouse to rule them all to deal with. The whole of Middle Earth would be absolutely overrun with mice
Pippin felt curiously attracted by the well. While the others were unrolling blankets and making beds against the walls of the chamber, as far as possible from the hole in the floor, he crept to the edge and peered over. A chill air seems to strike his face, rising from the invisible depths. Moved by a sudden impulse he groped for a loose stone, and let it drop. He felt his heart beat many times before there was any signs. Then far below, as if the stone had fallen into deep water in some cavernous place, the came a plunk, very distant, but magnified and repeated in the hollow shaft.
'What's that?' cried Gandalf. He was relieved when Pippin confessed what he had done; but he was angry, and Pippin could see his eye glinting. 'Fool of a Took!' he growled. 'This is a serious journey, not a hobbit walking-party. Throw yourself in next time, and then you will be no further nuisance. Now be quiet!'
Nothing more was heard for several minutes; but then there came out of the depths faint knocks: tap-tom, tap-tom. ...
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