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orphiebaby,

Jesus used a whip to drive out the merchants in the temple.

orphiebaby,

I understand why I got downvoted, but I don’t understand why you got downvoted.

orphiebaby,

That one’s both good and timeless, but that doesn’t make the whole genre age any better than other genres.

orphiebaby,

The name of the community specifically implies that classic rock is timeless music.

orphiebaby,

Okay, you move the goalposts completely and then get upvoted by the mindless drones here. You’re not here to argue that Fall Out Boy is classic rock just because you think it’s good, right? I’m out.

orphiebaby, (edited )

Okay, let me try this.

  • Mother smoked and did drugs when pregnant with me
  • Born with autism, mild cerebral palsy, medical issues
  • Mom heavily neglected and abused me
  • Lived in many foster, adoptive homes, boarding schools, went to many schools and extreme right-wing churches
  • In all of them, was either physically, emotionally, or sexually abused
  • Abandoned as adult
  • Joined USAF, medical discharge out of tech school when they realized their mistake
  • Lived in homeless shelters and then adult foster care
  • My name online is usually some form of the word “orphan”

So what am I doing? Well, I’m poor and on disability and I’ve struggled to manage my emotions, and I’ve had to grow like anybody. But I’m an ex-Christian theist, empathetic liberal, and have never done any crime. I spent a lot of years in social programs and with social workers. I live in an apartment now with two best friends. I’m writing a science fantasy novel I hope to change the world with, sharing a lot of what I experienced and what I learned. I wrote a symphonic rock and power ballad soundtrack for it.

“The Solemn Dream” Blurb:

After a very unhappy childhood, “Solemn” dies at 25 and wakes up in the space-age afterlife of Heleia, where everyone’s home planet is chosen by the seraphs— demigod social workers and keepers of the peace— based on that person’s emotional and ethical maturity. Here, Solemn chooses to become a young child again, hoping to heal and to finally find a loving family.

Jessi Vargas is a forever-19 bully who lives on Nemesis, the planet for those who don’t care that they’re harmful. Sick of being surrounded by terrible people, she prepares to leave the planet— even though she may not be worthy.

Lu Montsely is a kind and patient humanitarian who hides a terrible past. After a century of effort, she is almost ready to ascend to the utopian world of Themis to join her loving husband. Lu mentors Solemn and Jessi as her final test, and— along with their wise and humorous helper android Iota— they form a small family on Eleos.

But many do not believe that criminals deserve second chances. When the seraphs discover mass-produced weapons, they need the aid of Solemn’s new family to investigate. Solemn soon finds themselves the recipient of powerful abilities that give them a unique role in the growing conflict. And before long, Solemn and family are not only fighting to become happier, kinder, and greater— but also for the fate of the entire Helian afterlife.


…I don’t think that having lived through shit means you need to be a shit person. Sure, some misfortunate people are going to have personalities that push them towards being shit people, but… those people were likely going to be shit people anyway, unless people guided them a little more carefully.

orphiebaby, (edited )

No it’s not? Not being a shithead is a completely different expectation from becoming financially stable?

orphiebaby,

…I wouldn’t have started doing crime, or shooting people?

orphiebaby,

My housemate lost his awesome mom when he was like, 10, because of that. She refused to go to the hospital because she couldn’t afford it, and it got infected. Fuck this country.

orphiebaby,

This sounds incredibly illegal? Where the fuck is the law?

orphiebaby,

Ha

orphiebaby,

I do this too. But of course some cat like some or most people food more than others. My cat eats ranch dressing, eggs, dairy, and oils. She’ll eat a few meats too. But she is mostly uninterested in human food, so I fulfill her curiosity often because it’s kind to my cat and it helps stave off her desire to beg. I also thinks she just trusts me more and is more fond of me because I engage with her in her interests a lot. Hell, that’s just good advice for raising children too.

orphiebaby,

Godwin’s Law may not invalidate an argument, but it sure can make people ignore it.

orphiebaby,

He might not have a good argument, but everyone who uses “pussy” as a derogatory should get beat up by a woman.

orphiebaby,

It’s not biological, it’s social and cultural. Women are low-key conditioned to think and/or state that they are more dependent and not as smart. It’s shitty.

orphiebaby,

“Get informed”

Bold of you to tell people to do something that dangerous, Amazon.

orphiebaby,

Nah, the title says they shot up a Latino and a black for doing math.

orphiebaby,

I think maybe a lot of people failed to see that “Sure.” doesn’t necessarily mean sarcasm, and didn’t used to.

orphiebaby,

You clearly don’t.

orphiebaby,

Not a bad take, clearly can be read that way in the English. But I don’t read Greek, so I can’t tell you one way or the other.

orphiebaby, (edited )

Literally can’t happen, at least not on the scale y’all like to imply, not in the way Linux is today. If your OS doesn’t work with a ton of peoples’ hardware at all, no wide adoption. Don’t pretend this doesn’t happen-- it happens all the time. I was never able to get sound working on Ubuntu with mainstream hardware. If your OS requires a ton of technical knowledge to get any basic hardware or software feature working, no wide adoption. If your OS runs any commonplace software in a glitchy, super-slow way, no wide adoption. Wide adoption of desktop Linux is just not going to happen until a distro has a well-organized, goal-oriented, QA-pushing non-profit such as Mozilla making sure it works for the masses, on almost any hardware.

orphiebaby,

Also, if she wanted to do it, adoptions are always needed.

orphiebaby,

A sane response in a sea of bullshit.

orphiebaby,

Pure democracy = rule of the stupid because there’s more of them.

orphiebaby,

You had me in the first half, appealing to my desire to have empathy. You had me in the second half, on the floor laughing.

orphiebaby, (edited )

I know this kind of post is not supposed to be taken seriously, but they’re so haphazard and forced that I don’t find them funny. I’m getting sick of these billions of poorly-thought-out “moral + lawful alignment” charts for things that have little to no morality or lawfulness attached, trying to tell us what kind of person we are if we do what, and being wildly off-the-mark. For this one and most others, most of the entries are “lawful good/neutral”, because they are valid and effective ways to protect your fucking bread, done by someone who sees it important to do so. If you really want to start categorizing the way tons of different people do shit, find a more appropriate format.

orphiebaby,

Came here to say this. X is doing worse than Reddit.

orphiebaby,

Yes, I would also like to know about this Larry Ellison.

orphiebaby,

I literally never got sound working on Ubuntu. MSI motherboard, Phenom II quad at the time.

orphiebaby,

100% false.

orphiebaby,

In everything funny there is a trace of something true

Patently false. Or are all racist jokes true?

orphiebaby,

I just used Bitwarden to transfer all my online accounts to Proton Mail. Granted it was from Tutanota, but I did it before from Gmail to Tutanota.

The new transfer took me my mornings for like two weeks. Glad to have it done.

orphiebaby,

The hell are you talking about?

What are some FOSS programs that you think are a far better user experience than their counterparts? (sh.itjust.works)

I used Plex for my home media for almost a year, then it stopped playing nice for reasons I gave up on diagnosing. While looking at alternatives, I found Jellyfin which is much more responsive, IMO, and the UI is much nicer as well....

orphiebaby,

I think PotPlayer is a lot better than VLC— although it’s a little weird out-of-the-box, so you have to change a few of its many, many customizable settings.

orphiebaby,

“Every morning while I drink my coffee, I start up Ubuntu, load up Microsoft Edge, have a good laugh, and then close it.”

orphiebaby,

+1 for Sumatra. Use that and a thumbnail loader, and it’s superior to Calibre for a library of books (ePub, PDF, CBR, CBZ).

I also use Notepad++ and qBittorrent. Looking into Inkscape now. Firefox is the best.

orphiebaby,

I’m too sleepy to list them, but check it out. Right-click and check out the options, it’s like an explosion xD

orphiebaby,

That’s not what I was told on the multiple sites that I stumbled on when searching for an all-purpose digital book reader. But you’re probably right, and they’re probably wrong.

orphiebaby,

I see.

orphiebaby,

It’s more that it’s clunky, bugged, and unusable than “it’s missing features”. It tries to rectify this with a very terrible and still often unusable CSS editor

orphiebaby,

I see.

orphiebaby,

Hello, new community subscription!

orphiebaby,

I don’t know why this is here, but I love it.

orphiebaby,

Now I want to watch Bedknobs & Broomsticks again.

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