Petition for lemmy.world to close registrations.

I just realized that none of the comments or posts I made in the last week from my instance are getting to lemmy.world.

I went to see if I my instance was defederated. No, still showing as connected.

I then went to see if I got blocked or banned. Nope, my username is not showing up in the modlog anywhere.

Is it because my instance is small? I guess not, because I can interact with people and communities from anywhere else just fine.

At the moment, the only plausible explanation I have is that lemmy.world is overwhelmed and dropping messages from smaller instances. They do however everything in their power to keep more users coming up.

Yeah, I get that they were being attacked. I can only imagine that getting DDOS’d is not fun, and worrying about the Schmoes on the smaller instances is not a top concern.

But even in the middle of these constant outages and attacks, the lemmy.world admins are still keeping registrations open? Why? Wouldn’t it be better if they encouraged the users to move out of the instance to reduce the load? Isn’t the whole point of decentralized technologies to be, you know, decentralized?

I shouldn’t have to come here, create an account and make things even more centralized just so that I can tell people that this attitude is hurting the fediverse.

I wouldn’t be so pissed at this if it weren’t for the fact that some many communities were created here and is making this particular instance a crucial part of the fediverse, but the admins seems to be more worried about getting their user count up than the health of the overall system.

Please, admins, the more you go with this unstable federation and open registrations, the more of an incentive you are creating to centralize this further here. Help the fediverse and help yourselves. Close down registrations and focus on ensuring that everyone can access the communities that are being formed here.

pewgar_seemsimandroid,

i have a somewhat large instance (we have best 196)

CantSt0pPoppin,
@CantSt0pPoppin@lemmy.world avatar

Hey, so I’m a nobody but I always have something to say and here are some things for you to think about.

Yeah, you’re frustrated and it’s clear that you’re concerned about the health of the fediverse, and that’s a good attitude. Just know that I can’t speak for .world admins, but I might be able to help you understand some of their decisions.

Have you even considered that they’re just trying to organically grow the userbase?

.world is one of the most popular instances, and for good reason. With open registrations, they will come. You know the movie Field of Dreams? He built it, and they came. The same could be said about .world.

Another thought to chew on is the fact that they’re just not able to close registrations at this time.

The instance is being DDoSed to the point of possibly stretching resources thin, and they may have to balance the influx of new users at this time.

At the end of the day, whatever the reason is, sure, the admins need to work hard on creating policies that help lemmy and lemmy.world grow in a healthy way.

The health of lemmy should come first, but in order to stay healthy, admins have to make hard choices, and there has to be a little give and take from everyone, including the users of the instance, not just them.

It’s good to outline your concerns, but maybe next time consider being a little more constructive and looking at the whole picture.

There are a lot of moving parts, and I, for one, am quite impressed with what I’ve seen so far. They’ve chosen the right servers, mitigated serious issues behind the scenes, and above all else, have put up with me.

So, yeah, maybe chill out a little bit and give them some time to work things out.

I’m sure they’re doing their best to keep the fediverse healthy, and I’m confident that they’ll figure things out.

In the meantime, why don’t you go create some content and help build up the fediverse?

That’s always a good way to make a difference.

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/90453334-1497-4d12-94c6-4bdf1859b307.mp4

YoBuckStopsHere,
@YoBuckStopsHere@lemmy.world avatar

Well Said!

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/8f1304e3-29c8-4253-9112-03c60f52ceae.png

maegul,
@maegul@lemmy.ml avatar

A general thought about centralisation on the fediverse …

Across various platforms, relatively large instances appear to be a common, arguably “natural” phenomenon. mastodon.social, firefish.social, kbin.social, lemmy.world, pixelfed.social etc (see the fedidb page for platforms for data).

So, without judging it as inherently good or bad for the fediverse, it might be worth understanding why/how this comes to be. In that vein, my immediate thoughts:

  • Decentralisation isn’t naturally attractive and has obvious flaws. It’s off-putting if you don’t understand what’s going on, raises questions that hard to get answers to such as “how are the admins of that instance” and “what problems will I face that I’m not being told about”, and generally introduces decisions and information that get in the way of starting an account and jumping in to the platform.
  • Network effects are real and would naturally lead to run away centralisation.
  • People seek “trust-worthiness” (related to the first point), and amidst uncertainty about which instance to pick, the obvious, and maybe only clear signal of trustworthiness is the size of an instance.
  • In the case of lemmy, the location of communities adds an extra dimension, which, given that you need an account on an instance to create a community there, contributes an additional centralising factor.

If excessive centralisation is to be avoided, whatever the threshold is, I’d bet accounting for these factors (and whatever others are in play) would be necessary. Some random thoughts along these lines:

  • Large central instances could do more to promote instance diversity. I’ve seen ruud say that lemmy.world will be doing something along those lines shortly (stated on mastodon).
  • Smaller instances could do more to clearly state why and how their instance is attractive. How invested are the admins into maintaining the instance long term, what’s their moderation/(de-)federation policy, do they have a team of some sort, who are they generally on some sort of personal level etc.
  • join-lemmy and bigger instances could do more to surface the above information about other instances.
  • The lemmy community (or any other fediverse community) could do more to establish norms about what is expected of instances, admins and communicating where instances and admins are in terms of these norms.
    • I see open source licences as a good model. Basically, various “pacts” get written up over time, which are statements of values and commitments that admins and users enter into when they run or join an instance. Various instances adopt particular (or various) pacts which made clear to all new members.
  • A bit more adventurous … I’m wondering if “community only” and “user only” instances might make sense at all?
    • No idea if the division of load here would actually help anything, but I’m curious.
    • One issue would be how do users create communities on a “community-only” instance, and I figure the easiest way through that is allow users to sign in to the instance with their credentials from “user only” instances. A bit of software work would be required, but it’s been done on the fediverse before.

Beyond all of that, it might be worth considering the benefits of a relatively big “central” instance. Namely, AFAIU, that they test the limits of the software, which is useful for future growth, they can probably muster larger moderation teams, though such often has scaling issues, and, to be fair, provide the easy landing spot for newcomers who don’t know how (or why) to pick an instance.

1984,
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

I feel like picking your first instance is not as important as you make it out to be here.

It’s similar to registering on a web site, and all these decisions you talk about sound like you are choosing a partner for life. Is she responsible? Will she take care of the children?

It really isn’t the end of the world if you pick a small instance and you don’t like it, I promise.

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

There are tools out to help you (at least partly) migrate your account. It won’t migrate your posts and comments but it will migrate your subscriptions.

github.com/wescode/lemmy_migrate

Also !syncforlemmy is working on implementing this feature.

1984,
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

Yeah i know, I think it’s very good that it’s coming in the clients soon. Us technical folks can run command line utilities for this but probably a few users would run into issues with those.

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

Yeah it’s command line and python so definitely not suited for everyone. It’s why I point out that the Sync dev is working in it. All of it is just growing pains…

Rooki,
@Rooki@lemmy.world avatar

lol your instance is considered “Compromised” from totalvirus and malwarebytes.

1984, (edited )
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

Can you send me a link? That sounds weird. :)

Your post made me curious so I scanned it with a number of tools:

www.urlvoid.com/scan/lemmy.today/

transparencyreport.google.com/…/search?url=lemmy.…

sitecheck.sucuri.net/results/lemmy.today

Looks fine?

Rooki,
@Rooki@lemmy.world avatar

The first url says directly Found: 1 from fortinet. Could be false positive. But still weird.

1984,
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

Hmm it didn’t a minute ago.

That’s weird. Probably a false positive but will ask the instance owner.

Rooki,
@Rooki@lemmy.world avatar

They could probably ask them to remove the false positive.

1984,
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

If I had to guess, they saw exploding-heads.com and flagged it or something. One user from there posted comments on lemmy.today where he had that link. And that instance seems blocked by lemmy.world and others.

Some other guy said they are trolls but I don’t know anything about them.

mrmanager,
@mrmanager@lemmy.today avatar

Im the instance owner of lemmy.today. I contacted fortinet about this and will share their response when it comes.

The instance is running latest version of the default lemmy software on a rented server by Hetzner, so Im very curious what they say about this. There is nothing else on it. :)

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

Could be that the IP you are using was used for something else before… Before it was thrown back in the pool and assigned to you.

LW is also hosted at Hetzner btw.

mrmanager,
@mrmanager@lemmy.today avatar

Could be but there was a button at the top of the scanning site where I could push to make a fresh scan. And still it shows up as phishing.

Very mysterious but it will be interesting to find out why…

mrmanager,
@mrmanager@lemmy.today avatar

I’m glad LW is hosted there too, it’s a good service and really good customer service as well.

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

Yes I have been using Hetzner for over 20 years so I was happy to find out Ruud chose them for LW too :)

mrmanager,
@mrmanager@lemmy.today avatar

Well everyone else is extreamly overpriced. I work with cloud environments as part of my job, and its silly the amount of money being spent on AWS.

“Pay for what you use” is more like “pay us for every little thing that would be free if you owned the server”.

maegul,
@maegul@lemmy.ml avatar

So I’m going to push back against your response here pretty hard.

First, I’m not talking about myself, I’m trying to understand general user behaviour … so going ad hominem here or presuming I’m projecting my own problems isn’t productive or useful.

Second … “it isn’t that hard” is, IMO, the mantra of someone choosing not to understand the users, which can become a pretty toxic behaviour or perspective.

You state …

picking your first instance is not as important as you make it out to be here

(emphasis mine)

The pertinent questions here are:

  • How is a new user supposed to know that?
  • Where has such information been provided?
  • How clearly and easily discoverable is that information?
  • How convincing and comprehensible is that information for a newcomer?
  • How much does digesting this information ultimately contribute to the load of signing up for lemmy such that it ultimately doesn’t alter the fact that picking an instance, or learning that it doesn’t matter which instance you pick, is friction that is easy to bypass by simply picking the big central instance?

If you were trying to help me … thanks … but I wasn’t talking about me … rather the generic “new user”.

And none of what you say about it being not as important doesn’t really alter the reality that the friction of decentralisation makes (re-)centralisation around a big instance the path of least resistance and therefore the common choice for many newcomers.

iopq,

I joined vlemmy and subscribed to a bunch of communities. What communities was I subscribed to? I’ll never know because it’s down forever

1984,
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

Doesn’t sound like a huge personal loss to me but sure… You would have to resub to stuff that interests you. :)

zkfcfbzr,

Just spitballing an idea I haven’t fully thought out: One interesting way to avoid excessive centralization may be to display a “Join lemmy” button to logged-out users, more prominent than the “Register” button, which redirects to join-lemmy.org/instances instead of the instance registration page. Though I agree with your point about join-lemmy in its current form being somewhat underwhelming as an onboarder. In addition to what you mentioned it could do with some filters (For language, at a minimum) and sorting (For instance age, size). Even adding a button that basically says “I understand the instance I pick isn’t that important, just send me to a random reliable one please” would help a lot.

In the long term I also hope Lemmy evolves to actually make the instance you’re on matter less - for example, by changing defaults on the homepage and search page to “All” instead of “Local”, showing global subscriber count instead of instance subscriber count when searching communities, adding ways to migrate accounts and communities between instances, and perhaps even adding a way to merge one instance into another if one admin no longer wants to maintain their instance, and another admin is willing to absorb them.

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

That is now a viable option since join-lemmy has finally updated with more instances. Before it was the same 6…

r00ty,
@r00ty@kbin.life avatar

A bit more adventurous … I’m wondering if “community only” and “user only” instances might make sense at all?

I suggested this in another thread. However I've come to see an issue with that idea. The users.

It's very hard to change the URL of an instance for federation purposes. All the existing posts and comments that exist everywhere will reference the original URLs.

My suggestion was to move the user side to a new URL. But, the problem there is that lemmy.world is one of the main instances that are suggested to potential fediverse denizens. I suppose the user based URLs could redirect to a new lemmy user only instance keeping the original federating.

It would make some difference in terms of load because the one central point both federation and user activity is going to hit is the SQL server. The user side would be just one more instance pulling data from the federating site. And all user activity would hit the new dedicated DB. There's still going to be an upper limit without moving toward clustered SQL servers and the like.

I think there's a real problem with advertising the fediverse on places like reddit. Because, in one post you'll never properly explain the fediverse. It's a bit like the Matrix. You need to see it for yourself. As such, what would seem like the sensible thing to do (point people to fedidb or the observer one) will likely confuse people initially. Pointing them to lemmy.world or kbin.social makes sense for this reason, get engaged and understand later. So, I'm not sure how the long term solution to this goes.

maegul,
@maegul@lemmy.ml avatar

Tangential comment about sorting algorithms.

As of writing, this post has a score of 3, with 36 up and 33 downvotes. There’s a “Controversial” sorting algorithm in the works for lemmy, where controversity is high “engagement” (ie, lots of votes) but diverging opinions (ie low total scores) … and this is precisely what that feed would be for … kinda interesting!

Geth,

Honestly, I moved away from that instance after days of issues, downtimes and timeouts. Been a smooth experience since then. It’s unfortunate that they are more focussed on grabbing as many new users as possible instead of giving the existing users a stable experience.

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

You have no idea how much work is being put in to get things stable. That’s an insult to everyone working in the background together even with other instance admins. Other admins help because they know we all benefit from these growing pains.

A lot of you who come with these remarks seem to forget that the fediverse is still very small. If you want to compare it to reddit the entire fediverse isn’t even the size of a medium subreddit.

1984,
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

I actually want to make it super clear that I think the admins of Lemmy.world are amazing in the way they take care of their instance. They are absolutely doing everything they can to make it a good place for everyone.

But at the same time, I feel that having all users on a few large instances is going back to being centralized, and I think they would see this if they took a step back and looked at what’s happening now. They clearly wants all users to be on their own or the other already large instances. This is their egos making decisions, not their hearts.

But still I have respect for what they are doing. It’s a lot of work and they are under fire all the time. And without all that work, the experience for new users of Lemmy.world would be horrible. So big thank you for that.

antik, (edited )
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

Again, the fediverse is still very small. We hope that the fediverse will continue to grow and what is wrong about actively working towards, helping the fediverse as a whole? We work together with other instance admins… But for some reason it is bad to be successful and we don’t have our hearts in this?

Damned if you do, damned if you don’t…

1984,
@1984@lemmy.today avatar

Yeah I kind of sympathize with that feeling. You are trying to do good, that’s very obvious. Hope you have a good day.

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

Thanks. Same to you

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Stop comparing it to reddit. Reddit is a for-profit company with 2000 employees and a centralized system that can gives them the benefit of economies and efficiencies of scale.

The Fediverse is a decentralized system. Decentralized systems are not made to be efficient, they are made to be robust and resilient. The different nodes are meant to be doing more work overall, but that is okay because it means that even if one of the nodes is overloaded or faulty, the system as a whole continues to function.

The more you argue that we should even compare lemmy.world (or anyone else in the fediverse) with reddit, the more concerned I get that the mods and admins there don’t get the point of decentralization.

antik, (edited )
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

I am just pointing out how small the entire fediverse is by giving something comparable.

Wander,
@Wander@yiffit.net avatar

Hey, this happened to us recently. In your database check the table called 'instance ’ and make sure the value for ‘updated’ is less than three days old for lemmy.world

There are false positives regarding the detection of “dead instances” in the latest version of Lemmy and it’s actually your instance that stops sending out messages to lemmy.world

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Ok, you might be on to something. The updated value is set to 2023-06-11. Should I force this value to be recent?

redcalcium,

Yes, try it and see if it works. Lemmy really does skip federating with an instance if hasn’t been marked as updated for more than three days: github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy/…/scheduled_tasks.rs#L3…

Wander,
@Wander@yiffit.net avatar

Yes. That should fix it. There is instances that are genuinely down. Later today I’ll try to share a script to detect which ones are down and which aren’t via curl. In our case we had 350+ false positives.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Thank you, unfortunately I don’t think it worked. My posts from the last week or so are still not visible here.

Wander,
@Wander@yiffit.net avatar

It only works for new posts. Try creating something new in a community that you know lemmy.world knows about.

Older posts may appear progressively, but there’s no guarantees.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Nice! That did it! Thank you so much!

Wander,
@Wander@yiffit.net avatar

Do you know if you had any cronjob running close to 0:00 (server time, possibly UTC) that could have interfered with the validation of dead instances that lemmy now does?

I’m trying to figure out what could have interfered with these checks in the first place.

redcalcium, (edited )

This sounds serious. I’m going to check my own instance too just in case.

Edit: Phew, looks like there is nothing wrong in my instance. Here is a comment from Nutomic describing how the dead instances check works: github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy/pull/3427#issuecomment-… . Basically, if your instance is unlucky enough to fail to connect to, say, lemmy.world when it runs the daily check three times in a row (because lemmy.world happen to be down at that time), then it might decided to skip federating with lemmy.world. Three days might be too short for this check, should’ve been a week imo.

sabreW4K3,
@sabreW4K3@lemmy.tf avatar

@jon dunno if this is helpful. I’m seeing everything, I think. But just in case.

JJROKCZ,

Do you have any proof of any of this? Lol this just reads like a rant that your server isn’t as popular and it isn’t fair so the popular host should just stop taking on new users because reasons

ram,
@ram@lemmy.ca avatar

What’s the point of your post? You’re just critiquing for the sake thereof.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

My instance is not meant to be “popular”. It’s just for me and some friends, it’s federating just fine, I can receive all the posts but whatever I write does not get here.

antik, (edited )
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

I understand. Send it to me in PM sonwe can investigate. This will be kept private.

Edit: so far I have not received anything from this user so I don’t think getting this resolved is the primary objective.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

You don’t need my instance to help me here. I already asked: can I just take the comment from lemmy.world/u/[email protected] as an indication that I can bump the updated value in the instance record? If I run something like UPDATE instance SET updated = ‘NOW()’ WHERE domain = ‘lemmy.world’, will the communication be re-established?

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

Technically that should work.

And the reason I asked for your instance name is so we could check this in our db table or check if your instance IP didn’t end up on our banlist.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Isn’t the banlist public, available in the modlog?

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

No this is done on the webserver not in Lemmy. And these are not “instances” specifically these are IP’s who are overloading the API’s with expensive requests.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Aside from version updates, I haven’t changed my server setup since I set it up months ago, and my instance has only a handful of active users. Only two of them subscribed to !fediverse.

Also, keep in mind that I am receiving updates just fine (maybe with some delay) the problem is that nothing I post on the lemmy.world communities end up visible here.

Little8Lost,

the more i read here the more i wish that you simply message the mods in private and give them stuff like the instance name.
They have NO reason to dox you.
From what i got you guessed the issue by testing around on YOUR side. You dont know anything about their side so you cant 100% identify the problem.
If you want to have the conversations outside of Lemmy i am sure that they would accept if you create a throw away matrix account and talk over this.

The issue you have others could have too and if you are not able to talk about it with others could have propblems too.
I mean it could be some weird bug that no one else discovered so far.

What would really help if you speak with the other devs, only talk about facts (not assumptions based on facts, that are still assumptions), stay calm and hydrated

youarehurtingthefediverse,

They have NO reason to dox you.

If I get into details to explain why they do have reason to dox me, it could be used to dox me. Kind of tricky and maybe I’m being paranoid, but I don’t want to risk it.

sabreW4K3,
@sabreW4K3@lemmy.tf avatar

This was brought up a few days ago on ml

lemmy.tf/post/441333

LW_NewModWanted,

@ruud when you have time

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

We are not ‘dropping’ messages from smaller instances. @ruud and others did tighten up some things to fend off some attacks but that should not interfere with the federation.

If you could have at least mentioned your instance name we could ask our backend administrators to have a look and we could get back to you with an informed answer.

We will not close registrations, what we will do is show people information on how the fediverse works and give them the option to register on other instances. That will be implemented in the next couple of days.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Why is it so vital for you to keep registrations open? Can you please help me understand the logic behind it?

antik, (edited )
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

Instead of mentioning your instance so we can help you you seem to have other motives.

Edit: but if you want the logic. We had discussions internally as well as with other instance admins about this and the conclusion was - even from other instance admins - that closing registrations would be a bad idea. Currently a lot of people are sent to lemmy.world from reddit and 3rd party apps for example. If people land here and are not able to register they might not look into it further and give up because it is too complicated or overwhelming. So that would actually be worse for the fediverse. That is why we want to make the sign up page more informative and provide options.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

If people land here and are not able to register they might not look into it further and give up because

Sorry, that’s a really bad excuse. Lemmy allows to have custom messages/taglines on the registration page, why not just add a quick paragraph saying “registration is closed because this server is overwhelmed, but here is a list of servers that you can use”.

Make it a rotating list, change it every 2-3 days if you want.

TheSpookiestUser,
@TheSpookiestUser@lemmy.world avatar

Is the large amount of users actually the reason for the downtime? I thought it was coordinated attacks.

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

It’s the attacks. The amount of users or communities is not the problem but there are people who want us to close down (registrations) for a variety of reasons.

antik,
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

So are you here to make us close registrations or do you want help with your problem?

youarehurtingthefediverse,

I’m also here to expose bad excuses.

As for help, @Wander has pointed me to the right direction, and he didn’t need to know my instance to do so…

antik, (edited )
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

Well he didn’t implement IP bans on his instance I bet. The reason I asked for this information is so I could check if your IP ended up on our banlist or check if it was marked as inactive.

blightbow, (edited )
@blightbow@kbin.social avatar

I’m also here to expose bad excuses.

Not being able to help someone who is refusing to provide technical detail is a pretty damn good excuse in this industry.

If your goal is to expose the bad excuses of others, step one is to put in as much effort as you're expecting from others. :P

Edit for good measure: (links fixed, forgot about direct linking comments from outside of a lemmy instance)

  • Your instance was not federating with lemmy.world. [1]
  • You assumed that the blame had to rest on lemmy.world because you had "eliminate[d] all the possibilities [you] had at hand". [2]
  • You made this post to vent about a bunch of unrelated nonsense and refused to provide technical detail that would assist the admins in troubleshooting. It's a given fact that your privacy is your choice, but it's also a given that you shouldn't be a dick about it if you choose to withhold details, even from PM. For the record, the information being requested was the bare minimum for an instance administrator to troubleshoot network interactions with a remote instance.
  • A random (but cool) third party identified the issue with your instance not federating. [3]
  • Instead of apologizing, you proceeded to act like you were entitled to that solution from the admins you wrongly accused. [4] You are not god's gift to the internet and they are not technical support for your instance.

There's no room for niceties here, you are either an asshole in denial or some brat who is too young to know any better. Sleep on it. Come to terms with that fact and make good on it, or don't. You aren't worth anyone's energy, and I'm only bothering with this summary for everyone else's sake. Your problem is fixed, it was never on lemmy.world's side to begin with, and somehow you are still acting like the failure of the admins to figure out what was busted with your shit is some Sherlock gotcha moment.

I am unaffiliated with lemmy.world and my toxicity does not represent the opinions of the admins. (but they're probably thinking it)

Chozo,

I get the feeling that you've never been in charge of UX before. What you're suggesting would be an absolutely terrible user experience. You have to realize that not everybody is as interested in new things as you or I might be, so even the smallest of hurdles will be prohibitive for most users.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

You know what else is an even worse user experience? When people are basically forced to assimilate with the Borg instead of being able to participate from their own side of things, through no fault of their own.

ttmrichter,
@ttmrichter@lemmy.world avatar

Dude, you’ve been asked at least ten times now (I stopped counting when I reached ten) if you’ve addressed your technical problem with the admins here. Ten times (or, likely, many more) you’ve avoided answering that question which implies, naturally, that you have not.

You’re not interested in solving a problem. You’re interested in being “right”, even if you’re utterly, completely, and inescapably in the wrong.

Go back to your instance and flail your arms like a toddler in a tantrum over there, please. Or, you know, work with the admins to solve your problem where it actually exists instead of where the voices in your head are telling you it is.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Instead of counting, try reading. It’s not about “the technical problem”. It’s about the fact that my instance:

  • has not done anything wrong
  • is wrongly being cut off with communication from half of the whole fediverse
  • the admins don’t see any problem with this erratic growth and the ripple effects is causing elsewhere
  • I am literally getting told by the majority to “go back where I came from”.

Let me see if I can it myself clear: If lemmy.world was 10-20% of the whole userbase, I wouldn’t have to care about them. But because they are growing so much and don’t seem to be intent of self-regulating, their growing pains is causing problems to those in the minority instances.

I don’t mind repeating it or trying to find different ways to explain it, but the point I’d like you all to understand is that lemmy.world needs to organize itself before focusing on further growth, and this is why I am asking to close the registrations.

Chozo,

Why do I get the feeling that your instance probably had some hateful shit on it and you're upset that nobody wants to see it? It seems like you're not telling the whole story here. Can you please be honest and share the details about what the hell it is you're actually getting at?

youarehurtingthefediverse,

That is completely off the mark, but it’s interesting: lemmy.world’s approach to growth is reckless and causing issues elsewhere, someone is calling it out, and yet you are trying to make this about me instead of addressing the problem that am pointing out.

Chozo,

Nobody can help with the problem, though, when you won't share any details. Maybe I'm way off, like you said, but you won't elaborate as to how, so what takeaway do you expect people to have here?

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Sorry, I am starting to get tired of repeating myself. Can you go through my history and see the 3 or 4 comments where I am arguing that the main point of my post is not specifically about the technical issue that is affecting me, but instead a larger point about how this idea that letting one instance grow and dominating the userbase while having so many issues is irresponsible?

Geert,
@Geert@lemmy.world avatar

Think that was clear from the username.

Geert,
@Geert@lemmy.world avatar

The only solution for you is “close registrations” while the admins already pointed out another solution that’s in the works. For someone who says he doesn’t want to keep repeating yourself you did that plenty. You want YOUR solution, not A solution.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

At this moment, lemmy.world has 8x as many MAU as lemmy.ml and it has pretty much as much users as ALL of the top 10 combined.

Let’s make a deal. If they manage to bring this down to less than ~35% after two weeks after they implement their solution, then I will shut up about it and you never hear from me. If they don’t, then they close registrations. Sounds reasonable?

Geert,
@Geert@lemmy.world avatar

No you stopped sounding reasonable right after hitting the submit button when you posted this.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Nice jab! Now can you please address the argument? If changing the registration page is a good solution, what should be the expected change in userbase split?

BURN,

There’s absolutely no need to change it.

People aren’t going to go to other instances if they close LW. They’re going to go back to Reddit or Twitter or whatever platform they came from. Adding additional barriers to entry is not a good thing.

I’d bet 75%+ of the people on the platform don’t really understand or care about federation. They want something that works. And outside of the DDOS/Attacks LW has worked extremely well. Decentralization isn’t a perk to most users.

As the fediverse scales 100k user instances aren’t going to be uncommon, and that’s fine. LW is serving as a pseudo test bed and it’s exposed a lot of problems that would not otherwise get fixed.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Can we please stop pretending that this is being done for the good of the people? If the people are “going back to reddit” because they are not being spoon-fed and getting their food pre-chewed, then they are robbing themselves of the opportunity to learn and grow.

Stop treating everyone like helpless idiots, and the majority of them will show that they are actually quite capable.

BURN,

Most people are helpless idiots. This is giving off major “iamverysmart” vibes. The majority of users will not bother with poor UX. If they encounter barriers to entry they won’t go around them, they just won’t enter. If we ever want even a minority of users to adopt the platform you have to make it an easy experience.

Edit: Also great job not addressing any of the actual points in my comment. You managed to find the tiniest offhand comment that you could write a rebuttal for and ignored the rest, just as you have in every other comment in the thread. Your goal is to argue, not to get your problem solved

antik, (edited )
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

So he just wants us to close and leave them in the dark, right?

This is being handled by a team that knows what they are doing. Together with someone that contributes to Lemmy.

AnonymousLlama,
@AnonymousLlama@kbin.social avatar

Perfectly fair. People coming from Reddit specifically need to be eased into the fediverse and saying "whoops sorry we're full / closed" isn't great.

Ideally if we want things balanced people should be on multiple instances but I'd rather several slower, bigger instances in the meantime until the community expands.

Cheers for the work you guys do!

PaulDevonUK,
@PaulDevonUK@lemmy.world avatar

“If you could have at least mentioned your instance name we could ask our backend administrators to have a look and we could get back to you with an informed answer.”

Try answering their request. Stop going on about registrations, at least until the above is resolved.

antik, (edited )
@antik@lemmy.world avatar

I think it is already answered in this thread.

  • let us know which instance (even by pm) do we can have an informed reply as to what is going on. There have been changes made in the backend to fend of attacks but this should not affect federation.
  • There is a bug in Lemmy where instances are too early marked as ‘inactive’ and will stop federating.

Btw the title of this thread is ‘stop registrations’ not ‘help me find out what is going on’.

Plopp,

Personal anecdote: I probably wouldn’t have joined Lemmy if it wasn’t for lemmy.world and I think I’m far from alone.

Decoy321,

I concur. I am one of those people as well.

AnonymousLlama,
@AnonymousLlama@kbin.social avatar

People hear from others that Lemmy is the place you go and when searched for you end up here. Having registrations closed doesn't sound like a great idea when most people have no idea about the fediverse

Xylinna,
@Xylinna@lemmy.world avatar

I agree with you. I chose Lemmy.World because it was listed as a general instance and the others were very specific and I was still trying to navigate what the Fediverse even was. If Lemmy.World hadn’t been an option I would probably have stuck to Squabbles or Kbin.

SmashingSquid,

Same, I started with Lemmy.world to begin with because I didn’t really understand the fediverse and didn’t want to go through choosing. After I understood federation more I set up my own instance. If I didn’t start with Lemmy.world I probably wouldn’t have tried Lemmy at all.

zecg,
@zecg@lemmy.world avatar

Apes together strong.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

As for why I am not naming my instance: this post went to -1 as soon as it got posted. My comments are also being downvoted quite quickly. I don’t believe that I am being rude or uncivil, yet it feels like mods and admins are more worried about fighting to keep the status quo than helping the community at large, and I’d worry about retaliation.

elrac,
@elrac@kbin.social avatar

I mean, you named your account "you are hurting the fediverse" to come and ask them to close registrations then you ignore their questions. Seems kinda rude to me.

zkfcfbzr,

The reason you’re being downvoted is because you experienced a problem (Posts from your instance won’t show up in this instance), came up with a pet theory for why that problem might be happening (This instance must be dropping posts from small instances because it’s overloaded from all the users), assumed it was correct (Based on what, exactly? Because it’s definitely not correct), then came here to post about it in a very confrontational, demanding, and accusatory tone, with a seeming lack of desire or ability to consider that you may be the mistaken one. Moreso, the change you’re suggesting would have dramatic and perhaps negative repercussions for both this instance and Lemmy as a whole.

youarehurtingthefediverse,
  • I did eliminate all the possibilities I had at hand.
  • The only one that offered some hint at a solution was not related to this instance, and was not demanding to know my instance beforehand.
  • The stated reason given to not close registrations fails any smell test.

perhaps negative repercussions for both this instance and Lemmy as a whole.

AKA, “we are too big to fail”?

I’m too old for internet drama and I think that if we want the fediverse to win we need to be a lot more mindful of the collective and avoid tribal thinking. But honestly, this shit with lemmy.world is starting to get a bit weird. I mean, the lemmy devs were recommending from the beginning to not have overly large instances, yet the admins here kept ignoring this and hoarding more people. What is the endgame?

zkfcfbzr,

I’m too old for internet drama

100% of this drama was self-inflicted. You could have PMed an admin describing your problem and asking if they knew what was up. They seem like pretty helpful and reasonable people to me.

AKA, “we are too big to fail”?

Doesn’t really follow from any of what anyone has said - we’re not talking about lemmy.world failing, we’re talking about it closing registration. The one thing Lemmy needs to survive long-term is more active users. Putting up barriers to that, especially on the most popular instance, will hurt growth for the entire lemmyverse - because if there’s one thing new users implicitly don’t understand, it’s how federation works. A decent portion of people who try to sign up and fail will just give up and go back to reddit, and we’re all worse-off for it.

Not to mention that most people who do successfully join figure out how federation works pretty fast, and are more than capable of moving to another instance if they consider any of what you’ve mentioned important to them at all.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

The one thing Lemmy needs to survive long-term is more active users.

They don’t need to be in the same instance

because if there’s one thing new users implicitly don’t understand, it’s how federation works.

Then we take that as an opportunity to educate them instead of tricking them out into believing that it is a good idea to put them all in the same server.

A decent portion of people who try to sign up and fail will just give up and go back to reddit

They will also go back to reddit if they join a server that is constantly having outages.

zkfcfbzr,

They don’t need to be in the same instance

No one, not even the lemmy.world admins, are suggesting that. In this very thread they’ve mentioned imminent plans to educate new users about other instances during the sign-up process.

Then we take that as an opportunity to educate them instead of tricking them out into believing that it is a good idea to put them all in the same server.

Nobody is being tricked here, and you need a seriously warped view of the situation to think otherwise.

They will also go back to reddit if they join a server that is constantly having outages.

You’re still making the same incorrect assumption that your original post made, that the stability issues are even tangentially related to user count instead of ongoing attacks. But again - new users figure out federation within a few days. If the outages bother them they’re smart enough to know they can try a different instance and now likely have the experience needed to know which one may be the best fit for them.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

You’re still making the same incorrect assumption that your original post made, that the stability issues are even tangentially related to user count instead of ongoing attacks.

The issue is not causation, but correlation. Any entity that stands out in an otherwise distributed system are more likely to become a target. Can you agree to that?

zkfcfbzr,

I can agree to that, but I can not and will not agree to the implication that the solution is simply to have no large instances. Federation has a lot of strengths, but it has a lot of weaknesses as well - there are drawbacks to large instances, but there are lots of benefits too, to both the instance and Lemmy as a whole, and closing new registrations invalidates that.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

will not agree to the implication that the solution is simply to have no large instances.

The instance is already large as it is. Closing down registrations will not reduce the size of the instance. It will just stop it from growing even more and it would give a chance for other instances to help spread the load.

zkfcfbzr,

Closing registrations will reduce the size because users are dynamic: New users join and old users leave with any system. Close registration and you’re left with only old users leaving.

I also disagree with the implicit argument that lemmy.world is “large enough”. It’s large compared to most other instances - but in terms of long-term stability I think the lemmyverse needs at least 10x the active user count it currently has and ideally much more than that. They don’t all have to join lemmy.world, but closing the registration page for the most popular onboarding point for the lemmyverse is going to slow growth no matter how you implement it.

Closing registrations to “spread the load” also comes with the assumption that server load from active users is a problem. By all accounts it is not a problem, at all, for lemmy.world. If a time comes where there are so many users that it is, maybe they’ll consider something like this.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

It’s large compared to most other instances

Yes, of course, and this is what needs to change!

going to slow growth no matter how you implement it.

First, slowing down growth != stopping growth.

Second, your idea of “growth” seems to imply that we should accept systemic disruptions to the people that are already here. To illustrate the point: assume that the reason that my instance got blocked is indeed because the IP got into some banlist. Through no fault of my own and no change of behavior on my side, I’m now locked out of the conversation with 50% of the Lemmy userbase. Do you think that’s it’s wise/reasonable?

Closing registrations to “spread the load” also comes with the assumption that server load from active users is a problem.

No, that’s not my point. My point is that if one server fucks up, the others don’t get locked out of communication with 50% of the userbase. Closing down registrations would reduce the split.

Think of it in this way… if lemmy.world has 50/60/70% of the userbase and if for some reason it gets disconnected from the fediverse, the admins can just shrug it off and say “oopsie, we will try to fix it whenever, in the meantime come and join us because it works here.” The minority gets screwed, but there is little incentive for the majority to care. On the other hand, if lemmy.world has “only” 15-30% of the userbase and there are other servers of similar size, if lemmy.world screws up, it will be in their interest to fix it.

Do you understand it now, and do you understand why me having to create an account here in order to be able to make myself heard is so disturbing?

zkfcfbzr,

Yes, of course, and this is what needs to change!

I disagree that just having large instances, in and of itself, is a problem.

the second part

Slowing growth is still a gigantic downside when growth is one of the most important needs for the platform.

For your scenario: You could argue that this is actually a good thing from your perspective. You realized there was a problem because lemmy.world is so big. If most instances were of equal size you likely wouldn’t have noticed there was a problem at all. I’m willing to bet there are other instances you have the same problem with and just haven’t noticed because of how much smaller they are - but lemmy.world’s size helps bring problems like this to light, so they can be fixed.

the third part

That would be spreading the power, rather than spreading the load, on a semantic note.

I don’t disagree with this section in principle - but I do still disagree that the solution is to close registrations. The admins have already stated they have plans to inform new users about other instances during the registration process, and soon. That’s a good faith effort and a good middle ground.

the last part

You having to create an account here isn’t because lemmy.world is too large - it’s because of software issues. You mentioned elsewhere that you made a post from your own instance about the problem (I assume in this community, otherwise why would you expect that to work?) - but if your problem was that content from your instance wasn’t showing up in lemmy.world, I’m not really sure why you expected that to work. It’s not disturbing that you had to create an account here, because you would have had to do so even in the hypothetical scenario where there are, say, 20 main instances with about 4.5% of the active userbase each.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

If most instances were of equal size you likely wouldn’t have noticed there was a problem at all.

If I haven’t noticed the problem, is it really a problem?

I can live in a world where I’m out of reach from maybe 20% of the potential audience, and maybe I wouldn’t mind it if I noticed that a workaround was required for that. But I do very much mind having to live in a world where I have to be checking with the admins what the hell is going on and why I am shut off from communication with the majority through no fault of my own.

That’s a good faith effort and a good middle ground.

Sorry, but we will have to agree to disagree on this one. Saying “we are the largest and easiest place to get started, but if you don’t believe us here are some other places you can take a look” is completely different from “our home is full now, but the cool thing about the fediverse is that you can enjoy it wherever you are”.

Having the inability of saying “we can’t do it, but you can be happy on X, Y and Z” feels like a twisted way of saying “we don’t really care about you, we care about having you”.

Anyway, thank you for at least trying to engage in a productive conversation. Everyone else seems to just want to feel personally attacked and completely missing the point.

zkfcfbzr,

If I haven’t noticed the problem, is it really a problem?

I can live in a world where I’m out of reach from maybe 20% of the potential audience, and maybe I wouldn’t mind it if I noticed that a workaround was required for that. But I do very much mind having to live in a world where I have to be checking with the admins what the hell is going on and why I am shut off from communication with the majority through no fault of my own.

…Yes, it’s still a problem 👀 I can’t believe that needs to be said - stability is nice but reliability is also very important. It’s not good to have entire instances be effectively shadowbanned because of software issues.

While it was through no fault of your own, I’d also like to point out it was through no fault of lemmy.world, since the issue was that your instance was failing to federate to lemmy.world, and not the other way around. Neither the problem nor the fix was ever on lemmy.world’s side.

Sorry, but we will have to agree to disagree on this one. Saying “we are the largest and easiest place to get started, but if you don’t believe us here are some other places you can take a look” is completely different from “our home is full now, but the cool thing about the fediverse is that you can enjoy it wherever you are”.

We’ll keep disagreeing here as well - because it’s not accurate to say lemmy.world is full, nor is it accurate to say lemmy.world is positioning itself as somehow superior to or easier to start with than other instances. Its signup page literally has no text at all other than naming the information fields. Every single page on lemmy.world also has a direct link to join-lemmy.org in the lower right, where lemmy.world isn’t even listed as a recommended instance - just a popular one, in a randomized order list. Even the “Get started” guide in the lemmy.world sidebar takes a completely neutral tone about this instance, explains federation, and links to a site that lists other instances. The success of lemmy.world has nothing to do with bias or unfair practices. I’d wager it’s 90% word-of-mouth.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

stability is nice but reliability is also very important.

Reliability of the system overall? Yes. But reliability in distributed systems is achieved by ensuring that we don’t have single points of failure and by making it “cheap” to fail. Having a gigantic instance in a sea of powerless nodes is quite the opposite of “reliable”.

since the issue was that your instance was failing to federate to lemmy.world.

The issue still persists. I updated the database 3 hours ago, my posts are still not visible here. @Antik claims it might be that my server got into their own “ban list”, which would squarely would make it their fault because (a) other nodes are not doing this and (b) I didn’t make any change on my server infra.

because it’s not accurate to say lemmy.world is full

Yes, it is. It’s not up to them to say it. It’s up to us in the minority side to go on and say “hey, you are taking up too much space”. Which they are.

The success of lemmy.world has nothing to do with bias or unfair practices.

That’s a cop-out. They literally launched their instance on a blog post saying “you already know us from mastodon.world and we want to make lemmy.world equally popular.”

I’d wager it’s 90% word-of-mouth.

If that is true and if they wanted to be responsible with the fediverse, they could (should?) be actively suppressing it, much like lemmy.ml admins did during the reddit blackout.

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I think I get it, in the end of the day you can argue “you can not blame them for their own success”, and normally I’d agree. I am just seriously asking you (and the admins) to reconsider this idea of what “success” is (especially in the context of the fediverse) and I would really like if they could stop for a moment and see of they could to get themselves out of the spotlight in the moment where their “success” is leading to undesired side-effects on others.

ohmyiv, (edited )
@ohmyiv@lemmy.world avatar

If you’re too old for internet drama, why are you starting it? There’s more mature ways to go about this than petitioning to have an instance that isn’t yours shut down registration.

You also don’t seem willing to work with the admins to figure out what is really wrong.

If you have an issue, take it up with the admins privately before jumping to conclusions and starting a petition that doesn’t even do anything except cause drama.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

petitioning to have an instance that isn’t yours shut down.

First, I am not talking about shutting the instance down, I talking about closing down registrations - at least until their stability issues are solved.

Second, do you understand that (to an outsider) what this instance is doing is akin to environmental pollution? Of course the petition will come from someone who is “not from here”, because those are the ones that end up being affected by it!

ohmyiv,
@ohmyiv@lemmy.world avatar

So now youre changing your excuses. And you still didn’t address the root of all the drama you’re causing. Good job avoiding any kind of personal responsibility for all the drama and creating even more. Have you gone to lemmy.ml and demanded the same thing? What about beehaw? What about any other instance than this one? Maybe you should just defed from this instance instead of demanding a bunch of stuff that may not even help your original issue. Or any of the other issues you keep bringing up.

Again, did you even try to contact the admins prior to this? Did you ask the devs of lemmy for assistance? Did you do anything other than make up excuses in your head to hate lemmy.world?

Edit: You’re probably making all this stuff up since you don’t want to address anything.

youarehurtingthefediverse,

Have you gone to lemmy.ml and demanded the same thing?

I don’t have to, the lemmy.ml admins themselves are telling others to join other instances and are doing their part to make sure that the system works.

Maybe you should just defed?

Do you realize that my complaint is because this is exactly what is happening in practice against my own desires? I can see (most) of the messages that come to my instance, but any message that I am write on my instance never shows up here.

may not even help your original issue.

My “original issue” is just a symptom of a larger problem: there is one instance in the fediverse that is growing in a dysfunctional way, like a tumor, and this is causing systemic faults elsewhere. There is a way that this instance could help mitigate this problem (close down registrations until it is better organized and/or there are other instances that can withstand the growth as well) yet the admins have refused to take this measure with (IMHO, seemingly) poor justifications.

Again, did you even try to contact the admins prior to this?

Actually, yes, I wrote a post from my instance hoping it would reach here.

You’re probably making all this stuff up since you don’t want to address anything.

I am really not interested in doxxing myself. Would you blame me, given that I’m apparently in the weak end of a confrontation with a tiny mob?

ohmyiv,
@ohmyiv@lemmy.world avatar

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    youarehurtingthefediverse,

    WHICH YOU STATED THIS POST WAS ORIGINALLY ABOUT.

    Let me repeat. My instance not being to communicate with this is a symptom of a much larger issue: lemmy.world is growing in an unsustainable and irresponsible way, and this is bringing systemic risks to the system as a whole.

    So, no, the post is not about “dropped comments”. The post is hopefully a wake-up call to tell you that this attitude of “let’s keep bringing users no matter what” is cancerous.

    And yes, I did say something to that before in previous interactions, and the response was not that different from this post: a myopic defensiveness, perhaps based on their personal belief that what they are doing is good/ethical, even when others are crying out “this way will bring us all to chaos”.

    ohmyiv, (edited )
    @ohmyiv@lemmy.world avatar

    deleted_by_author

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    youarehurtingthefediverse,

    If they support you, then come together as a group and address the admins

    Honest question: how many different admins do you think it would take for you to consider changing your mind about it?

    since you say you contacted the admins directly, post the proof,

    If I post any proof, I’d be doxxing myself and it should be clear by now that I won’t do that. The last time I said “hey, maybe you should slow down growth”, I was met with the implication that I was saying that out of personal interest.

    So, no. I will not let the admins try to deflect from their irresponsible attitude by trying to make some character assassination.

    Lauchs,

    Yeah, I’ve got no dog in this fight but you do seem to be coming across as a bit of a dingus.

    In my work, when someone comes to me and assumes I or my team is screwing up because they “eliminated all possibilities at hand” 90% of the time, they screwed up and didn’t realize it.

    People rarely make mistakes knowingly. Quite often there’s something they didn’t know or overlooked. If I had to wager, my money would be on you overlooking some small detail.

    I mean, another easy example, you’re taking downvotes as some sign the mods and admins are fighting to maintain the status quo, instead of, y’know, you might be coming off as a bit of a dick…

    blightbow, (edited )
    @blightbow@kbin.social avatar

    In my work, when someone comes to me and assumes I or my team is screwing up because they “eliminated all possibilities at hand” 90% of the time, they screwed up and didn’t realize it.

    Yeah, at that point the onus is on the person putting forth the problem to show their work. Start listing off possibilities that you've eliminated. You can have thirty years of technical experience and still be completely useless by assuming that you're just as smart as the person you're explaining the problem to.

    "I did eliminate all the possibilities I had at hand"? Naw man, anyone dropping that line has only eliminated all possibilities that they can think of, and all of that supposed thinking about "all the possibilities" is worthless if they aren't going to offer it up as a starting point.

    Chozo,

    I don’t believe that I am being rude or uncivil

    Well, herein lies the problem, because the rest of us do. You're assuming that you know better than the people who have been doing this for years, and dismissing their attempts to help as "excuses". I really don't know what other outcome you could have possibly foreseen with this combative attitude.

    ttmrichter,
    @ttmrichter@lemmy.world avatar

    I don’t believe that I am being rude or uncivil

    Dude. You’re literally naming yourself “you are hurting the fediverse”. How 'bout I go to your instance and call myself “@youareafuckingmoron” and ask you politely to change something on your instance? Would you think it just a wee tad uncivil?

    Treczoks,

    Maybe the reason is that you behave like a first-class asshole idiot? You wanted help, but evaded the reasonable question for your instance name. Several times. While making unreasonable demands. I've seen a lot of idiots in thirty years of being on the internet, and seriously, you are one of the bigger ones.

    Evirisu,
    @Evirisu@kbin.social avatar

    I mean, you are demanding something in a very unrespectful way, without considering the negative impact that could have in the grow of the fedi as a whole, and say that any reason why you could be wrong is an excuse that you need to adress. But it must be the admins who need to mantain the status quo if you get downvoted. I think you are not being very self aware.

    1984,
    @1984@lemmy.today avatar

    Would be nice if you could mention more instances than the top 5. The way things look right now, Lemmy is becoming centralized with all communities and users on a handful of servers.

    antik, (edited )
    @antik@lemmy.world avatar

    Another thing to keep in mind is that when an instance goes down you lose the content. Instances should be reliable too. So just listing any random instance and overloading them would not help either. Imagine running a private instance for yourself and some friends and getting randomly listed on the signup page here…

    1984,
    @1984@lemmy.today avatar

    I don’t think small instances have a reliability problem. They actually lack users right now. And of course you wouldn’t sign every new person up to the same instance, because that is against the entire point of the technology here.

    I seriously believe it would be much better for the Lemmy network to spread people out on the existing instances.

    antik,
    @antik@lemmy.world avatar

    Which is why we will adjust our sign-up page. But not every small instance wants new users because that would increase operating costs which they might not be willing to cover.

    1984,
    @1984@lemmy.today avatar

    No that is caused by instance owners not closing registrations when their instance is full.

    It’s a lot of common sense actually in how Lemmy software is built. You can choose to upgrade your instance or you can close registrations if the load becomes too big.

    It’s up to the instance owner how to deal with that, given the chance.

    zkfcfbzr,

    I think it’s more a case of long-term reliability than day-to-day reliability. Anyone can create a lemmy instance - including people who may lack the resources or long-term motivation to keep their instance on the internet for basically forever. That’s definitely going to be a much smaller risk with the more established instances - though I’m sure we’ll eventually have a lot of drama over some instance or another in the top 10 shutting down.

    1984,
    @1984@lemmy.today avatar

    Yeah but if they don’t get users, they will shut down guaranteed.

    If they get users, they will likely enjoy having an instance more and take care of it.

    So it’s a bit like chicken and the egg here. You have to give smaller instances a chance to grow or they will shut down of course.

    zkfcfbzr,

    I don’t disagree with what you said, but I am more risk-averse than you are about it. I think it would be best in the long term to list servers with a proven dedication to the long-term existence and health of the community. This doesn’t necessarily mean the top 5, or even the top X, but it does mean excluding a server hosted on a laptop in someone’s closet with 8 users, or instances from completely unknown in the community admins that have existed for a month.

    r00ty,
    @r00ty@kbin.life avatar

    I'm not seeing dropped messages. I can see that a comment in this thread made it through just fine. However, I am seeing since around 09:30 yesterday that get requests for comments (and maybe other activities) are being responded to with 400 "not_logged_in". I've quite a few messages in error queue stacking up because of this.

    Edited to clarify. The instance is running kbin.

    antik,
    @antik@lemmy.world avatar

    That’s possible because those requests are being blocked to non-logged-in users.

    r00ty,
    @r00ty@kbin.life avatar

    It's a federation message. For example I receive a federated like message, and so my instance fetches the comment (and all parent comments) if not already present in my DB. It has the correct headers to be activitypub. So it should be allowed.

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