The transphobia stops now

This community is housed on an instance run by two trans women, focused on the needs of the queer and gender diverse community.

We allowed 196 here because we were promised the community is queer and trans inclusive.

If you’re here it’s because you’re aggressively supportive of trans folk. Not middle of the ground, not “just asking questions”.

If your response to that is, “yes, but…” then this isn’t the instance for you, and by extension, this isn’t the community for you.

tl;dr - Unambiguous support and inclusion, or fuck off somewhere else.

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Edit - I changed the phrase "aggressive support to “unambiguous support”, as there was some confusion over the intent behind my previous phrasing.

Aloomineum,

Nobody deserves to be bullied or hated for simply existing. Transphobes go away! Trans rights are human rights!

KrimsonBun,
@KrimsonBun@lemmy.ml avatar

🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

bloodfoot,

Well said. Keep being awesome!

AnAnxiousCorgi,
@AnAnxiousCorgi@lemmy.reddeth.com avatar

FUCK YES! I’m so glad to see this, the comments on some of those posts recently just gave such an ick feeling. Fuck transphobes. All hail glorious blahaj!

RoyaltyInTraining,
@RoyaltyInTraining@lemmy.world avatar

I used to be on the original 196 two years ago, cause it really was 99% supportive. But it has simply devolved into fetishization over time.

PelicanPersuader,
@PelicanPersuader@beehaw.org avatar

AGGRESSIVE SUPPORT FROM AN ENBY QUEER WEIRDO! I SUPPORT YOU FAM.

Lawliss, (edited )

Wooooooo fuck em up!

-queer-af enby

Kes,
@Kes@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Be friend of Blåhaj

EremesZorn,

I’m here because 196 shows up on my feed and I really enjoy the memes.
I also have absolutely no problem with trans individuals or really any lifestyle anyone wants to live that isn’t hurting anyone else.
That said, was there an incident recently on here that spurred the creation of this post? Did something go down?
Edit: Changed “bothering” to “hurting” because I frankly don’t give a fuck about the feelings of the type of people that are “bothered” by LGBT+.

Boinketh,

I’m also here for the dank memes. IIRC there was a post from a mod telling people to stop reporting a message that IMO seemed transphobic, but I didn’t see the context despite searching for it.

LeylaaLovee,

Someone asked if a straight guy would fuck a trans man, straight guy responded by saying he’d be down to fuck a trans man if they hadn’t transitioned yet. In a later comment he said he was attracted to post op trans women and pre op trans men. It wasn’t aggressive transphobia, but grouping trans people by their genitals in a space like this isn’t going to be appreciated.

The real problem came with the thread the mod posted. If I didn’t know better, I’d assume it was a baitpost. Mod made the post then quickly disappeared after people in the new thread started their “I’m an ally, BUT…” comments. Original commenter said he can’t be friends with trans women because they all have chips on their shoulders. Someone said trans people are the Karens of the LGBT community and weren’t wanted. Just a lot of shit that shouldn’t be on an instance that is literally a trans safe space.

Boinketh,

Thanks for the explanation. He’s a “straight” man and he’d fuck a trans man? Idk, sounds pretty gay to me.

Sekoia,

It’s specifically before transition. Honestly to me the original comment is pretty okay, a bit easy to misunderstand. From what I got it was “yeah since I like women, and a trans man before transitioning looks like a woman, I’d be attracted to them. However the parts attractive to me are dysphoric for them which probably causes conflict” which seems like somebody thinking aloud about something they haven’t put a lot of thought into ever.

Anyway the mod’s post was bad, the comments were awful, bloody mess.

Boinketh,

Maybe it’s just me, but I’d have a hard time being with someone who was mentally a man, even if he was physically female.

Sekoia,

Yeah imo it’d be weird. Like in a theoretical sense you could be attracted to them but a relationship I don’t think would work (for a straight dude which I am not so take that with a grain of salt)

LeylaaLovee,

Someone made a comment saying that they’d be down to fuck a trans man if they hadn’t transitioned yet because he likes women. It was controversial, but then one of the mods here decided to post a screenshot of that comment on the main, and the people in the comments were fucking horrendous. It’s all “I’m an ally, but…” statements. Some of them were fine, but even the best ones were just people taking the opportunity to say that they don’t wanna fuck trans people. And that’s fine, you don’t have to be attracted to trans people at all, but a trans safe space isn’t the spot for that discussion at all.

The mod shouldn’t have posted what’s essentially bait, nor should they have not actually moderated the thread after posting the bait. I’m pretty sure the instance admin ended up having to handle it. The guy who made the original comment is saying it was him, but that’s not really what matters. This controversy was more about properly moderating the space than anything.

samus12345,
@samus12345@lemmy.world avatar

Random person: exists

Assholes: Everyone needs to know whether I would fuck this person or not!

EremesZorn,

Gotcha. Thanks for taking the time to reply.

Rhabuko,
@Rhabuko@feddit.de avatar

I’m mostly just a lurker in this community but here I go: Trans rights are human rights 👍

Valmond,

Trans rights 💪✊!!

Still cis though 🥵

Arystique,
@Arystique@beehaw.org avatar

Heck yeah! Fuck Transphobia!

MaryTzu,

Trans women are women. Girldick is best dick.

Know that you are loved. ^And also sexually objectified. Sorry bout that… ^

-Sincerely a cis lesbian.

ahriboy,
@ahriboy@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

And Trans women are cool!

-Sincerely an allied cis man

Velociraptor,

Can you explain the girldick thing? I’m a transman and that comes off as one of the many things that are low key alienating in expressions of support, but it’s possible I’m just mistaken.

m0darn,

I’m not the person you were seeking clarification from but I took her comment to mean that she is a cis woman that’s sexually attracted to women, but also enjoys P.I.V. sex. Therfore she would be happy to discover that a woman she is attracted to has a penis.

That’s just my interpretation though.

Velociraptor,

How far removed from the instigating post is that? It doesn’t seem all that different if we’re immediately diving into fuckables and unfuckables.

m0darn,

I think you’re saying I didn’t help you understand her position, fair enough.

I mean this post is a place to voice support for the trans community and she said she likes having lesbian sex with trans women. I don’t think the statement was meant to support trans men, just trans women. Trans women tend to be the focus of a lot of the conversation. I think trans men and trans women have different experiences with transphobia and need different supports. If you’d like to talk about your feelings I’d be interested to learn.

But also, she’s a lesbian so again it’s not too surprising that she would center women in her comment.

I’m a cis het man that wants to support you. It occurs to me that the less time men spend thinking and talking about lesbian sex, the better adjusted they are. So I’m going to excuse myself from this conversation. Good luck out there man. I’m pulling for ya.

MaryTzu, (edited )

The original reference (which triggered the OP to post) is a cis man saying he wouldn’t sleep with a pre op trans woman.

He said something along the lines that girldick is disgusting, I’m saying it’s hot.

If that’s problematic I can delete (not sure how that works on lemmy though). I would rather hear it from a trans woman though. If you want to discuss, go for it.

Velociraptor,

Maybe using a cis bigot’s words isn’t the best way to show trans support. Hurts that you’d rather hear it from a trans woman. I guess this place just isn’t for me or people like me. It happens. Pretty depressing though.

ada,
@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

FYI, the person that you’re talking about, is not the reason I made this post, nor were they talking about trans women or girldick.

This whole line of discussion is based on a misunderstanding of the original context I think

funky_rodent,
@funky_rodent@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Will spend the next days reporting transphobes if necessary <3 best wishes from Germany

wokeally,

trannies cant reproduce. humanity will perish with the faggot tranny agenda.

stappern,

you are not very smart are you?

wokeally,

you are very dumbfuck are you

stappern,

why? im not the one making absolutely nutjob claims that have no roots in reality :)

wokeally,

faggots and trannies should be tossed from bridges for the sake of humanity.

heimchen,

Which problems would this solve?

wokeally,

ridding the world of the trannie cancer

heimchen, (edited )

Our life is meaning less, we come and go, so I think the most important thing we can do is to make the time here as pleasant as possible for everyone. I don’t see how your suggestion could prevent suffering. On the contrary, I think it could even lead to more.

stappern,

that is affecting your life… how?

wokeally,

i just like to trigger rainbow fairy queer fags anf trannies.

stappern,

then you are a failure :)

howrar,

What makes trans people a cancer?

TotallynotJessica,

You just want to murder people and have people pat you on the back for it. The cancer I see is bigotry, because unlike trans people, it is incompatible with society. It spreads and evolves like cancer at the cellular level, taking more and more resources and causing more and more suffering. Eventually, the oppressed will strike back, leading to war both civil and international. Because war has become so destructive, these tensions risk total annihilation of entire societies, cultures, and even the human race.

It’s a societal cancer that lives in your brain, but unlike real cancer, it can be destroyed without killing the cell. You can reject it and become a good person who doesn’t kill people for fun. You just have to choose.

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