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it’s not for everyone and certainly shouldn’t be seen as the default or indoctrinated into people from a young age like it is right now. that being said, i’m very happily monogamous and couldn’t imagine it any other way.

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nice! feel free to join if you’re looking for furry content. but yes, i feel very strongly about equality for my polyam friends.

Duchess,
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I love all the little details! I was so struck by how pretty she is that I didn’t even notice the can at first

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I remember turn based strategy games finally clicking with me when I played Lord of magna. Idk how obscure that is though

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Honey I think this is called depression

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If you’re into mobile games I’d recommend any of the papa’s games. I have cluckeria to go and it’s helped kill time when i don’t have WiFi or a long time to get into something more involved.

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The only one I use super frequently is :3 which I imagine isn’t a surprise to anyone lol

Meta discontinues Messenger Lite for Android, it will be unavailable after Sep 18. Users need to install regular Messenger app instead (beehaw.org)

I have not found any news article on this on a whim. Because my friends and family, I need to use Facebook Messenger, and Messenger Lite was a OK client - lightweight, no unnecessary features, etc., compared to the regular Messenger app....

Duchess,
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Genuinely I just found an invite code from Google. Once you’re in the app is pretty much as advertised.

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I like a lot of family gameplay and drama, creating half cousins and stepsiblings and making everything as messy as possible lol

Duchess,
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Tbh I feel like if this was what lead to the divorce then the relationship was on 4ocky ground already

Duchess,
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Mmm fat juicy pixels

Seriously though, persona 3 is a gem. 4 will always be my favourite but I think 3 is a better game overall

Duchess,
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I’ve only listened to a couple of ICP songs and genuinely quite liked them

Duchess,
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in fairness the directions on the back of the tube still state you should use a pea sized amount. i feel like that’s not all that helpful though, peas come in lots of different sizes.

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personally i’m more comfortable with the UI and features of discord, plus i’m not too familiar with what the issues with privacy it has. could be that the mods here feel the same way, or that there would be a larger userbase on discord

I need to take a break from Lemmy

Hello guys, I need to take a break from Lemmy. Lately, I’ve become attached to it, a part of the community (which is probably good). Unfortunately, it triggers fear of missing out (FOMO) lately for me. Don’t get me wrong, Lemmy has become the most wonderful community on the Internet, but this time, I need a break from the...

Duchess,
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certainly social media can be addictive, for myself i’ve almost always been able to take on tasks as they come up and not procrastinate but that’s just due to a hate of the feeling of having a task looming. that being said i know there’s times i’ve mindlessly watched tiktok for hours instead of engaging in more productive, meaningful forms of entertainment.

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i have a desire deep in my heart to be able to visit the elephant’s foot. seems like it’d be peaceful

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how was the performance on the ps3? i remember a couple of the very last games i bought for mine (black flag, saints row 4) absolutely chugged.

Finally got access to Tildes today... Seems unimpressive (kbin.social)

I got an invite code and so spent a bit of time browsing around because I'd heard good things about it. But I was surprised at how basic and non-diverse it all is. The forums are preset and are very generic. The conversations are definitely better than Reddit, but no better or worse than the ones I've had with people on Fedi....

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yeah, honestly i’m getting frustrated waiting for my invite to beeper :/

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i also wish the ‘show read posts’ was a little less picky. personally i’d like it to only work on the main feed but not when i’m browsing specific communities or someone’s profile.

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personally i’d find a smaller one just for the sake of stability. there’s a few fandom themed ones that are cool, plus you can subscribe to communities hosted on other instances no problem

Google Gmail continuously nagging to enable Enhanced Safe Browsing (www.bleepingcomputer.com)

The difference between the two security features is that Safe Browsing will compare a visited site to a locally stored list of domains, compared to Enhanced Safe Browser, which will check if a site is malicious in real-time against Google’s cloud services....

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god, i hate this shit. i have a lot of stuffed tied to my google accounts but i think i’m at least going to switch email apps.

What are some realistic possibilities for working from home for someone with a chronic illness and little experience?

So I developed a chronic illness years ago. It makes working outside the house pretty much impossible for me. I ran my own business for a good while, but it’s struggling. I have all kinds of random skills and abilities, but I don’t really see how they fit together in the context of employed work, so for all intents and...

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how expensive is hemp yarn compared to alternatives?

How to get over not having a good college experience?

I’m going into my last year of college and I kinda felt like I did college wrong. Like, my grades are good but everything else about college I failed at. Like socially and stuff, after 4 years I barely know anybody. I commuted(to avoid debt, and did so successfully) so maybe that’s part of my problem....

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For me, university literally made me depressed. But I also met my partner online during that time. I enjoyed studying but this myth that college is the time when you’ll meet loads of friends, have tons of sex and wild parties, etc. Is very, very harmful

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is there really anything that can be salvaged from this disaster?

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i share a standard double with my partner when they stay with me and i’m drooling at the thought of even a standard king

Cars are awesome.

Driving is the most comfortable, convenient, and fun mode of transportation. Walking and biking can be OK but only for traveling relatively short distances in good weather. Mass transit is inherently unpleasant. No matter how nice you try to make it (and most mass transit systems aren’t nice) the fact of the matter is that...

Duchess,
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trains are the best mode of transportation to me. i don’t know how to drive and have no desire to learn. it’s stressful, expensive, and time-consuming to learn. trains in my area are regular enough and even if you can’t get a seat then you’ll get to your destination quick enough that it’s not an issue. you don’t have to worry about traffic or really doing anything once you’re onboard. i understand that some people need to drive but honestly don’t know why anyone would enjoy it.

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Paralives looks more polished but competition is always a good thing. maybe one day one of these games will replace my sims 2 addiction lol

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i remember when i was big into tumblr there were a lot of people using that as their only source of information on the internet. that’s the issue here, not tiktok in itself.

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the funny thing about this is that the only media that made me realise i like women is very male gaze-y

Duchess,
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the funny thing is benny boy was cosplaying ken when he went to see the movie

Duchess,
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Yeah he was wearing an all black outfit exactly the same as one of Ken’s.

Duchess,
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what’s the craziest thing you guys have been recommended? i had a tutor say i should switch from cow to goat’s milk for my asthma.

Duchess,
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I understand this doesn’t work for everyone and you need to be careful but truly I met my partner through discord

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oh yeah, i’ve heard of a lot toxic behaviour coming from discord but it truly depends on the circles you run in. for the record i had made a brief attempt at dating while on reddit (i know) and that was pretty disastrous.

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We’re both saving like mad for a visa and legal advice right now but we at least know how much it’s going to cost.

Duchess,
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yeah, tbh i’ve been handling it worse than them. i’m the clingy, anxious type though so i have to keep reminding myself that every single day is progress.

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Oh yeah I use revanced so no worries for me. I tried NewPipe but the lack of accounts did annoy me

What type of game do you want to play that doesn't really exist?

Have you ever played a game and wondered what if you could do something that it doesn’t really allow you to do, for example being able to move around blocks in Minecraft fluidly instead of in sectors, edit the world in Hogwarts legacy with spells, be able to fly in a world like Elden Ring or Elder Scrolls with epic sky...

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thanks for the link! it’s not quite the full experience i was looking for but it’s a step in the right direction and something i certainly hadn’t heard of before.

Duchess,
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i’ve had a friend recommend amnesia: the bunker too, i need to put it on my wishlist.

Duchess,
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miss when browsing the internet felt like this tbh :/

Duchess,
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that’s the fun part! the only relics of the old internet are things like the ice chewing forums, although federated social media brings a little of that back.

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Sadly I don’t know either but I am interested.

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