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cabbagee,

Gimme that sodium packet 🤤

cabbagee,

Dissatisfaction is a good thing. It’s the fuel that pushes you to do something. Maybe it’s something big like switching careers or cutting ties with toxic relationships, but most often it’s small things like picking up a new hobby, volunteering, or taking a vacation.

Don’t dismiss dissatisfaction. Look into your life and see what you need to change.

cabbagee,

I don’t think reshipping in itself is illegal. If you’re buying something illegal in the final country, sure, but there’s a lot of stores that only ship to some countries even though there’s no restrictions on the actual goods.

cabbagee,

Dump a cup of white vinegar into the wash, let them soak. Mildew will be gone. Add an extra rinse if it smells of vinegar.

cabbagee,

If it’s a big company then keep your ear to the ground, find out if there’s another team or department you’d like to work in, and talk about it with your manager. Be patient. Big companies have a lot of benefits and it might be worth waiting for a position to open up.

If you really want to work somewhere else then apply outside of work hours, don’t just quit. It’s easier to find a job when you already have one.

cabbagee,

UPS tracking number 1Z 150 293 65 9808 210 7

Letting the real secrets out.

cabbagee,

You didn’t state the problem and I don’t know German, so I’m guessing you’re solving for the time of two trains?

It helps if you organize every problem into 3 steps: 1) what is the given info from the problem? 2) what core equations are we using? 3) how do we use #1 and #2 to solve the problem?

Your notes show these steps but if you can organize it well enough that it’s easy to understand just by looking at the blackboard, that will make everything smoother. Write the given info as bullet points. You’re using S=VT as the core equation, so underline it and write out what each letter stands for. From there, write each step vertically.

cabbagee,

Spatchcock that turkey and it’ll bake no problem

Anyone else feels like they want to destroy their old sim and never give their contact to anyone ever again?

If signal gets the new username feature, this just might be what i do, so fricking tired of people just blindly giving random apps and websites their contact permissions and they get my contact as well, and there’s nothing i can do about it

cabbagee,

How do you apply to new jobs without giving out your number?

cabbagee,

I wondered about this but I figured recruiters would assume Google voice numbers were spam/sketchy applicants.

cabbagee,

My father’s a narcissist and my family waves it away. I’m fine with LC, he’s not, so I guess sooner or later it’ll turn into NC. It’s frustrating. He wants a relationship and says he’s willing to try, but he’s incapable of accepting any reality where he’s done something wrong or hurt someone. I’ve spent years trying to think of the magic words that would fix things but there’s no way around it.

As a person it’s made me more conscious of people’s limits. There’s a will on both sides for us, but we’re each limited in our own ways. I can’t be as tolerant as the rest of my family and he won’t be able to make progress without therapy that he doesn’t even realize he needs.

cabbagee,

Thanks for the suggestion. I don’t think I could get him to take part in any kind of therapy but it sounds interesting for myself. Do you have any favorite resources?

cabbagee,

Never heard of a banana in a pb&j. Make it pb and nutella w/ banana and I’d be all over that.

cabbagee,

Sally Hansen miracle gel works pretty well for me. Chips less than traditional nail polish.

Actual gel nail polish (needs a UV light) or dip powder/acrylics are even more durable.

Problem with my specific laptop's connection to wifi.

Hello, I have this laptop and need to update it, but the internet seems to be unable to connect. here are some details. at first it worked, but after i updated it (i think) it stopped working. I tried to enter the home’s wifi password and such, but now it says (cant connect to this network). it doesn’t even prompt me to...

cabbagee, (edited )

Since you’ve uninstalled the WiFi driver, try:

  • Reinstall driver
  • Restart computer, modem, and router
  • Double check that there’s not a WiFi switch that’s off. I’ve seen physical switches and Fn buttons for this.
  • Try to connect to WiFi
  • Make a hotspot with your phone and try to connect to that

If it fails to connect to both WiFi and the hotspot, then it might be a driver, OS, or hardware problem. You could redownload the driver on another computer (or via Ethernet if you can connect that way) and try again. Similar for the OS, but I don’t know Windows so seek specific advice for that. Hardware is easy. A WiFi adapter like this should work

Edit: Also make sure that your network is working correctly. Do other devices connect to the Wi-Fi? Turn your phone’s data off and connect, then see if it loads anything. Could be the internet’s out or the modem.

cabbagee,

If your laptop’s able to connect and use the hotspot, that’s good news. Drivers, OS, and hardware are all probably fine. Couple more thoughts:

  • On your laptop, forget the network and try to set it up manually with IPv4/6 instead of DHCP. This article has some steps for that.
  • Does your network require whitelisting devices? Alternatively, could your laptop be blacklisted?

If these don’t work, could you add your windows version, exact error wording, and the hp model to the post? It will help for looking the problem up.

cabbagee,

I’ve gotten some great solutions to work problems around bedtime. I make notes, set it to ping me in the morning, then can sleep easy.

cabbagee,

The thing I love most about Monarch is that they actively work to improve it. It’s not perfect but they really listen to feedback and every one of my bug reports has been addressed quickly.

cabbagee,

Be sure to export your data. I wouldn’t be surprised if alternatives made a feature to upload old data, and at the very least you could pop it into a spreadsheet so it’s not completely lost.

cabbagee,

I have a distant sibling that I’ve been building a relationship with over long distance. Saw them in-person and realized that they have quite a few toxic traits from one of our narcissistic parents. I don’t know what to do now. I’m pretty traumatized from that parent and my sibling doesn’t see any of it as a negative. I don’t think I have the ability to open their eyes on it, either. I want the relationship I thought we had.

cabbagee,

I didn’t like coleslaw until I ate it as a condiment. Alone it’s not my thing at all. In a sandwich? On top of pulled pork? Awesome stuff.

cabbagee,

If he can’t pay back the bank loans, how will he be able to pay back yours?

cabbagee,

I started getting judgemental looks in my teens. That being said, I don’t know how much I would care if an adult popped up on my doorstep

cabbagee,

Good rule for anyone who comes by, really.

cabbagee,

My doorstep, my kinks.

cabbagee,

+1 and Huel black is my drinkable meal of choice.

Would you prefer if games had a separate difficulty setting for boss fights?

I usually play games on “normal” difficulty these days, for a balanced challenge. However, I don’t particularly enjoy boss fights, or at least I don’t enjoy the extra challenge associated with them. Was thinking it would be nice if games had a separate setting so I could just set boss fights to “easy”, while not...

cabbagee,

I’ve come to firmly believe that all games should have an invulnerability setting for the sake of accessibility. It’s probably one of the easier settings to implement for most games and it would have the most impact for the wide range of accessibility needs out there.

cabbagee,

If it’s pvp then sure it’s cheating but why would it be cheating for a single player game? Isn’t the point to have fun?

cabbagee,

Control for me! It was mind blowing. Not a difficult game but it really improved my ability to enjoy the game at some points.

cabbagee,

Who needs coffee when you can wake yourself up with personal grooming

cabbagee,

Regular looking glasses with live captioning. We get close but it always seems just out of reach.

cabbagee,

Ah that’s frustrating. The XRAI looked promising, but it’s bulkier than I can wear and my phone isn’t compatible with it.

cabbagee,

Don’t tell him he’s annoying. Call him out when something’s not appropriate for the workplace (like the fart jokes) but don’t make it about his personality.

Consult HR on how to go about the quirks that aren’t inappropriate but still very annoying. They can give you the language toolbox you need.

cabbagee,

Too much butter and maybe an earthquake.

cabbagee,

Add some love to it. Put it on a plate, add a sprig of whatever, eat with a fancy fork, whatever it is that makes you happy. It’s a little gift of love to yourself. Soon after living on my own I realized I could eat whatever I wanted out of those big wine glasses. So… I did. Juice, yogurt, cereal, mac and cheese. I liked how it looked and it was a small thing that made my day brighter.

cabbagee,

Not by default, but if you cut life short then you can’t find the things that make it “worth it” in the end. And those things, the ones that make it so freaking worth it, they’re out there. They’re rich and beautiful and sometimes deceivingly simple.

I’ve been in a “not worth it” place before. The possibility of a “worth it” place was so foreign I don’t remember even thinking about the future. I’m in a “worth it” place now. I know it may not be permanent but I hope that I can at least help others make their lives worth it if not always my own.

cabbagee,

After that first time, everyone would jump to check printers.

How to deal with Ancient aliens in the workplace?

Two of my coworkers frequently mention shows like “Encounters” or “Ancient apocalypse” or whatever. I’m not the best at debating or forming arguments against these though I do feel strongly that bold claims require better evidence than a blurry photo and an eyewitness account. How do you all go about this?...

cabbagee,

Those questions are just going to open a can of crazy. Some battles aren’t worth fighting and in the workplace you’re going to see a lot of them.

cabbagee,

“Do you mind …” has been mis-answered for so long that yes means no. It’s hard to explain because written down, yes/no have different meanings, but when speaking to someone it depends on tone, context, and body language.

“Do you mind if I take that seat”

“No” “Yeah” depending on tone can both mean, “I’m fine with you taking that seat”. Most people will add on to make the intention clearer like, “Yeah, go ahead” but not always. Absolutely crazy.

cabbagee,

Hey if I’m going to be gaslit I might as well make it work in my favor sometimes too.

cabbagee, (edited )

Maybe !goodoffmychest or a text post on !wtf

cabbagee,

This only works if the product isn’t in demand. Degrees are in high demand - jobs require them, better jobs require multiple and higher prestige degrees. That isn’t going to change.

Instead those rich enough would still get a degree, but middle and lower classes would be cut out. In the end it would create a wider gap between the classes.

cabbagee,

They wouldn’t change the requirements. We see it now. When a company can’t find “qualified” candidates, they outsource it to international contractors.

cabbagee,

No need to apologize at all! I’m a novice spider lover so I’m constantly learning. I think Neoscona can be called a barn spider but it’s not THE barn spider. Confusing but nice to know.

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