The transphobia stops now

This community is housed on an instance run by two trans women, focused on the needs of the queer and gender diverse community.

We allowed 196 here because we were promised the community is queer and trans inclusive.

If you’re here it’s because you’re aggressively supportive of trans folk. Not middle of the ground, not “just asking questions”.

If your response to that is, “yes, but…” then this isn’t the instance for you, and by extension, this isn’t the community for you.

tl;dr - Unambiguous support and inclusion, or fuck off somewhere else.

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Edit - I changed the phrase "aggressive support to “unambiguous support”, as there was some confusion over the intent behind my previous phrasing.

thisisbutaname,

Trans rights!

Starb3an,

Keep up the great work!!

CorruptBuddha,

ENBY Anarchist here. I’ll gladly take my ban.

🤟😊🖕 🏳️‍🌈 Facist

moss,
@moss@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

I’m sorry what Are you trolling right now Also anarchist and fascists are not the same thing at all

Dee,
@Dee@lemmy.world avatar

Also anarchist and fascists are not the same thing at all

I think they’re saying they’re an anarchist and calling Ada a fascist for taking this stance, at least that’s how I read it.

moss,
@moss@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Hmmm ok

Dee,
@Dee@lemmy.world avatar

Just to clarify I don’t agree with them, only trying to explain the dumbs. I’m unfortunately fluent, you see.

moss,
@moss@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Oh yeah ofc dw

Shit,
@Shit@sh.itjust.works avatar

I read it as 🤟😊(I love you) 🖕(fucking) 🏳️‍🌈(gay) Facist

I guess I might just not be hip anymore. ¯⁠\⁠⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠⁠/⁠¯

Please remove if this post is not appropriate!

CorruptBuddha,

I’m a queer anarchist 😂 It’s not that complicated. And yeah… You start telling people they need to aggressively support something or get out… I’m calling you facist.

Shit,
@Shit@sh.itjust.works avatar

¯⁠\⁠⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠⁠/⁠¯ I’m sorry keep on being you!

Prandom_returns,

If you ever enter my home, know that I aggressively support not taking a shit in the kitchen, and, if you enter my home, I want you to aggressively support not taking a shit in my kitchen.

I’m not a fascist, just a decent person. Don’t like it? Don’t enter my house.

Now imagine my house is an instance/server, and “shitting in the kitchen” is bigotry.

CorruptBuddha,

I’m willing to commit to not shitting in your kitchen. 💜 No thanks needed.

CorruptBuddha,

☝️☝️☝️

👏👏👏

💜

Fucking hilarious! I didn’t get banned! Common mods, don’t you stand by your values? I’m not “aggressively pro trans” or whatever so let’s do this! Ban the ENBY.

ada,
@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Firstly, I updated the post to clarify. You might want to re-read it

Secondly, unless you start posting transphobia, this post isn’t about you. I won’t be banning you simply for disagreeing with me

pingin,

sorry, are you accusing OP of being a fascist?

Jimbo,
@Jimbo@yiffit.net avatar

???

Shit,
@Shit@sh.itjust.works avatar

Aggressive support 🫡

DessertStorms,
@DessertStorms@kbin.social avatar

💜💜💜💜💜

XEAL,

What caused this post?

Aesthesiaphilia,

A kerfuffle: https://lemmy.world/post/1893561

TexMexBazooka,

That was underwhelming

ada,
@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

That linked to post was a response to an existing ongoing discussion that brought transphobes out of the woodwork. That post also had transphobic replies, and there were multiple discussions going on at once with active transphobes.

It was the ongoing transphobia that occurred around the initial discussion that prompted my post, not any specific single post.

TexMexBazooka,

I remember seeing the original post, it was in response to being asked if they’d date a trans person wasn’t it?

Aesthesiaphilia,

The original post was an image with the text "Hey you, straight dude: are you attracted to women or to femininity?"

I posted a response that said I like boobs & pussy, and then someone (who turned out to be ace, and just was curious) asked if I would date a trans man.

ada, (edited )
@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Yeah, I know. I saw the context.

Your post was removed because I wanted that whole line of conversation dropped, not specifically because of your single post.

Also, it’s worth noting that your post was not the trigger for this thread.

Aesthesiaphilia,

That's totally fair, the whole conversation was getting out of hand

AWistfulNihilist,

Thank you for clarifying, as some just happening to stumble upon this and the context!

ada,
@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

It was, yes.

But you need to be aware, cis people talking about the reasons they are valid in not wanting to fuck trans people is something we see all day, every day. It’s normalised for people to just volunteer how unfuckable they find us.

And whilst that discussion might have some valid spaces in which it can be talked about, a meme community on an instance run by two trans women is not that space

BitingChaos,
@BitingChaos@lemmy.world avatar

o shit. what did i miss?

Aesthesiaphilia,

I said a thing: https://lemmy.world/post/1893561

thisbenzingring,

I don’t subscribe to this community but I found your post in the top of my feed. And want people to know, you have my support. I think it’s awesome that you’re able to build this community.

I’m not going to be aggressive in any online discussion but I am very sensitive to the situation. My brother was a gay man who had lots of difficulties and ultimately took his own life. I will always wonder if society was different, if he’d still be here.

So I will never shy away in real life. I promised the memories of my brother to always be that change that is needed. I will be that cis dude who takes the time to try and change people who show me their bigotry.

I know people in real life who have transitioned. It’s a very difficult process and anyone who feels that they need it, they should have access to it. The look of being comfortable in one’s own skin afterwards is absolutely observable. I can only do what I can do but you will always have an ally in me.

such_lettuce7970,
@such_lettuce7970@kbin.social avatar

I'd hug you right now if I could.

Barbarian,
@Barbarian@sh.itjust.works avatar

Not from this instance and not a contributor to this community, but just wanna say great job.

Protecting the ideals of your instance is definitely a worthy goal, and I definitely include trans people in the category of people who get shit on undeservedly from on high and deserve way better.

UhBell,
@UhBell@lemmy.world avatar

https://lemmy.world/pictrs/image/2d133ebd-1707-4428-8e8d-198c5f780c0c.jpeg

kate,

i love trans righhts so much omg

pjb,
@pjb@lemmy.spacestation14.com avatar

What the fuck, transphobia on 196?

Trans rights 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

detectivesniffles,

FOR TRANSPHOBES ITS BECOME ECONOMICALLY NONVIABLE TO LIVE IN LOSER CITY BUT SORRY (SMUGLY) M*THERFUCKERS TRANSPHOBES NEED NOT APPLY 🏳️‍⚧️

wildeaboutoskar,
@wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org avatar

Not on your instance but it’s so good to see unequivocal inclusion and support for the trans community. There should be no room for bigotry of any kind.

8ohighdef,

Aggressive supporter!! Trans rights are human rights.

Gormadt,
@Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Hello, Based Department, we’ve got another Based Community here.

Trans rights are human rights!

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