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Trans agender Autist mit Knips, #IchBinArmutsbetroffen und mach was mit Computern, Linux und Internet. Fast vegan. Weiß. Spoonie. Pirat. Online seit 1994. searchable

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theautisticcoach, to actuallyautistic
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Do my comrades find themselves becoming dehydrated often?

If so, you’re not alone.

@actuallyautistic

atarifrosch,
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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic Especially in winter. In the warm/hot time of the year I usually drink enough, but as soon as temperature drops, I just don't drink enough.

It gets even more difficult since I have decided to keep my ffp2 mask on whenever I leave my home, so the most time I cannot drink anything when I'm in crowded streets, in public transport, in shops, or in public buildings.

atarifrosch,
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@MossyQuartz @theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic There is a bot here to help you with that: @trinky

Autistrain, to neurodiversity
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I'm asking my fellow for books on Autism. If you have suggestions, I'm happy to hear about them!

@actuallyautistic @neurodiversity

atarifrosch,
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@Autistrain @actuallyautistic @neurodiversity In German you might like the comic books from @Fuchskind – „Autistic Hero Girl“ (there are three of them). Makes one feel seen. Or do you mean scientific stuff?

theautisticcoach, to actuallyautistic
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Do my comrades struggle with eating too fast and taking in too much air?

@actuallyautistic

atarifrosch,
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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic Hm, I ate very fast in the two years of my professional training, because we trainees just didn't have much time: Walk to the canteen (in another building), wait in the row, get the food, find a place to sit, and afterwards I had to go back to my place in the training room, so I usually had 15 - 20 minutes to actually eat, and that in this canteen full of loud people.

Some times later my then-boyfriend recogized while we had dinner in a restaurant that I was eating so fast, and told me. After that I started forcing myself to eat slowlier. Took me a while, but I managed. Well, I was still young (less than 20 yrs old).

Taking in too much air? Yes, I did. burps

Dr_Obvious, to actuallyautistic German
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Ich habe mal eine Frage an die @actuallyautistic Gruppe in Deutschland.

Habt ihr eine offizielle und oder Diagnose erhalten und dadurch negative Folgen erlitten?

Gegenüber Schule und Arbeitgeber kann man es sich natürlich aussuchen, ob man die Diagnose publik macht. Aber wenn man bestimmte Versicherungen abschließen möchte, wird ja eine Gesundheitsauskunft verlangt. Ich denke zB an BU Versicherung oder einer verpflichtenden Risikolebensv. für einen Immokredit.

atarifrosch,
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@Dr_Obvious @actuallyautistic Ich habe keine „offizielle“ Diagnose, mich aber seit August 2011 in unzähligen Blogposts und Videos wiedererkannt.

Private Versicherungen sind für mich allerdings wegen Zwangsverarmung eher kein Thema.

atarifrosch,
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@Dr_Obvious @actuallyautistic Nicht nur normale KV, sondern auch Unfall-, Haftpflicht-, Lebens-, KV-Zusatz- und das ganze Gedöns.

autism101, to actuallyautistic

Do you find most social interactions to be stressful and energy draining?

image: u/Lady/Johanna

@actuallyautistic

atarifrosch,
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@autism101 @everythingalsocan @actuallyautistic ‼️ Or: Why I prefer email for discussions.

theautisticcoach, to actuallyautistic
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More humans live in Autistic Burnout than previously thought.

But it isn't a foregone conclusion that your entire life will be spent in Burnout. Even if it's been decades.

Important to remember that Burnout is caused and sustained by lack of connection to your autistic self and a denial of your autistic needs.

@actuallyautistic

atarifrosch,
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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic I'd like to have a clarification to this definition: Yes, I was not „connected“ to my autistic self the most time of my life, but now I am, and the burnout came years later.

With denial do you mean the denial to oneself or the denials from ones environment?

I feel burned out because I don't get the help I need. All I get when I ask for it are new tasks and problems which I at least in parts cannot solve and which would have to be repeated every year to „prove“ that I still need the help I seek.

atarifrosch,
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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic OK, thank you for the clarification. I'm not a native speaker ;-)

theautisticcoach, to actuallyautistic
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How do my #ActuallyAutistic comrades recover and practice self-care about a meltdown?

#AskingAutistics @actuallyautistic

atarifrosch,
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@theautisticcoach @actuallyautistic Bed. Sleeping. As long as possible.

JeremyMallin, to actuallyautistic
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How many fellow Autistics have never lied on a job application, never lied on a CV, never lied on tax forms? 🙋‍♂️

Is doing that expected? Is it required? Is not doing that handicapping us? Do you too feel almost unable to do that?

#AskingAutistics
#ActuallyAutistic
@actuallyautistic

atarifrosch,
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@JeremyMallin @actuallyautistic job applications, especially the interviews – an End Boss. No, I never lied. It was wrong to lie. It felt wrong to lie.

No, the HR guys (mostly men) didn't like it.

dramypsyd, to actuallyautistic
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As I’ve learned to unmask and be my authentic self, some people like me less, but I like me more. I think it was a worthwhile trade off.

@actuallyautistic

atarifrosch,
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@housepanther @Autistrain @dramypsyd @actuallyautistic This! I'm doing the same: „This is me, take it or leave it“.

autism101, to actuallyautistic

It is often hard for me to switch tasks. Especially when I get into a hyperfocus state. 🧘

I've always struggled to explain to others why it is so difficult. 🤔

“Tendril theory" by Erin Human explains it really well.

image: @theeisforerin

@actuallyautistic

atarifrosch,
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@autism101 @actuallyautistic Can relate, absolutely!

tagesschau, to random German
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Marktbericht: Inflationsdaten stabilisieren die Lage

Die mit Spannung erwarteten amerikanischen Inflationsdaten haben die Aktienmärkte etwas stabilisiert. Dennoch bleibt der deutsche Markt angeschlagen.

➡️ https://www.tagesschau.de/wirtschaft/finanzen/marktberichte/marktbericht-dax-kursverluste-apple-iphone-dow-boerse-100.html?at_medium=mastodon&at_campaign=tagesschau.de

atarifrosch,
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@tagesschau Ich glaube nicht, daß eine bemerkenswerte Anzahl an Menschen hier in Deutschland diese Daten mit „Spannung“ erwartet haben.

Aber ich weiß schon, Ihr berichtet für Kapitalisten, nicht für die große Mehrheit.

BahnAnsagen, to random German
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++ BAHN-ANSAGE DES MONATS, 07/2023 ++

atarifrosch,
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@BahnAnsagen Warum sollten Menschen, die sich schicke teure Handtäschchen kaufen können, nicht im RE mitfahren? Das widerspricht sich doch nicht.

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@AutisticAdam @actuallyautistic - Give me an address and not a description like „when you get out of the bus then go left, second next crossing right“ and so on. An address can be found clearly on a map, but your description is forgotten long before I reach that bus station.

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