We haven't seen each other in person for a few months now, because of clashing schedules, sick kids, my shoulder injury, his wife working, etc.. and we finally had plans to get together at 1pm today, but my shoulder is really bad today and being in this much pain is just making me feel teary.
He asked how I slept, and I said badly because my shoulder was sore all night.. and he immediately offered to bump our meeting again. No pouting, no complaints, no bratting.
I've started a new Fetlife group for disabled people. It was started after it became apparent that the other group was going to allow chasers to fetishise and objectify disabled people and that the group wasn't safe for us.