We haven't seen each other in person for a few months now, because of clashing schedules, sick kids, my shoulder injury, his wife working, etc.. and we finally had plans to get together at 1pm today, but my shoulder is really bad today and being in this much pain is just making me feel teary.
He asked how I slept, and I said badly because my shoulder was sore all night.. and he immediately offered to bump our meeting again. No pouting, no complaints, no bratting.
I've started a new Fetlife group for disabled people. It was started after it became apparent that the other group was going to allow chasers to fetishise and objectify disabled people and that the group wasn't safe for us.
I can see his location on google maps - consentingly, he really enjoys me randomly sending screenshots from maps saying that I'm only a few meters away from him. It's a stalking game we play, and he loves it. I love the response I get when he's happy and excited with our play.
What he doesn't know is that he has just moved into a house in the street behind mine!