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loom_in_essence,

FYI Izzy got permabanned for stating this opinion. That’s really insane.

loom_in_essence,

It’s not even mean. And this isn’t some niche sub specifically about Sync. It’s the most generic sub imaginable. Are they paid by Sync?

The Spotify Car Thing cost $100, but I can't use it anymore. (lemmy.ml)

EDIT: The only reason why I still had it at this point was because I could use it with other apps. However, now that my Spotify Subscription is cancelled, it doesn’t work with anything. It’s mildly infuriating because today, I can’t still use it with other apps like I was able to yesterday....

loom_in_essence,

One more reason I hate sp0tify

loom_in_essence,

They literally don’t have a choice. No decent candidate has made it through the primaries in decades. In the GE voters can only choose between two Monstrous Goons whose job is to help corporations to dominate and exploit the citizens.

loom_in_essence,

Yes this still happens on a live USB. I’ll look into the memtest

loom_in_essence,

Wow I had to look up the oven fix, that’s crazy that it sometimes works! I’m not going to try it though. I might get a new GPU.

Thanks for the answer!

loom_in_essence,

Cumming to my relentless trust for insurance agency middlemen.

loom_in_essence,

The fact that public healthcare probably won’t happen is different from the argument that we should trust predatory insurance companies.

Plus you don’t have to go to China for public health care. You could go to Canada or the UK, obviously. And they’re capitalist as fuck. Although capitalism will likely get rid of their public healthcare eventually, they haven’t succeeded yet.

loom_in_essence,

I 100% agree but I still appreciate anarchism as a critical position. Not a system to actually implement, but a criticism of the corrupt nature of the current regime.

I’m not an anarchist but I’d miss their perspectives if they weren’t around.

loom_in_essence,

Let’s be more specific and find out how much public money was spent on sugarry snacks for fat people, which is his ridiculous complaint. I’ll assume we’re not psychopaths who are generally against a social safety net.

loom_in_essence,

His political ideology is 100% the point of the song. It’s the only thing he’s singing about.

You’re acting like he did an instrumental song and people ridiculed him for past behavior instead. No. He’s complaining that poor fat people eating government fudge is ruining his life lol. He’s a fucking moron.

loom_in_essence,

What’s the relevance of “obese” and “300 pounds” people specifically eating gov’t fudge when no reference was made to them making $80k or otherwise not being poor?

He is actually just stereotypically misrepresenting the social safety net as being government fudge for fat people. It’s fucking stupid. Don’t let this be the icon of libertarianism.

loom_in_essence,

The only problem with people being on food stamps is that their jobs either aren’t paying enough or there aren’t enough jobs. But it’s 100% excellent that food stamps are available.

If he wants to encourage people to eat healthy then that would be a fine song I guess. But he’s talking about restricting snacks for fat people in a song about how rich people are ruining his life. Just admit that it’s fucking stupid. Fat people eating snacks are not ruining his life.

loom_in_essence,

Oh she came for the beard ;)

loom_in_essence,

I love the first two seasons for their episodic adventure structure. But I also greatly appreciate the character driven structure of seasons 3+ and I definitely think the aesthetic changes for s3 were an unadulterated improvement.

loom_in_essence,

I love the first few episodes, I prefer babyface riker, and I think Dick Picard was a cool badass who I fully support.

But they should have kept Crusher, and the political conflicts were a ridiculous joke epitomized by the cartoonish ferengi. S3 gave us much better aesthetics and politics (though the new character driven storytelling might be a matter of taste).

loom_in_essence,

I invented the left handed pizza peeler.

loom_in_essence,

Spotify is garbage. You pay them to basically pirate unlimited music (they pay table scraps). They have no values or integrity, but they do have a greedy business model.

I buy albums off bandcamp instead. Or from the artist’s site directly.

loom_in_essence,

Yes!

loom_in_essence,

It’s the same as pirating, except Spotify gets paid.

loom_in_essence,

If you’re going to p1r@te, you don’t have to pay sp0tify to do it…

loom_in_essence,

Yeah that $100 billion they gave Joe Rogan is where your payments go.

loom_in_essence,

Just because they’re incompetent doesn’t mean they’re not greedy.

Also, executives can still be cleaning up even as the company struggles to profit.

loom_in_essence,

WTF is a seedbox?

I have no trouble listening to unlimited music, it’s literally everywhere.

Plus it’s not just about owning the album (although I absolutely insist on listening on whichever device I choose). It’s also about paying the artist.

Sp0tify pays peanuts. When I buy the album from the band’s site or bandcamp they get a hell of a lot more money from me. And I want to support them.

You cannot support any artist through Spotify.

loom_in_essence,

I think it was 1000000 trillion bazillion dollars, you drooling braindead goon.

loom_in_essence,

This makes no sense. Greedy execs are the ones who would implement a greedy business model to pursue their greed.

loom_in_essence,

I don’t pirate. I buy albums.

loom_in_essence,

Remember when you called me a dunce? And now you’re self righteous? Anyway, goodbye.

loom_in_essence,

So they’re incompetent on top of greedy. They’re selling access to everybody’s music and paying peanuts.

loom_in_essence,

I’m advocating using Bandcamp where the artist actually gets paid. Spotify is piracy, and I’m discouraging that.

Go to bandcamp and buy the actual album.

loom_in_essence,

Well at least you’re honest about not caring about the artists.

Edit: but you could make a point of buying a couple albums per month if you listen to that much music.

loom_in_essence, (edited )

Therapy is never a cure. If you have a problem then therapy can help you confront it and deal with it, but if we have a massive society-wide mental health crisis it will not be solved by each man individually seeking therapy.

We need meaning in our lives, something worth dedicating ourselves to, and the means to pursue it. Mercenary capitalism won’t provide that.

In short, I don’t see an answer. I think it will get worse.

Addendum:

Most importantly, this new wave of mental health problems is not caused by a new wave of “not being vulnerable.” It’s a societal issue and must be confronted there, not shunted onto each individual man.

loom_in_essence,

Can you offer some examples of where “being vulnerable” led a man out of depression?

I do agree that there is a culture of masculine shame around mental health, and it can be unhealthy. But I’ve also seen that those who share their feelings don’t get the promotion, tend to make coworkers uncomfortable, drive women away. Life is still a competition and vulnerability is genuinely risky.

I’ve seen bullies strategically share false vulnerability to garner sympathy. Genuine vulnerability often looks gross from a man, and is unlikely to lead to positive outcomes.

Most importantly, this new wave of mental health problems is not caused by a new wave of “not being vulnerable.” It’s a societal issue and must be confronted there, not shunted onto each individual man.

loom_in_essence,

Sure… But if there is a massive incidence of these “wounds” then therapy and self help is too little too late.

Why is nobody ITT talking about the causes of this wave of misery? We are putting all the responsibility on individual men to show their vulnerability with no interest in solving the initial problems!

loom_in_essence,

If it’s one big cause that applies to millions, then no, individual therapy cannot fix that massive problem.

loom_in_essence,

Sure, but that patriarchy has been around for a long time and this wave of despair is new. You could probably solve some problems that way, but it’s not the solution to the big problem we’re facing here.

Rising inequality and alienation are the problems.

loom_in_essence,

Even if there were enough therapists, and even if they could actually help, you’re still talking about fixing mental problems instead of preventing them.

loom_in_essence,

If these mental problems arise from the living conditions of the masses, no amount of therapy can prevent them. Many that seem incurable might just be failing to escape psyche-wrecking situations.

loom_in_essence,

Building communities coordinating on meaningful goals. Actual life as opposed to merely dealing with the trauma of not having a life, goals community.

No amount of therapy can ever take away those needs, or satisfy them.

I don’t want to discouraged anyone from getting therapy, but it’s definitely not a solution. Access to therapy might help people deal with the ongoing problem (and that’s a big “might”) but it will never, ever solve this big issue.

We’re doing more by having this conversation than therapy can do. As long as we keep having them and trying to develop ideas and behaviors to bring those missing things into our lives.

loom_in_essence, (edited )

Okay, you have no compassion, just a therapy fetish.

And, um, yeah… let’s keep working on curing cancer, too.

loom_in_essence,

Yup.

loom_in_essence,

Seek therapy

loom_in_essence,

I would still take a bath there.

loom_in_essence,

The nice thing about federation is that we can all go fuck ourselves and die alone on our personal private servers under a bridge.

loom_in_essence,

Maybe you can host your own private instance and smirk as you block everybody while the rest of us communicate.

This nonstop suggestion of “hOst yOuR oWn iNstAnCe” is rarely a good solution. They already know it’s an option. You never provide anything when you say it, except to display your own smug smirk as you tell your fellow lemurian to get lost.

loom_in_essence,

deal with it or make your own instance.

We will deal with it by raising concerns among our peers, even as you callously tell us to leave. You make your own instance and leave others to communicate openly without your ugliness.

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