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girl,

Shrinking (Apple TV) has so much of this

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OP is 17

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girl,

my brain is broken rn apparently, I had to put your birthday into an age calculator to confirm, aren’t you turning 17 in a few months?

girl,

OH there we go lol

girl,

if you want to use it but don’t want to buy one directly to avoid supporting them, just buy it secondhand

Round 1 Final Update (lemmy.world)

Following the GHO vs Flammy yesterday was intense! It went to bed late when it was tied again, and when I woke up it was still tied. I’ve been trying out new apps yesterday, so I saw someone gave GHO a downvote. I decided since Flammy had survived against such a popular owl for so long, it deserves to move on. It was a really...

girl,

this is extremely high quality content OP, thanks for doing this, it’s really fun!

girl,

fr, I love the pygmy but how could I possibly not vote for the screech owl?

girl,

Oh man. I love the Buffy so much, but the barn owl is absolutely iconic. Gotta go with the barn owl, sorry Buffy, you are still adored

girl,

where is the humor in this anecdote?

girl,

Beef, The Last of Us, The Bear, Platonic, and Shrinking were all fantastic. For new season of older shows, Reservation Dogs, Barry, Marvelous Mrs Maisel, and Invincible. Good year for tv.

I tried Loki season 2 but fell off after a couple episodes, it just couldn’t keep my attention. In general, new shows related to existing IP are disappointing (Marvel and Star Wars mainly). I want to see more unique stories, I’m tired of seeing the same old things rehashed with slightly different characters. I need to watch the new season of Doom Patrol though, it is one of my exceptions to my superhero fatigue (along with Invincible and Spiderverse movies).

girl,

Pink Floyd, at ~7,000 minutes. My dad was in the top 0.05% of listeners globally, with a total of ~154,000 minutes. He was in the top 0.005% of Pink Floyd listeners at ~28,000 minutes.

girl,

I don’t understand the point why people like you join lemmy just to spam shit. You’ll get banned soon, bye

girl,

If you want no dust then some kind of pellet litter would be best, like corn or pine pellets. My cats hate that texture though, so we had to find one with a similar texture to clay litter. I worked at a pet supply/food store for a couple years and tried a bunch of litters, nothing with a granular texture is truly dust-free, and I found clay litter claims of being “low dust” to be complete bullshit. I settled on Sustainably Yours Large Grain litter, it’s corn based. The large grain really reduces the dust, I get a little bit when emptying the bag but the large grain doesn’t throw dust when they dig around in it. It also clumps pretty well.

girl,

The large grain litter I mentioned should be fine enough for an auto litter box to sift. Definitely not pellets though.

girl,

My local pet store, but you can find it online. It’s definitely more expensive than clay cat litter, absolutely nothing will be as cheap as clay. My cats have special medical needs though, the dust from even “low dust” litter gives them horrible coughing attacks, so we just have to budget for the more expensive litter.

girl,

I hope you find something that helps your kitty, good luck!

girl,

The litter I recommended does clump.

girl,

The litter I recommended does clump, not sure about crystal litter.

girl,

this is nonsense without context

girl,

Are you looking for an instance or a community?

girl,

I’m an agnostic atheist, but recently I’ve been drawn to somewhat pagan beliefs about spirituality in nature. I can’t bring myself to believe in some mother Gaia goddess that controls the flow of nature, but something about nature holding innate power and energy rings true. I’m still figuring it out.

I had some traumatic events happen in my life recently, and in looking for ways to feel safe again I found myself believing in things I’ve never believed in before. I had some serious dysphoria about it lol, I was like “is this how ancient humans developed religions? A result of terror and seeking comfort?” As someone who became an atheist on my own as a young child, having any belief in something without actual evidence was making me question a lot about myself. But I don’t think I need to pigeon-hole myself into any self-made boxes, I can just let my beliefs be.

girl,

No one in this thread is here to be converted, do not push your religion on me.

girl,

My first experience with this was as a kid, with the Fairly Odd Parents. Their baby (Poof) was just not fun. I felt betrayed and confused that a show I liked could go from my favorite thing to just plain bad lol

I know there have been others, but all my brain can think of is shows that I stopped watching because they got rid of a character. Fear the Walking Dead was alright, the plot wasn’t great but I really loved Nick’s character. Then they ruined it, because of course they did

girl,

My app (Voyager) used to keep track, then a recent update switched to displaying your total number of comments/posts, which I much prefer.

girl,

Where can I see lemmy dev announcements? This is not the first time I’ve been wrong about lemmy API lol

girl,

wait how does adhd impact your depth perception?

girl,

TIL, thanks! This explains a lot about the way I walk lol

girl,

do you mean through lemmy? lemm.ee has removed image uploads, it was a while back to combat the wave of CSAM that hit everyone, and it hasn’t been reinstated

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girl,

If it causes difficulties/stress in your life, it might be worth looking into. For me it turned out to be a symptom of CPTSD, which was a surprise

Messed up things a doctor did to you or someone you know? / Bad experiences with doctors

Today I spoke to a coworker who had bad experiences with doctors and was seeking recommendations for a new one, then other coworkers chimed in, and so I decided to ask you guys as well. Well, not for a doctor recommendation, but about your bad experienced with doctors?...

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I’ve had ~ a dozen minor bad experience with doctors and nurses, and one awful experience (still not as bad as assault).

The worst one started with severe endometriosis pain, I was hyperventilating (without realizing it) for hours. My fingers eventually curled up and rendered my hands useless, which triggered a panic attack and more hyperventilating. I went to the ER because I had never experienced a loss of function in my hands before, it was terrifying. The nurse stuck me in a room and left me to my terror for hours, I cried and begged for someone to help me. Another nurse came by at some point, I heard them outside asking “is she okay?” and my main nurse just told them I was being stupid and needed to cry it out. She eventually came in to explain that hyperventilating causes a buildup of CO2 in the blood, which led to my fingers curling up, so I had to calm down for it to improve. She at no point offered me any kind of calmative, not even something basic like gabapentin. I eventually felt enough shame that I calmed down and went home.

All the little experiences just fucked with my ability to trust my doctors (as individuals, not medicine as a whole). Doctors just blankly staring at me when I show them something they’ve never seen before, or telling me that the 3” tumor growing on my leg is “so small it’s almost nothing!” when they know I have a genetic mutation that severely limits my cells abilities to keep benign tumors from turning into cancer. I have a handful of health issues I need to go see doctors for again, but I have no confidence they won’t just tell me it’s all in my head again.

Edit: oh yea, the most comical time was when a dentist gaslit me about basic human anatomy. I’m not a doctor but I have a B.S., I can read basic anatomy diagrams. I get really intense pain at the hinge of my jaw, right in front of my ears, when I eat something for the first time in a few hours. It’s definitely salivary stones. My dentist told me that salivary glands don’t exist there, so that can’t be it. Except they do. It’s pretty easy to figure that out lol. I asked her “okay, what else could it be then?” And she just grunted at me.

girl,

I’m very sorry for your experience as well OP. That would be traumatic for anyone, but especially so at such a young age :( hugs

girl,

FUCK your ads, no one wants you here

girl,

Why don’t you join another instance? Censorship on the fediverse just isn’t that effective, since you can just join a different one that won’t ban you for no reason. Lemmy.ml mods aren’t going to be convinced by any posts to unban you unless it was an accident somehow

What VPN do you use and why?

If you are a pirate VPN is an essential tool. I am trying to ascertain the popularity of various VPNs in piracy community. In this excerise, I will list several Popular VPNs in the comment if you use one of them just upvote that comment and reply the reason. If you don’t find your VPN listed add a comment with just their name....

girl,

For a noob, can anyone explain why this one is getting downvoted? Is it bad?

girl, (edited )

Did you read their post? They explained that they are posting lead comments with the names of different VPNs, and they want us to vote and comment on the ones we use with our reasoning.

girl,

Thanks for the explanation! I saw several more downvotes at the time I made my comment, I think it was 4 downvotes for the parent comment and 2 for the second comment. Votes between instances aren’t always consistent, I’ve noticed when I switch accounts that the same comment’s votes can vary quite a lot.

girl,

That is my answer too! The ending is the only media I’ve ever seen that comes close to my own philosophy/beliefs about the afterlife. I think about the different philosophies the show presented all the time, and especially wonder “how many points would I get/lose if I do this” lol

girl,

You look great, your hair is a lovely color, and I love your outfit! The pairing of green and muted/darker reds is great, it’s one of the few ways to pair green and red without giving Xmas vibes and you nailed it. Also stellar pattern mixing, it is really hard to pair plaids in similar colors but these go great together. I hope your birthday turns around and you end your day on a good note OP, you deserve to be happy today (and every day) :)

[US] Looking for some ideas for freelance work / "side hustle" (fedia.io)

Title. I found out recently that I need some major dental work in the near future and I don't have a damn clue how I am going to raise the extra money. I want to explore any realistic options for increasing my earnings before I have to resort to taking on debt, and I suspect that soliciting ideas in a semi-public place like this...

girl,

When I really needed extra money I donated plasma. It’s one of those things that pays you more the more you do it, still not a lot but everything helps. Also seconding dental schools, it won’t be free but can save you thousands

girl,

turn those pearls into pearly white teeth and you got yourself a deal

girl,

this isn’t so much an unpopular opinion as it is a half finished thought

girl,

yes but then it’s not a joke

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