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I don’t ever really see myself having a decent job. FFS feels like Its off the table.

Note: This is all just a random idea I had a few days ago. I am mostly curious about what others think of it. I know it’s not gonna be actually implemented anywhere. I wish it was that easy lol...

Hey y’all. So I am thinking of starting the process of getting my name changed. However there is one point I am kind of confused about....

So, I live in the UK and I’m on some probably endless waiting list to start talking to people about things, but I am also financially privileged and if I can use that to expedite my process in some way, that would improve my quality of life tenfold....

I’m looking into purchasing a wig (Ive had human pattern baldness since age 20 unfortunately) and I’m feeling a taaaaad overwhelmed with the amount of options and I’m terrified of ordering one and it’s low quality....

!I got better for a little while, but I realized I still look awful, dieiting seems kinda out of reach and also I feel like hrt can’t fix me. I’m broke and getting off hrt is likely a good idea, tonight I’m gonna stop taking hrt. I’m gonna repost this on some truscum sunreddit cause while I disagree with them on nearly...

For some context I really want to loose weight and get rid of some pre hrt male fat I still have, I currently only eat one meal a day but from my thinking since they all seem to have some level of surgar I’m actually gaining weight even though I’ve only eating once that day. I’m not really sure but I know exercise will...

I am more than a month into HRT, and I have been seeing some small changes over the month but not experiencing that ache people talk about at all. I was hoping that perhaps I would be immune and it would never start, but nope lol....

I know I have posted herd before and many have already seen my photos and said I had mental health issues but I’m still kinds convinced T hit me way too hard. I’m convinced that any doctor should of looked at me and said “no I’m sorry I don’t think hrt will be able to help you” on top of that I was and still am very...

I’d like to welcome @ada to the transfem moderation team! 🤗 Ada is one of the admins of the lemmy.blahaj.zone instance and a very active member of the transfem community. She has already been providing me with assistance in running the community and answering any questions that I have, she’s a perfect fit for our second...

Any general advice? Don’t try x, or definitely look into y? Be aware of Z?

I keep saying my deadname in my head, this kinda started a bit after a family gathering where I heard my deadname a ton. This was in may and sometimes I will just say my deadname in my head and it feels wrong, it also kinda makes my real name feel a little wrong, even though I know it’s not and I like the name skylar

So naturally, even though I still need more time to figure it all out, and I’m by far not sure enough that I actually want it, my mind started drifting towards hrt....

I’ll be having facial feminization surgery on my lower third of my face. Let me know if you have any questions or just want to chat.

im constantly being forced to buy new clothes which I mean, rightfully so I need but like, I feel so much better wearing the limited fem clothes I have (that my parents don’t know about), how do I build up the courage and tell them I want to buy like skirts and stuff to wear???...

Holy shit! Halloween can be a fucking femme playground! This is my first one realized, but lately I’ve been thinking this could be a great time to try some spooky polishes publicly and it not be too unusual. But then again, I was at the store recently and saw the makeup, devil, and cat headband & tail sets and 💡...

Let me just preface this by saying that I’m not yet 100% sure that this is who I am. But I wanted to try out another name, to see how it feels. Maybe I will realize I’m transfem one day, or maybe that I’m NB or fluid....

I recently (probably due to medication) stopped obsessively biting/picking at my nails so much and was able to allow them to grow out, and for the first time fille them and otherwise shape them and OMG I LOVE MY NAILS it feels a little ridiculous, but seeing them when I’m looking at my palm is so awesome!...

Jk! Lol idk what I’m doing, I’m the new girl(I haven’t been one that long) but general convo if anyone is interested?...

I’m so fuckin happy rn. Gonna go shopping a bit more tomorrow I think. I took Elise’s advice and ended up going to a fetish shop, ended up only buying some stocking but I feel like I need more lmao. Did look around the city to see if any shops would kind of fit the bill (LGBTQ+ friendly, drag) but everything else was so...

Should I just be like surprise me and provide a rough understanding of what I want.

So, my kid had a corset they weren’t using. They said it was too big. So… They let me try it on and it looks so feminizing, even under a shirt! I put on my sticky nude bra thing with it, and God it feels so good! It may not be much boobage, but hell, I look down and see something other than man-belly now!...

The way I feel like everyone sees me is the first photo in this gallery, I am really ugly as you can see. Secondly I feel like the other photos are lies....

Any ideas to find trans friendly clothing stores near me? Live in a fairly conservative place but don’t really have access to online shopping. Idk, just want to actually try a dress on somewhere.

I live in the south so I am a bit nervous to ask for makeup help at a store here in boymode, but I do need to pick my shades correctly. Is there any phone apps to help with this?