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violetraven

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Just your average translater living in her goth slut era

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Sounds like you’re trying to summon a nerdy Captain Planet

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Make sure I have enough meds and reach out to friends to make sure they’re safe and are able to get their HRT.

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There are sites out there where you can order from overseas. I haven’t, but have heard from other online friends that have. I’ve seen it mostly used by people in the UK waiting years in order to be prescribed hormones.

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This is true “you wouldn’t be able to make this today” kind of media

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This. I vaguely remember my cousin asking if I knew about it, explained the premis, and I felt exactly the same.

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Surprised no one mentioned LGR/Lazy Game Reviews

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Gotcha covered. I know a really nice queer coffeeshop.

how did you deal with internalised transphobia?

It’s something I’m really struggling with, thanks to it it feels like I’m obsessed with the idea of ‘passing’, like whenever I see other trans women who don’t pass it gives me a little burst of dread, thinking that it’s impossible to pass and I’d never be able to. That horrible fear of looking “like a man in a...

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I felt just like you-- I still do when my thoughts get dark.
I started doing this when I started playing roller derby. We come in so many shapes and sizes. My “derby wife” is cis and we have the same body.
Most of us “look trans”, cis people included, because we vary so much.

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Fine. Awoo. Are you happy now?

Epilator recommendations?

I’ve tried shaving my leg hair a few times now, but it takes an hour or two just to get back with stubble within roughly two to three days at most. Also for some reason my skin just can’t help get irritated, no matter how much I exfoliate, apply lotion afterwards, all that stuff. Because of this, I’ve been looking into...

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Knew about the face, but not about the crotch. Can confirm, caused cuts and bleeding.

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Great. Now I’m craving French fries

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Preganté

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I’m sure it’s possible. How else are they made?

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The genders are made up and the points don’t matter, but if one mf’er misgenders me, this house of cards collapses.

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Thank you for your service. Do you take skritches for payment?

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Good fluff🥰

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Virtual On! How I miss that game. I saw it in an arcade and it brought back so many memories 💖

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That won’t vest until 5 years later.

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Unexpected? Did you steal somebody else’s voice?

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Oh my gosh! Congrats, beautiful! 🥳🥰

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As a woman who’s castrated, doesn’t work like that, honey…

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Boosted by the successful campaign to stop conversion therapy being banned in the UK, Williams is now setting out a strategy that, if successful, would roll-back decades of hard-won human rights legislation, including same-sex marriage and anti-discrimination laws.

well that sounds oddly familiar

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headpatsSo is Touhou a style or is it a shoot 'em up game?

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Thank you!

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As a trans woman of 4 years I would dislike this greatly. Just treat trans people-- trans women-- as women. Say "hi, compliment our hair, our nails, makeup, etc. Rule of thumb: if you wouldn’t say it to a cis person, don’t say it to someone who’s trans.

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I’ve been feeling this lately. 5pm comes, it’s dark out, and just feel so eepy.

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This is why I never allude to being a woman. Haven’t had to worry about dick pics 😅

Getting super emotional and depressed on a monthly cycle?

So for the past few months, usually near the beginning of the month, I will have a few days where I am super depressed and emotional. Today is one of those days. It started off with me waking up crying at 2 am for no reason and I was literally sobbing for 2 hours before I was able to fall back asleep. Then I waking up, I felt...

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I’ve noticed the same. You could use a period tracking app or daily emotions app to track it if you want. I think Progesterone will also have an effect on emotions. So just be aware if you ever start that.

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I was at rock bottom when I came out. I figured that if it was life or death then fuck it, I’m going out how I feel I should. That was 4 years ago. I feel like the misgendering stopped at around the 3 to 3.5 year mark and that was the worst thing to happen. Keep in mind I live in a very liberal area and get hypervigilant when traveling to conservative areas.

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Did your autocorrect fuck up fleshlight?

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I hate, hate to ask this, but would this have made January 6th “valid”?

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Only somewhat changes, but for the better. PEM expansion behind the out of state dorks has been completed. Also, I got a free hug from Satan this year 🥰

Emails Reveal How a Hospital Bowed to Political Pressure to Stop Treating Trans Teens (www.propublica.org)

An investigation by ProPublica: The reporters reveal a coordinated attack by far-right activists against the Medical University of South Carolina which resulted in the hospital no longer providing treatment for gender dysphoria for people under 18.

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Weak bitches. They tried pulling this stunt with Boston Children’s and the city of Boston told the rightoids to go fuck themselves

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My gosh they’re gorgeous 😍

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Hey, I can’t speak for others, but love seeing you here sweetheart. Remember: chin up, tits out. You got this.

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After that AI generated image was denied copyright, not sure how this can be enforced

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Tried pink but doesn’t work for me. A goth black and purple or violet however…

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I believe I heard drag queens mentioning they wish they started laser sooner to thin out and lighten hair, but not 100% sure on that. Make note though, orchiectomy did not help with an active reduction in hair nor a higher voice (which I was really hoping it would). I’ve had several sessions of laser and electrolysis to get to where I am.

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Fancrittering is my new favorite word 🥰

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The worst is having to talk and it all falls apart 😮‍💨

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I’m trying 😅 Had 6 sessions with a vocal therapist a year ago and felt like it helped avoiding damaging strain. I hope you have positive results and have fun with the silliness 💖

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That’s what I thought. Thank you for constantly being the voice of reason, FirstMajesticComet

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