cynetri,
@cynetri@midwest.social avatar

Programming is really not as hard as it looks to start, just don’t start with C++ for the love of god lmao

ShadowCatEXE,
@ShadowCatEXE@lemmy.world avatar

Don’t ride your bike off that boulder…Rollerskates aren’t your forte.

TheRedSpade,

Don’t drive to the bar. If your vehicle is there, you’ll try to drive home when, not if, you black out. The alcoholism only gets worse from there and takes you YEARS to recover from.

LongPigFlavor,

Your parents getting divorced and you should tell your parents to get you diagnosed for autism. Especially since we used to be mute when we were younger and we were also in special ed and rode the short bus.

NotErisma,
@NotErisma@hexbear.net avatar

The only thing you’re gonna like about being an adult is staying up late and having dessert before dinner…

Also you will reach a point in your life where having dessert before dinner, well shit- having a meal in general will be a blessing.

dialectical_analysis_of_gock,
@dialectical_analysis_of_gock@hexbear.net avatar

tell the child psychiatrist that you are trans. don’t go to san antonio you will get into a knife fight and the cops will be called don’t start doing sex work the money isn’t worth it

Dinodicchellathicc,

Why do you use hexbear as your instance? I heard it was pretty right leaning, is that true?

dialectical_analysis_of_gock,
@dialectical_analysis_of_gock@hexbear.net avatar

it’s not true this is what the current active and local feed looks like

https://hexbear.net/pictrs/image/c574f846-991a-4d9d-9799-6bb21ba2838c.png

I use it because it was the only active lemmy instance when I started using lemmy three years ago, also I’ve had some amazing conversations and seen some things like the community raising thousands of dollars for those in need. Not to mention weekly community events

Catasaur,
@Catasaur@lemmy.catasaur.xyz avatar

Hexbear is a leftist instance. People interpret any criticism of Democrats as coming from the right instead of the left.

Also, Hexbear refers to both Dems and Republicans as liberals. In the US, “liberal” usually only refers to social liberalism. The definition of liberalism elsewhere in the world also refers to liberal conservatism.

ThereRisesARedStar,

Try to focus more on coding, do it about 60/40 with 3d modeling.

Don’t bother playing chess or doing wargaming. All the communities you find are full of assholes.

If you come out as trans you’re not going to be sent to a torture camp, your dad is just going to be more of a bully for a couple years. It’s worth it to be able to be yourself in that aspect for middle school and highschool. Your mom has a spine when it comes to her kids, she just doesn’t really show it except for the major stuff. Go easy on her, she’s coming at this from the angle of someone who’s had an abusive childhood.

Stop using your autism as an excuse not to make friends. You’ll be happier for it. There are plenty of autistic people in your school with worse social skills that have friends.

Don’t bother trying to argue with people about politics. You can talk about it but you should disengage if theyre not interested.

Read Leslie feinberg and Alexandria Kollontai instead of bothering to learn neoclassical economics. Neoclassical economics is eviscerated once you read Marx, and understanding socialist economics teaches you that stuff in enough detail simply through criticism.

Stop making model kits of the US military, especially ww2. They put your your grandparents in a concentration camp and nuked their ancestral home. Go make some Spanish Civil War and eastern front models. You can make some cool German armor kits without it being problematic and giving you weird stares by researching what armor was under the command of the Romanian revolutionary forces.

janus2,
@janus2@lemmy.sdf.org avatar
  1. you’re right about all the contradictions in the Bible
  2. drop everything and immediately begin learning Java and Python. if you get good enough you can skip college entirely and save years of emotional hell
  3. convince mom to let you quit the instruments you hate playing and do computer extracurriculars instead
  4. buy bitcoin sell in Nov '21 lol (or just invent it)
  5. learn Mandarin Chinese, not Japanese. also maybe chill w/ the weeb shit
  6. move to NYC as soon as you can and DO NOT LEAVE even if there’s a scary pandemic because you won’t be able to afford to move back and you’ll miss it real bad :(
  7. BUY AN EARTHBOUND CARTRIDGE BEFORE THEY BECOME UNOBTAINABLY EXPENSIVE 😭
sag,

You are beautiful.

Marcbmann,

Get your thyroid checked out. Turns out major depressive disorder is brought on by hypothyroidism. Who knew?

thelsim,
@thelsim@sh.itjust.works avatar

Don’t back down, ever. What are they going to do, punch you? You’ve had worse.

It’s ok to be yourself, they might not understand but will respect you for it.

Don’t try to label yourself, you’ll never find a match and will only doubt yourself.

You are loved by more people than you realize. Talk to someone if you feel hurt or confused.

Most importantly: I believe in you.

PS: go easy on your little brother, he has his own crap to deal with.

1993_toyota_camry,
@1993_toyota_camry@beehaw.org avatar

Don’t worry about school, don’t go to university. Just work any job and buy the first house you can possibly afford.

lemminator,

Please don’t let your dad marry that cunt who’ll become your absolute doom in the future. She may seem nice and warm but it’s a fucking facade. She’s a fucking cunt and they will destroy every inch of happiness you have.

Getallen,

Dont open that site

WIIHAPPYFEW,
@WIIHAPPYFEW@hexbear.net avatar

Find a way to stay in touch with the guy you met by rambling about fnaf with him before middle school begins. Also you’re autistic, which DOESN’T mean you’re just dumb as it turns out (and is also the reason why you sketch fnaf maps every day), and btw you should look into that Bernie Sanders guy who the news is still kinda talking about

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