rosswinn,

I’m thinking before people drive…

probablyaCat,

I hate the idea that older kids shouldn't do it. Like I remember getting shit when I decided to be kid-like again at 15 after not having done it when I was 13 and 14.

Houses told me I was too old. And looking back now, as a parent of teens, and I wish they and their friends were just going out trick r treating. I will definitely encourage any kid I see. And at my age anyone under 26 is a kid, easily. I'd much rather kids do something communal and fun than just go out drinking. I'm sure that by the next Halloween when I was 16 I was probably doing something less good than asking for free candy.

If we want people to be communal, have fun, and be safe then we shouldn't give them shit when they do that. So I don't care if the old dude down the streets dons a skeleton costume and grabs a pillow case. If he has a costume, he gets candy. And anyone who tells me different will get called out for being a killjoy.

Admetus,

I think getting older means they can do some pretty cool stuff with their costumes. I see nothing wrong with it, it’s a massive outdoor party.

agissilver,

Risky to tell them they’re too old. Teenagers are full of mischief, they don’t get the treat and you get the trick – eggs on your front door!

Luvon,

If you still “let” them apparently they are young enough

Imgonnatrythis,

You are asking this on Lemmy? Many of us go to conventions just hoping to see a glimpse of a 23yr old in a costume.

Amro,
@Amro@kbin.social avatar

@JSens1998 What's the point of slutty Halloween costumes otherwise? They're not meant for minors.

rhythmisaprancer,
@rhythmisaprancer@kbin.social avatar

I'm fairly old and don't have kids and have never lived anywhere (as an adult) that had trick or treating. Based on my childhood memories of participating, I think having more older kids and young adults as, essentially, guardians, would be great. The parent to kids ratio was not great 30+ years ago. Just don't send out 23 year old creepers.

NutWrench,
@NutWrench@lemmy.ml avatar

As long as you’re wearing a costume, I don’t care how old you are. You’ll get a treat.

IanAtCambio,

I’d just be happy she has a costume on. Around here we get grown adults with no costumes asking for candy with their kids. I guess I enable them because I don’t want to call them out in front of their own kids, but come on.

JokeDeity,

Shouldn’t be one. I don’t give a shit if you’re 65 years old, if you knock you can have some candy. It’s a holiday, for fun, I don’t need to turn it into another fucking ethics test. I just want to have fun and I want others to have fun.

captainlezbian,

I stopped at 14. At 23 it’s definitely weird, but whatever. I think it’s unfortunate that our culture shames adults for partaking in controlled mischief aspects of holidays and other such fun holiday traditions.

Admetus,

Your sister is having fun and like you say, each to their own. I’d do it definitely especially together with my daughter.

tacosanonymous,

If someone has the confidence to dress up and ring my doorbell, they’re getting candy and positive vibes from me.

Pulptastic,

I give candy to parents with costumes. Knock on my door, say trick or treat, and you get candy. Them’s the rules.

I also give adults I know beer or seltzer.

gabbagabbahey,

If you don’t give a treat, you risk getting tricked.

kenoh,
@kenoh@lemm.ee avatar

Yep. If you show up to my door with a costume, you’re getting candy. Age is an afterthought if at all.

MilkToaster,

How generous of you.

but I let her do it.

TimewornTraveler,

lol right?

funkajunk,
@funkajunk@lemm.ee avatar

Pretty sure they mean they leave their sister to do as she pleases, and not shaming her for it.

slackassassin,

Ya, they didn’t even say, “Let her do it,” they said, “let her do her,” as in “you do you.” But it was a clumsy usage of the phrase.

EuroNutellaMan,
@EuroNutellaMan@lemmy.world avatar

There’s no age limit. Adulthood isn’t about not being whimsical it’s about being whimsical and not caring that losers are judging you for being happy

nomecks,

It’s better that teenagers are out collecting candy and not committing mischief.

EuroNutellaMan,
@EuroNutellaMan@lemmy.world avatar

They should do both

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