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Currently 2. 3 if you count my catboy boyfriend.

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Oh shit, I didn’t see the A. thanks for pointing it out. Maybe my brain was going in the direction of “a trans person”.

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BTW, yes I was exploring the Mojave just a moment ago.

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Great! I convinced my (cis) boyfriend to play it for the first time a few weeks ago and I think he has like 40 hours and still haven’t finished the game.

I am also playing it to try things I couldn’t try previously.

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It’s KiwiFarms what we are talking about. Just fuck them. They deserve to be censored, and I almost never say this.

Hiii cute trans people, my name is valentine, but it doesn't sound good with my last name at all, so I was wondering if you can help me find a full name that sounds cute. (lemmy.ml)

I don’t really plan to use it on legal documents yet (it is a nightmare to legally change my legal name in my country), but it might sound better online and to introduce myself. I would appreciate suggestions uwu.

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Sounds like an incel self help author:

“Stop Simping! The absolute dating guide for sigma males” - By Chad Breedlove.

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Not really, anything goes, but I really like the letter V

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It is absolutely amazing, I didn’t know about her. I wasn’t very sure about Perpetua, like, Valentine Perpetua. But then I started reading and see that her first name was Vibia. Vibia Valentine sounds cool, it might work. I’ll see if it sticks.

BTW I’m not lesbian, I’m bisexual in a relationship with a cis man. Hopefully I’m not appropriating anything from lesbians, lol.

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No. And I dont believe in anything supernatural.

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That kinda sounds like pantheism.

Is someone really tired of the therapy speak on reddit?

I havent been on Reddit in a while. I reduced drastically the amount of Reddit related content I watch, and gotta say, they helped me a lot a while back to recognize unacceptable behavior, and showing it to my bf was important in his development to recognize how abusive his mom was and taking steps to go leave her and go NC....

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I mean, the cliché phrases like “GO NC ASAP”, “LEAVE THEM”, “THATS ABUSIVE” “DIVORCE NOW”, “BOUNDARIES”, and others.

I mean, yeah, there is some helpful and maybe live saving advice, but im started to get annoyed by everyone on Reddit thinking they are psychologists.

And thats another one, they always say “GO TO A THERAPIST” and never ever mention a psychologist, like, they exist you know? And therapy doesn’t work for some people.

I dont know. Im starting to think I rather hear someone who went to school and has a medical license to tell me about psychology things. Maybe.

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Good to know. Thanks.

Women working in Antarctica say they were left to fend for themselves against sexual harassers (apnews.com)

The National Science Foundation, the federal agency that oversees the U.S. Antarctic Program, published a report in 2022 in which 59% of women said they’d experienced harassment or assault while on the ice, and 72% of women said such behavior was a problem in Antarctica....

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Being alone in the middle of a literal ice desert with a lot of male nerds so socially awkward that they rather be in the middle of an ice desert sounds like an absolute disaster.

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If been in courses and workshops where people from the government party in my country teach people how to use twitter, specifically to boost the president and ministers posts. So they were training real people to act as bots and generate artificial engagement.

Also they are 100% using bots, and when bot accounts are removed they loose followers and claim that “imperialistic social media want to censor us”.

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Is more Tencent or Samsung that Google.

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Bill Clinton’s “Star Wars” program.

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Samsung is EVERYTHING in Korea. Not so much in the west beyond phones and smart tv’s, and Laundry machines or whatever, but in Korea, Samsung does EVERYTHING.

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Oh shit

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So, that makes your typing worse so you can’t be identified?

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Slavery ended a while ago, but in the US there is still people alive today who suffered through the Jim Crow laws, and there is still a lot of systematic racism. So, racism didnt end with slavery.

For what I understand about reparations, it is for compensating the black communities, because rich white people has many generations of wealth, meanwhile black people only until a few decades ago were legality unable to make it bigger, being confined to poor communities, and being discriminated agaisnt in every aspect of a white dominated society.

Basically black people had so many obstacules for progress until kinda recently, and reparation are a way to level the ground. Reparations would allow more black people to go to college, feed their families, and get out of extreme poverty.

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Yeah. Thats a good thing.

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Are you calking me illiterate? Wtf man, get out tankie.

/s /j

Yeah, I feel like people just wanna start a fight without even reading what the actual argument is.

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As an autistic I aprove, if you arent saying this to a ND or mentally disabled person.

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La puta que te re mil parió!

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Thanks. But my country has not the same experience with civil rights in the matter of race as the USA.

We never had strong segregation laws, slavery was abolished almost at the same time as in the us, since then we race mixed a lot, and some believe that “there is no racism” here because we are mixed, even when is so obvious that there is a lot of racism, but people just stay quiet about it. But as I said, there were no hard segregation laws no I cant draw some similar experiences from here.

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Thank you. Yeah. That is true. Im a “white” “middle class” (I say middle class because of my living conditions, which are way above average and I lived in privileges my entire life, but im currently gathering coins for public transport and I have to walk almost everywhere I go) leftist and certainly I dont get along with others like me because they are too comfortable, they are too conservative to be considered leftists, besides what they think of themselves, and they dont really care about class, race or gender issues.

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Ive heard of pizza shops refusing to hire women for deliveries, because in some places they might ask for a pizza, then kidnap and SA the delivery woman.

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Read this is Woody’s yelling voice.

Yes, you are a girl :D

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Malvaviscos. En español.

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Maybe in your country, but I think in most of hispanic would a Bombom or bonbon or whatever, is a chocolate ball.

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Wait. Out of all the bullshit and evil stuffs EA has done over the years, they were voted worse company in America over gay characters?

That is ridiculous.

There is plenty of reason to hate EA. The only good thing they’ve done in a while was making The Sims even Gayer. But then they sell you a glorified overpriced and utterly worthless stuff pack.

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