I lived in South Korea for a while and I met a South Korean young lady who had learned English from an Australian teacher. This Korean girl had the most beautiful Australian accent with a hint of Korean. She was very talkative, Asian people get excited when they meet english-speakers so they can practice speaking English with us. So she talked a lot. It was a beautiful culture medley.
Is it shallow, or petty, to decide based on name alone? Yeah, pretty much, but there’s probably something, a product or service or site, that the name has made you gloss right over it or jump to it ASAP....
How’d you know I’ve spent the last month completely stuck in a literal US State that I don’t live in, but got kinda comfortably complacent here because it’s so peaceful and the price of fuel is fantastic compared to the state I need to go to where the jobs there pay much better because the cost of living is so much higher which also means there’s more stress & traffic & crime,
so it makes me want to stay here where I am with no stress, no crime, no traffic, but the pay here would be lower but I’ve got to make a decision soon before my bank account runs dry, I need to get a job somewhere soon,
So every day all day long my mind keeps ping-ponging back & forth between these two options, so the result is I’ve been sitting here doing nothing because each decision would affect the rest of my life in drastically different ways, and choosing one or the other is agonizing and I just can’t.
More often than not, the best way to hide is to simply blend in with the crowds – this also encompasses one’s choice for a username. It is relatively simple to make a single throwaway account – just come up with a username, and off you go – however, if one makes throwaway accounts often, the task of thinking of a unique,...
She sounds like a free spirit. Maybe she needs less micromanaging, because kids who feel oppressed will try to break out of it like punching through a paper bag.
She’d probably thrive with tons of freedom
but with strict consequences if she does something dangerous to hurt herself or others.
Have a therapist tail me in the street as I interact with people? That sounds like a really expensive therapist. But oh how often I wish I had a therapist with me all day every day to work with me through every glitchy moment.
Yeah. I have bipolar disorder. It’s not the scary crazy kind, it’s just crippling to my own self. Over the decades I cope with it by isolating myself whenever I’m not feeling well, which is most of the time, which has crippled my interpersonal skills.
I know what you mean. Once every couple years I happen to be in a talkative outgoing mood and people think I’m flirting with them. But I’m not.
Anyway that mood only lasts for a couple hours. And it happens once every couple years. I can’t predict it and I can’t plan it and I can’t control it, and I can’t even shift that charm to work on people I actually want it to work on.
Because unfortunately when I’m attracted to someone I get cripplingly shy and I can’t even look at them or talk to them.
That sounds fun and sexy and relatively harmless but
Realistically I imagine men would not mind that as much as women would. But either way it’s assault and I prefer to stay on the side of social propriety & lawfulness.
Yeah I just experimented pushed my own button there and you’re right it really is an innocuous horny button.
So sad I’ve lived this long and no one has ever touched me in yummy ways like that. I have so much to learn. How to touch other people in those subtle yummy ways
If you don’t mind sharing, may I ask what medication has worked best for you?
I’ve tried so many but experienced mostly bad side effects. But over 20 years ago I recall having a good experience with Paxil before my medical insurance stopped. I don’t even know if Paxil even exist anymore cuz that was so long ago but I recall if a Paxil patient suddenly stops taking it instead of gradually titrating down, then they get a bad withdrawal effect like “brain zaps.”
Thankfully I’ve never experience that but side effects do scare me.
I’m pragmatic & self-aware. My face is ugly from certain angles and really cute from other angles. I’m physically healthy, an acrobat, my hobbies are exercising & gym & climbing, and anyone who does that has really nice healthy fit bodies. Genetically mesomorphic like Britney Spears & J-Lo but I have posture issues because of lordosis and also weird alignment issues with my shoulders elbows and wrists that make me look kinda like a primate when I walk. Which affects my self-esteem.
You are strong for loving her through all that and staying by her side and caring enough to notice what she’s going through and the fact that you’re verbalizing it all here shows that you’ve paid attention to her and you care.
We live in a society (lemmy.world)
You can choose normal, fancy, or wildcard. (startrek.website)
ATBGE? (startrek.website)
Which things have you avoided or embraced on the name alone?
Is it shallow, or petty, to decide based on name alone? Yeah, pretty much, but there’s probably something, a product or service or site, that the name has made you gloss right over it or jump to it ASAP....
How do people make videos of their face while they're talking, with other videos /images overlaid or in the background? What software do they use?
What's stopping you from moving on?
How do you deal with incompetence?
Especially paired with ignorance.
Bottle of that good stuff (thumbsnap.com)
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What should be used for anonymous usernames?
More often than not, the best way to hide is to simply blend in with the crowds – this also encompasses one’s choice for a username. It is relatively simple to make a single throwaway account – just come up with a username, and off you go – however, if one makes throwaway accounts often, the task of thinking of a unique,...
What news source or sources are you go tos
Typically i’l pick 2 sources from each political leaning...
Indian fireworks are next level noncredible (files.catbox.moe)
I choose to believe (slrpnk.net)
Made this pic in Dalle
The call of the void is irresistible to toddlers (lemmy.world)
Why not? (media.mas.to)
You can even leave your doors unlocked and let your guard down. (startrek.website)
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Men of lemmy, what would you do if you woke up female one day
The slow decline isn't slow anymore (lemmy.world)
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If you had the ability to transmit information to your past self, but exclusively through fictional novels, which ones would you select?
Love hurts (lemmy.stuart.fun)
She legitimately said “he seemed well adjusted.” After telling me he looked a lot like me 15 years ago.
whats your best drinking story?
Don’t dox yourself btw. It’s the storytellers prerogative to take a bit of creative license.
If you could go back in time and do, or bring, one thing to mess up the timeline what would it be?
Reverse warewolf (lemmy.world)