How often to you bail on a half-written post or response?

I have had a tendency since my earliest days on social media where I will get halfway or more through a response, and end up just cancelling it. Sometimes I feel like I’m just being to over the top with snark or otherwise don’t want to be that kind of person, but a lot of the time I’ll decide I just really don’t care enough to finish it. Sometimes I just know it’ll be an argument and I know what the person is going to say, and just have no interest in continuing the discussion. I did it on Reddit, I did it on bulletin boards, I even did it in my teens and twenties on Usenet - and I’ll probably go on doing it for as long as I continue using this medium. I probably do it a bit more than half the time. I know that lemmy benefits from more content and I have had some great discussions, but sometimes it’s just not worth it for me.

How about you? Do you hit publish or cancel more often?

Lophostemon,

Yeah that’s something I’d never do because it just seems

Buizel,
@Buizel@lemmy.world avatar

Virtually every single response I type out gets canceled without posting. It’s extremely rare that I actually feel good enough about a comment I’m making to actually post it. Even if I do make a comment I’ll often come right back and delete it, or make a hundred rapid fire edits to it before usually deleting it anyway. That’s how after 6 months here I’ve only made 5 total comments.

SuddenDownpour,

Virtual hugs.

Amends1782,

Constantly

bhamlin,

All the

vortexal,
@vortexal@sopuli.xyz avatar

Quite often, probably mostly because I have social anxiety. Sometimes I feel like I’m not adding anything meaningful to that conversation or that I’m probably not being as helpful as I initially think I am. I sometimes also have trouble putting my thoughts into words.

LilB0kChoy,

Probably 50/50. Mostly because I don’t care enough to get in an argument or have to defend what I say.

Simple throwaway comments, observations, generic opinion stuff I’ll just drop it and move on.

Anything I’m really knowledgeable in though, I’ll start and then cancel because there’s always someone who wants to challenge and argue and it’s just exhausting.

thorbot,

Fairly often. I’ll get a sentence out and then

weariedfae,

Hahaha I saw this after bailing on another post. Like 80% of the time I think better of it. My comments tend to actually get posted when I’m in bed half asleep. Apparently I’m more willing to share when I’m mentally impaired from tiredness

IvanOverdrive,

Sometimes I realize I’m not contributing anything new to the conversation. I just upvote the post that said what I wanted to say and be done with it. Yeah, I could get some upvotes, but what’s the point? It’s not like I can buy things with imaginary points.

caesar_salad83, (edited )

here’s me, posting 1 in every 10 comments I start writing.

roguetrick,

I have a personality with a low neuroticism and a low conscientiousness, so I usually post.

aeki,
@aeki@slrpnk.net avatar

I’m inverse you.

Genuinely overthinking this very reply.

Luckily, I’m also impulsive.

derekabutton,

50% of my messages here on Lemmy.

I’d guess more like 25% of messages at work and 75% on the discord server I use with IRL friends are deleted without being posted.

yum_burnt_toast,
@yum_burnt_toast@reddthat.com avatar

i tend to be long-winded and i dont often have a good sense for what information is explicitly necessary, so i have started a fair few comments that ive lost steam on and convinced myself werent worth posting. i also have not participated in social media for about ten years, so i dont have the sense that i can just casually post something without it being particularly valid, but when i do post its after reassuring myself that what i say doesnt always have to be life-altering.

so yea, probably 40% of the time i bail if i start thinking about it more than i should, which is easy to do when i have to proofread so much due to florisboard not having autocorrect.

SatanicNotMessianic,

I think we’re very much on the same page.

Redfox8,

Every once in a…

NotMyOldRedditName,

You pretty much summed it all up there.

I’d say 30% or so for me?

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