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I’d like to welcome @ada to the transfem moderation team! 🤗 Ada is one of the admins of the lemmy.blahaj.zone instance and a very active member of the transfem community. She has already been providing me with assistance in running the community and answering any questions that I have, she’s a perfect fit for our second...

For some context I really want to loose weight and get rid of some pre hrt male fat I still have, I currently only eat one meal a day but from my thinking since they all seem to have some level of surgar I’m actually gaining weight even though I’ve only eating once that day. I’m not really sure but I know exercise will...

I know I have posted herd before and many have already seen my photos and said I had mental health issues but I’m still kinds convinced T hit me way too hard. I’m convinced that any doctor should of looked at me and said “no I’m sorry I don’t think hrt will be able to help you” on top of that I was and still am very...

So naturally, even though I still need more time to figure it all out, and I’m by far not sure enough that I actually want it, my mind started drifting towards hrt....

Any ideas to find trans friendly clothing stores near me? Live in a fairly conservative place but don’t really have access to online shopping. Idk, just want to actually try a dress on somewhere.

I keep saying my deadname in my head, this kinda started a bit after a family gathering where I heard my deadname a ton. This was in may and sometimes I will just say my deadname in my head and it feels wrong, it also kinda makes my real name feel a little wrong, even though I know it’s not and I like the name skylar

I don’t really plan to use it on legal documents yet (it is a nightmare to legally change my legal name in my country), but it might sound better online and to introduce myself. I would appreciate suggestions uwu.

The way I feel like everyone sees me is the first photo in this gallery, I am really ugly as you can see. Secondly I feel like the other photos are lies....

im constantly being forced to buy new clothes which I mean, rightfully so I need but like, I feel so much better wearing the limited fem clothes I have (that my parents don’t know about), how do I build up the courage and tell them I want to buy like skirts and stuff to wear???...

Let me just preface this by saying that I’m not yet 100% sure that this is who I am. But I wanted to try out another name, to see how it feels. Maybe I will realize I’m transfem one day, or maybe that I’m NB or fluid....

Also a little nervous/afraid....

Holy shit! Halloween can be a fucking femme playground! This is my first one realized, but lately I’ve been thinking this could be a great time to try some spooky polishes publicly and it not be too unusual. But then again, I was at the store recently and saw the makeup, devil, and cat headband & tail sets and 💡...

Jk! Lol idk what I’m doing, I’m the new girl(I haven’t been one that long) but general convo if anyone is interested?...

Should I just be like surprise me and provide a rough understanding of what I want.

Idk if I’ve been drinking too much or what, but I had this movie on for extra stim while trying to get shit done and this scene just hit me hard. 😭...

I recently (probably due to medication) stopped obsessively biting/picking at my nails so much and was able to allow them to grow out, and for the first time fille them and otherwise shape them and OMG I LOVE MY NAILS it feels a little ridiculous, but seeing them when I’m looking at my palm is so awesome!...

I’m so fuckin happy rn. Gonna go shopping a bit more tomorrow I think. I took Elise’s advice and ended up going to a fetish shop, ended up only buying some stocking but I feel like I need more lmao. Did look around the city to see if any shops would kind of fit the bill (LGBTQ+ friendly, drag) but everything else was so...

Attempted cross-post...

So, my kid had a corset they weren’t using. They said it was too big. So… They let me try it on and it looks so feminizing, even under a shirt! I put on my sticky nude bra thing with it, and God it feels so good! It may not be much boobage, but hell, I look down and see something other than man-belly now!...

It’s been a while since I posted. A lot has been changing and happening for me....

[he/him] I’m sorry if this is the wrong place to ask; I wanted to post in an active, trans people-focused community where I’d get answers that were for sure going to lead to a place that align with my values. Feel free to delete this but please explain to me if it’s offensive so I can correct my behavior going forward....

CW: transphobia...

I was talking to a workmate today about how much I love quiche. And I remembered the saying “Real men don’t eat quiche”. And back when I was in denial, before I could come out to anyone, I remember smiling from ear to ear as I would tell people I love quiche, and I guess that means I’m not a real man....

I live in the south so I am a bit nervous to ask for makeup help at a store here in boymode, but I do need to pick my shades correctly. Is there any phone apps to help with this?

It all started about 37 years ago. I was born male and I was content. Sure, I was a bit disconnected, like I was just along for the ride and not really part of my own life. “That’s just how life is,” I thought. “Everybody feels this way, right? So why question it?” I certainly couldn’t talk to my verbally and...