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rosymind, to asklemmy in Middle-aged and some what tongue tied (medical condition) anyone else in this situation, and go through with the procedure?

I was born with one and it was partially corrected at birtb. I can’t stick my tongue out far, but I have none of the other issues you’ve listed (partly because I’m a woman married to a man).

I highly doubt you would regret having it done as long as you’re in a clean environment with a surgeon who knows what they are doing

rosymind, to memes in The current state of Twitch

I can’t do it, either. The only way it’s tolerable is if I’m sitting next to them and can occasionally grab the controller (husband and I get through 1 player games this way, currently playing The Sinking City)

rosymind, to memes in The future is now

This is not the future I envisioned as a kid

rosymind, to asklemmy in Do you think Lemmy is hurt by having too many dead/low-PPM communities?

I love the simplicity and directness of this answer

rosymind, to memes in Oh No, anyway

Yes! Can we pin this somewhere for new Lemmy users to read? I’m so over the right/wrong ONLY attitudes

rosymind, to asklemmy in What's the biggest "Green Flag" that could be misinterpreted as a "Red Flag"?

Idk. I recognize a lot of my beliefs and behaviours as cringe, but I think I’ve cringed so hard at them that I’m now on the other side of that. I look back at my ignorant, gullible, past-self with compassion and the understanding that I’m still likely holding on to incorrect beliefs (and that I’ll likely continue to grow through them) It’s partly why I tend to be so argumentative, I think. (How do you grow without challenge?)

I currently hold the belief of: Love yourself, it’ll help to generate more compassion for those around you

(Though I confess I still have many moments of wanting to call people idiots, and it takes a lot to realize that I, too, could be the idiot. It’s a process, ya know?)

rosymind, to asklemmy in How do you deal with two people who you are close to and have to spend every day with...but one of them hates the other one?

Take the hardworking co-worker aside. Say:

“Hey, this situation has been difficult for me. I enjoy working with both you and Lazy, and I miss the days when everyone got along. I don’t want to invalidate your frustrations, but it’s stressfull to hear about how lazy Lazy is being. It doesn’t bother me that Lazy does less work, but the tention between you two does bother me because I enjoy both of your company”

And see how Hardworker responds. Then go to Lazy.

“Hey Lazy. Hardworker seems upset that you take more breaks than they do. Do you think you could talk to her and try to clear the air? I enjoy working with both of you, but the tension between you two is upsetting”

And again, see how they respond.

It’s entirely possible that neither of them will respond well to this, so bare that in mind. If it’s stressing you out, though, you have an obligation to yourself to try. Just also be aware that it could backfire. So be sure to weigh whether or not it’s worth it to get involved

rosymind, to biodiversity in A striking and extremely rare half female, half male bird has been spotted by a University of Otago zoologist

Excerpt:

Professor Spencer says gynandromorphs – animals with both male and female characteristics in a species that usually have separate sexes – are important for our understanding of sex determination and sexual behaviour in birds.

The main groups in which the phenomenon has been recorded include animal species which feature strong sexual dimorphism; most often insects, especially butterflies, crustaceans, spiders, even lizards and rodents.

“This particular example of bilateral gynandromorphy – male one side and female the other – shows that, as in several other species, either side of the bird can be male or female.

“The phenomenon arises from an error during female cell division to produce an egg, followed by double-fertilization by two sperm,” he explains.

rosymind, to random in Because this is totally somthing that actually happens am I right guys

I haven’t yet seen anyone else point out:

If the embryo was tested, they would know the sex before transferring it to the surrogate uterus (easily avoiding the problem). IVF is insanely expensive, as are surrogates. (Surrogates go for $50k plus per pregnancy)

Whoever did this comic is so willfully (and woefully) ignorant on so many levels that I wonder how they’re able to function at all

rosymind, to asklemmy in Whats your such opinion

Depends on the game, for me. I couldn’t imagine trying to play a game like Stellaris on a console- but a game like Horizons is better suited to a console system. I play Skyrim (yes, I know) with a controller on pc, tho. Husband and I played Diablo4 with me using the console and him using his laptop with my wide-screen moved into the livingroom temporarily

Personally I think both are needed for optimal gaming.

rosymind, to memes in alternative to trees

That was my thought as well. I’ve seen what some homeless people are capable of. (Not trying to dump on unhoused people, here, but there are some seriously ill people left out on the streets). This glass needs to be nearly unbreakable for it to work

rosymind, to memes in Gotta spend money to make money, I suppose.

Yeah, the purpose of the label is entirely defeated here, because almost everything has a label on it. I’m waiting for the day they have planes fly over with banners reading “breathing this air has been known to the state of California to cause birth defects and cancer”

I mean, it would probably be true, but still

rosymind, to 196 in Ted rule

There are too many letters in “Rafael” for the average Texan to read. Ted is much easier for them

rosymind, to asklemmy in What's the simplest thing humans are too dumb to grasp?

Same with elevators!

rosymind, to asklemmy in With about 1 month to go, how would you label 2023?

Yikes. My condolences. (Especially about the cats)

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