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Me (Peli), cats Robber and Conroy.

Chipping away at a romance series, first three books complete. Happy to send epub on request.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6DY9S3M

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ShaulaEvans, to bookstodon
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My cousin may be going abroad next year as an ESL teacher. She has studied languages herself but doesn't have ESL teacher training. She has expressed an interest in reading some good books on language teaching & ESL teaching specifically to get prepared.

Can anyone in circles recommend good books on how to teach ESL that have practical, actionable advice for a smart, educated, motivated aspiring teacher?

Thank you!

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pelielios,
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@ShaulaEvans @edutooters @bookstodon My mother (longtime college ESL teacher)'s first reaction was laughter. Then PBS with captions and hobby groups.

I would advise as much interaction with native speakers as possible. She had many students from Spain who fared badly because ew, Spanish? You must be poor! Meanwhile Moroccans did great because ooh, French is so cultured and exotic.

herhandsmyhands, to random
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FCC to restore #NetNeutrality and also, hey, to protect our online activity from scrapping--be it for #ArtificialIntelligence training without our consent, or for even more nefarious purposes.

When the public comment period opens, for your own interest, comment--the vultures will, by the thousands, using bots/AI, so we need to show up and make sure our voices are heard, and our interests protected.

https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2023/10/fcc-moves-ahead-with-title-ii-net-neutrality-rules-in-3-2-party-line-vote/

pelielios,
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@herhandsmyhands @romancelandia It's funny - I don't have a problem with basic TTS. I feel like that's a decision on the user's end based on their own personal accessibility needs, made with the understanding that the result will be imperfect.

But once the end product is being marketed as an "audiobook" (as opposed to an ebook the reader may run through a screen reader if they wish)...

Those are two very different products and I'm not happy about efforts to blur the line.

pelielios, to mmromance
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Last day to pick up Headquarters books 1-3 for free (ends midnight PST)!

Low-angst comfy queer romance between supernatural superspies, while a magical cold war happens in the background.

Book 4 well underway, stay tuned!

https://a.co/d/4YoFDCP

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mjjmori, to bookstodon
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Hello- I’ve been off for a week crook, but now back and raring to go. Time to resume writign my novel 😊

Just posting to create some accountability, really, with you all and void, for myself. 🤔

Do you have ways to help bring you towards writing?

@bookstodon @amwriting

pelielios,
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@mjjmori @bookstodon @amwriting A streamer I like and whose videos I often play for background noise is -- I think -- doing a Bubsy marathon tonight to repent for his sins, so I have resolved to write through the duration of the stream.

I have a good chunk ahead loosely plotted so I think this could work. I keep stalling out on book 4 even though the ending was one of the first things I wrote.

So I must suffer along with Bubsy.

pelielios,
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@mjjmori @bookstodon @amwriting Bubsy the Bobcat in 3D, no less.

I won't say I'm getting a ton of writing done but with the funk I've been in lately, pecking out a few lines at a time is progress, and it's looking like we'll be here... a while. Oof.

pelielios,
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@Jtmoriartywriter @mjjmori @bookstodon @amwriting Nah I think right now I'm stuck on a pivotal scene because it's going to be deeply traumatic to my sweetest, softest boy.

I've skipped around it a bit for now but a lot hinges on exactly how he processes this so it's not flowing as organically as usual.

I know where it's going but the emotions have to track from scene to scene.

pelielios,
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@Jtmoriartywriter @mjjmori @bookstodon @amwriting And this is book 4 in a series, already deeply in progress... I can't exactly go "all that stuff I spent 60k words setting up? Yeah, forget all that! Boop, deleted!"

The ending is an epilogue that makes the bridge to 5 but it resolves nothing for 4.

pelielios,
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@Jtmoriartywriter @mjjmori @bookstodon @amwriting It's not really so bad in the grand scheme. A workplace accident, an intern gets moderately injured. It's a pretty light series.

It's that he blames himself and it builds on other insecurities/fears he has, and that he has a very gentle nature overall. He has a pretty complicated way of processing emotions, too, so it takes time to work through it with him.

(If the MC caused a similar incident he'd be barking at the intern to walk it off.)

herhandsmyhands, to romancelandia
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@romancelandia if anyone can help me out with this very specific rec, for a friend who's not here:

"Super specific rec request: I'm looking for romance audiobooks with MCs 35+ (45+ would be ideal) set at Thanksgiving, Christmas, and/or New Year."

Like I said, VERY specific.

Any takers?

pelielios,
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@herhandsmyhands @romancelandia I'm really only 1/3 but if Kindle TTS is acceptable as "audiobook" my MCs are 41 and 34 in book 1. (Links in profile.)

The holiday content is very light, mostly glancing mentions of holiday displays in book 2, not a major plot consideration.

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herhandsmyhands, to romancelandia
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Someone at Felon's site just reminded me of this, and my friends @romancelandia, I had to share it with you.

Prepare to laugh and cry and laugh some more (especially if you read a lot of 1980s and 1990s romance...but really, any romance, some tropes will never die)

https://the-toast.net/2015/04/14/things-ive-learned-about-heterosexual-female-desire-from-decades-of-reading/

pelielios,
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@AmandaWeaver @herhandsmyhands @romancelandia Still think of the Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt line about "That voice? And the way he doesn't wear pants the entire time?" "Yeah! Has your crotch ever had a headache?"

Also laughed a lot at Venture Bros when Triana says "If it's Splash, I added it to your Netflix queue!" Her dad: "Splash? WHY would you--?" "I just wanted to see it again!"

I definitely caught Splash on network TV and found it very confusing when I was young.

mjjmori, to bookstodon
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pelielios,
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@mjjmori @amwriting @bookstodon When I write down middle-of-the-night ideas I wake up to incomprehensible garbage.

So I try to build them out as much as possible when the spirit takes me and if I can't remember them later, it wasn't meant to be.

Diva007, to romancebooks
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Day 27 of and today's post is dedicated to @lenoreo as she mentioned MMCs in a recent reply. My fave Cinnamon Roll Hero is probably Martin in Olivia Dade's "Teach Me": he's been hurt in a previous relationship; he's a doting dad; he is sweet and gentle with the FMC Rose, until he becomes a dirty talking sexy lover (after seeking her consent for talking dirty, of course).
Please share your cinnamon roll recs!
@romancelandia
@romancebooks

pelielios,
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@Diva007 @lenoreo @romancelandia @romancebooks My POV char is deliriously in love with a total cinnamon roll who, at times, still dominates in the bedroom.

Victor must be protected at all costs. Also he has a strong protective/possessive streak that comes out only occasionally.

pelielios,
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@Diva007 @lenoreo @romancelandia @romancebooks He is a former old-order Mennonite paired up with a NYC teenage runaway turned spy/sex worker, let's say they have slightly different life experiences.

They work, somehow. One is extremely complicated and the other rarely asks questions. It catches him off-guard in a good way how his BF takes charge when they're alone.

pelielios,
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@lenoreo @herhandsmyhands @notTheAudience @Anthro_CLH @Diva007 @romancelandia @romancebooks @OliviaWrites Mine has a colder/stiffer work persona but everybody, I mean EVERYBODY sees right through it.

As his partner puts it, "He has a way of making you want to take care of him, doesn't he?"

He's blisteringly competent one minute, then he can barely feed himself. There's a whole covert team at the office to keep him humming along efficiently.

mjjmori, to bookstodon
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Well, I’m trying to get stared again.

Anyone got any good tips on how to buld a realistic and sustainable practice of writing daily?

I’m thinking make a 30 minute habit every day after I wake up, instead of straight to the socials. Also posting everyday on here to hold myself very mildly accountable by muttering into the void about what I’ve done that day.

@bookstodon @amwriting

pelielios,
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@mjjmori @bookstodon @amwriting Sometimes I'm totally stalled out, others I churn through such massive word-counts that my body hurts for weeks.

Often the most productive hours are when I'm lying in bed and daydreaming ahead to future scenes. Non-writing time isn't wasted.

You can skim the abutting pages and slip into a daydream that might send you jumping up to commit a phrase to paper, or not.

Try stuff out, don't force word count.

Diva007, to romancebooks
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Hands up if you are a fan of the trope? 🙋🏾‍♀️There are always good reasons why the couple MUST marry - a clause in a will; to get a Green Card; to save something of importance - and it is sooo delicious when a couple work together to achieve the best outcome! Even more yummy if the MCs start as enemies/rivals...

Recs:

"Terms & Conditions" by Lauren Asher
"Border CTRL + ESC" by Ivy L James
"In A Jam" by Kate Canterbary

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pelielios,
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@Diva007 @romancelandia @romancebooks Mine "marry" because one is a secret agent who has a brain fart on a mission and blurts out the first name that pops into his head, his boyfriend's.

Through various events they have to appear together and the BF is no good at secret identities.

It takes his handler to point out the problem. "Andrews and Andrews? I'm not saying it's never happened but..."

"Yeah I guess it's kind of worse if we're cousins, right?"

pelielios,
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@Diva007 @romancelandia @romancebooks Links in profile, 3 books are out already! 4 on the way, 5 less concrete but I hop there sometimes for fun.

It's breezy chatty escapism that has been on a low burner for a long, long time.

weirdwriter, to romancelandia

Can other Romance readers explain why insta love is so hated? I actually prefer insta love to the long drawn out getting to know characters. Like, for example, I actually prefer it when characters just meet and they have this instant but deep connection, like the universe was just biting it's time until it can get these people in the same room. I find the longer getting to know characters books without the instalove challenging to read. I'm more interested in how the MC's can sustain their instalove and deepen it. I find it difficult to follow characters as they're trying to get to know each other. @romancelandia

pelielios,
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@weirdwriter @romancelandia Yes, my main pair are kind of "insta" but it becomes clear over time that they were both READY for it.

The main driver in romance is receptivity, IME.

One is vastly experienced yet bored. The other is sheltered but has been watching him for months. If they weren't compatible it wouldn't work, but they try it and it does.

Also one is a field agent with "high turnover" who has no time to lose. Other chars call him on this, he dun care. It's new to him!

pelielios,
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@weirdwriter @romancelandia Think of it like the healthy version of all those online romance scams.

Find someone who is lonely/unfulfilled and dearly wants a companion. Place someone in their path who meets those needs.

If it happens in both directions at once, bam! Instant romance.

pelielios,
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@weirdwriter @tmmahaff @romancelandia ah yes, even with my my "insta"pair there's some question at first over whether one is fully ace or not.

There's definitely more going on than "swiped right" and I have a hard time imagining how that would work IRL at all.

But the timeline is very compressed for reasons on both sides.

queerscifi, to lgbtqbookstodon
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Today at QSF it's Me Me Monday. Readers, see what's new and next; Writers, tell us about your latest!

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pelielios,
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@queerscifi @lgbtqbookstodon I recently dropped book 3 in my queer supernatural superspy series and have been struggling to make headway on 4 (which should largely conclude things, though I have plans for a fun time-skip in 5), some encouragement would go a long way!

@bookstodon

Book 1 here
https://a.co/d/3M7PvCp

skyekilaen, to bookstodon
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Anybody have recs for single-author science fiction and/or fantasy/paranormal short story collections? I'm especially interested in marginalized authors.

My faves so far:

  • 'Nathan Burgoine's Of Echoes Born (paranormal)
  • Zen Cho's Spirits Abroad (fantasy/paranormal)
  • Iona Datt Sharma's Not For Use In Navigation (mix of science fiction and fantasy)

Self-recs are cool, too!

#ScienceFiction #fantasy #Bookstodon @bookstodon @lgbtqbookstodon

pelielios,
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@jiujensu @skyekilaen @bookstodon @lgbtqbookstodon Seconding the Cyberiad and all other Lem!

The Cyberiad is basically sci-fi fairy tales, many lighthearted. I have such good memories of cuddling with my dad while he read them to me, doing all the goofy voices.

Especially for the AI that is perfect in every way except that it insists that one plus two equals (huge dad growl) SEVEN.

pelielios,
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@willelm @jiujensu @skyekilaen @bookstodon @lgbtqbookstodon Hmm I would say skim each story first, I wasn't YOUNG young but I was like 8+ and my parents were hippies.

Some stories get darker and some are more aimed at adults (like a whole planet of paper-pushing bureaucrats that would fly over a kid's head) but there's definitely no sex and drugs and rock'n'roll involved.

At worst, cartoon violence and existential dread.

pelielios,
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@willelm @jiujensu @skyekilaen @bookstodon @lgbtqbookstodon I don't remember a point in that particular story where anyone actually gets hurt, but the angry AI 1+2=7 robot definitely angrily chases Trurl and Klapaucius down and threatens to flatten them for disagreeing.

By that age I found this HILARIOUS. YMMV.

Some of Lem's other books I would absolutely hold off on until they're older (13-16ish). Memoirs Found in a Bathtub, The Futurological Congress, very dark and bleak (but amazing).

pelielios,
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@skyekilaen @bookstodon @lgbtqbookstodon Vladimir Voynovich, anyone?

I know him best for Moscow 2042 (basically a novel-length riff on the "no red ink!" joke) and Ivan Chonkin but he had some very good scifi short story collections.

I'm still haunted by one where a spaceship repairman is tasked with finding the cause of a recurring clanking noise and welp, spaceship's haunted.

Not sure any of the English compilations are still in print but he is etched in my psyche for good.

pelielios,
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@willelm @jiujensu @skyekilaen @bookstodon @lgbtqbookstodon There is even a loose movie adaptation of The Futurological Congress (The Congress, free on Kanopy, Peacock, Roku) that feels very relevant in these NFT-ified times.

Stanislaw Lem is the Polish Philip K Dick.

I never have the paperback far from hand, it has been through a lot with me.

pelielios,
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@willelm @jiujensu @skyekilaen @bookstodon @lgbtqbookstodon ha, it turns out my copy was published the year I was born! We literally grew up together.

I have SO much pulp scifi from my parents. Some made the transition to the world of ebooks, some didn't. I carry the torch just in case.

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pelielios,
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@lenoreo @Diva007 @romancelandia @romancebooks My M/M/M series doesn't hone in on specific labels much in the text, but one of the mains is very much demi (partly by upbringing but mainly by temperament) and another is mainly ace but finds sex a useful form of rebellion.

Then there's the one who's gay but engaged to a woman and two-timing with a straight guy.

Their collective sexuality is MESS.

(Link in profile, Book 1 free today!)

pelielios,
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@Diva007 @lenoreo @romancelandia @romancebooks I hope you enjoy them! A lot of the explanations are very slow in coming but at its core, it's a group of wildly different people who all care deeply about each other.

pelielios, to mmromance
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Book 3 has dropped. Please enjoy Book 1 for free over the next few days!

Superpowered superspies (or one spy and one handler) are deliriously in love with each other. Nothing very bad happens. One guy is a little annoying. Cozy, comfy queer romance.

@romancelandia @lgbtqbookstodon @mmromance

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6DY9S3M

A blurred depiction of traffic lights and car tail-lights on a wet street. In silhouette, one man chases another beneath the NYC skyline.
A background of fossils partially obscured by sand. In silhouette, a man with a high ponytail emerges from a sauna pool while a short-haired man reclines.

herhandsmyhands, to romancelandia
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PSA: with adult erotic romances or erotica on amazon, you can now change a setting and get your books out of the dungeon.

ETA: or just explicit genre romances

@romancelandia
Via author Jackie Lau on twitter; this is the link in the screenshot

https://kdp.amazon.com/en_US/help/topic/G201097560#title

pelielios,
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@herhandsmyhands @romancelandia Any guidance on the age ratings?

I'm keeping mine at 18+ for now to be safe but they're really very soft, I was reading far more explicit things as a young teen and most of them were non-erotica SFF.

16ish sounds more reasonable, the body parts are rarely even named and by that age either they've heard it all or they're being teased mercilessly for being so precious.

willaful, to random
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Instance folks, I'm thinking we should have some kind of helpful message to send to new accounts here. What information would you have found most helpful when you joined?

pelielios,
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@willaful I'm still not totally sure whether I belong. I don't know the trope names, I don't quite get where the break is between romance and smut, I feel really out of place.

I made one timid overture a while back but idk.

If there is some kind of orientation space that would help so much.

pelielios,
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@willaful @romancelandia Romancelandia is specifically the group I had in mind. I've been lurking a while and just don't know where to jump in to that as a community.

Romance overall feels too broad, specific communities have their own unspoken rules and can feel very intimidating to newcomers.

Not a criticism, just wishing for a more structured inroad, you know?

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@willaful @romancelandia I'm not sure myself!

Kind of a long-time dreamer, first-time writer situation, still trying to work out where I fit in with books that sometimes get explicit but it's also not exactly the point whether they do.

Most of the activity seems to be around existing fanbases, which is great! But also makes me hesitant to barge in as a total unknown.

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@weirdwriter @willaful @romancelandia @romancebooks Followed, thank you!

I tend to write spicy scenes in soft-focus, but they definitely get harder depending what is going on.

Some of them have awful chemistry by design.

It's been tough to work out where I belong, I just keep lurking for now.

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