Got stressed about all the work im supposed to be doing, so I (checks notes) took a bunch of selfies? (lemmy.world)
I really should be working instead of doing my makeup and taking 500 selfies
finding a name
So I’ve been struggling for months to find a name that clicks with me. I keep stumbling on names which feel like the one, then a few minutes to a few days later the name loses its sway on me. I feel like I just have to finally pick something so I can move on with my life, but I’m really not having much success. I keep...
With all the news about Sinnead O'Connor dying recently (RIP) I've been seeing her face a lot and ngl it's been so nice seeing a woman with really short hair like mine being unambiguously feminine
For context I have a genetic hair condition that almost all the AMAB peopleband one or two of the AFAB people on my dad’s side of the family have that means my hair will only ever grow a tiny bit before breaking and falling out. I currently haven’t been able to start hrt yet so maybe that will make it grow out but since...
what sorts of bras or other products to give the appearance of having breasts? (kbin.social)
sports bras and bralettes seem to be the general consensus but holy shit there so many different kinds
affordable gaff? (kbin.social)
hello people of lemmy. im looking to experiment with tucking, and this is the method that seems best. what are some cheap (sub $25 id hope??) brands/ specific products yall reccomend for all day tuck. must be on amazon, ebay, or etsy (though id prefer amazon. least suspicious charge on card lol). thank you all :)
Should I de-transition so liberals don't see me and say maybe the republicans are on to something (pricefield.org)
So I look very ugly and honestly don’t look feminine at all and just look like a guy with girls’ clothes draped over him. I have been on HRT for a year and 6 months, I went from 4 to 6mg in April and I still look pretty terrible, I am not sure what I can do differently and I feel like maybe I am overweight which ruined my...
Positive Moments
As a person just beginning my transition journey, I find that it is very easy to get caught up in the doom and gloom mentality, since there is so much negativity surrounding trans people right now....
Feminine shorts? (artemis.camp)
I want some gender-neutral to moderately feminine shorts to wear. First of all, I’m not sure exactly what that means - what makes shorts masculine or feminine? Secondly, do you have any recommendations of brands or stores for some mildly feminine shorts?
[Meta] 2K subscribers, growing concerns over transphobia, future moderation issues
Hello everyone! 😊...
A vent about my life
CW:VentingI feel like I just really need to vent, the past month or so has been hard for me. I have been getting misgendered more and more often, I feel like I went backward, (gained weight maybe) I can hardly look at myselfd a ton of the time I feel so awful. Today was kinda a boiling point, I went somewhere with my dad (who...
I've been getting a ton of transphobia lately on here
Is it something my instance mods can fix, would them defederating a long list of transphobic instances stop transphobic comments or do the instances who’s communities I post in need to block more instances?
My estrogen has arrived!!
This is just an update to my previous post about my appointment with Planned Parenthood....
Love vs Support
TW: (perceived?) Transphobia...
Canvas: make our flag (canvas.toast.ooo)
Come help me make our flag and show that we’re here 💖
Transfem and synthesizers - an iconic duo! (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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i feel like ill never pass (pricefield.org)
Yes I’m using a really bad photo cause this is what I see 80% of the time I look I’m the mirror, alsp boymoding cause I need more clothes. Keep in mind ive been on hrt for a year and 6 months
As a transbian, Cis women and Lesbian Spaces scare me
I feel like I need to get this off my chest…...
Hi I'm Elise
Hi I’m Elise. I like nature and gardening, art and drawing, mathematics and programming, and most of all I love nice people and encounters....
Is it normal to misgender yourself?
When I talk to myself, sometimes I call myself my dead name, or my gender I don’t associate myself with. I am self-aware enough to know I’ve associated myself as male and [name] for thirty-seven years, but it annoys me I haven’t made that connection in my brain somewhere that yes, I’m a girl, my name is Eshe. I feel it...
It’s been a rollercoaster of a day
It’s the night before I take my next E shot and all day it’s been hard for me to regulate my emotions, but is such a wide gamut of emotions....
I saw my mom today
She wanted to see me on her lunch break. I was nervous. I warned her I would be in girlmode, and, to be honest, ladies, I don’t think I have a boymode any more....
Late night HRT euphoria
Since my last post I got my HRT 4 days earlier than I expected. Based on my last post you probably might’ve expected me to hem and haw about it. Myself I was gonna wait until the middle of the week for my first dose, but I couldn’t contain myself. I took my first dose as soon as I could, like literally. I felt great the next...
it's collapsing (tw: relationships, dysphoria)
Hi, I’m gonna reintroduce myself, first. I went by VirulentAura, and have been kinda active this past week posting, if anyone actually cares. I decided to change it up, cuz I was tired of lemmy.world being down, and, I dunno, I wanted to use my name. Preface aside, please be advised that the content may be troubling to some....