How often to you bail on a half-written post or response?

I have had a tendency since my earliest days on social media where I will get halfway or more through a response, and end up just cancelling it. Sometimes I feel like I’m just being to over the top with snark or otherwise don’t want to be that kind of person, but a lot of the time I’ll decide I just really don’t care enough to finish it. Sometimes I just know it’ll be an argument and I know what the person is going to say, and just have no interest in continuing the discussion. I did it on Reddit, I did it on bulletin boards, I even did it in my teens and twenties on Usenet - and I’ll probably go on doing it for as long as I continue using this medium. I probably do it a bit more than half the time. I know that lemmy benefits from more content and I have had some great discussions, but sometimes it’s just not worth it for me.

How about you? Do you hit publish or cancel more often?

Steveanonymous,
@Steveanonymous@lemmy.world avatar

A lot. Sometimes I have something to say but so afraid of ridicule I back out

lseif,

im so glad you asked this question. i cant tell you how many times i-

actually never mind

idunnololz,
@idunnololz@lemmy.world avatar

My Lemmy app keeps a receipt every time I bail. So far it says I’ve bailed 56 times. Lmao.

ohlaph,

Dail

Minarble,

Ok, so well I made this several weeks ago and well, you know…

https://aussie.zone/pictrs/image/8f1579b1-3573-458a-bb3c-1be792a86777.jpeg

mack7400,

This, definitely.

vortexal,
@vortexal@sopuli.xyz avatar

Quite often, probably mostly because I have social anxiety. Sometimes I feel like I’m not adding anything meaningful to that conversation or that I’m probably not being as helpful as I initially think I am. I sometimes also have trouble putting my thoughts into words.

bhamlin,

All the

NotMyOldRedditName,

You pretty much summed it all up there.

I’d say 30% or so for me?

notannpc,

It’s a good 70% of the time that I’ll cancel instead of post. As I’ve gotten older my desire to be right has greatly diminished when it comes to random people on the internet.

Facebones,

Agreed. Plus, these days, most people just want to rile you into wasting your time compiling an argument and sources to back it up so they can go “fake lul!”

haysupdood,

This is how I feel, but it’s closer to 95% of the time for me. I’ve been on the Internet since its inception and I don’t have it in me to deal with people’s bullshit anymore.

I don’t need to be heard. I don’t need to be right. I only post for help I can’t get elsewhere or to help others. On the rare occasion I deviate from that rule, I usually get a reply that makes me regret engaging.

Pratai,

For me, almost….

Harvey656,

9 times out of 10 I realize I’m dumb and in the wrong and stop the post.

neuroneiro,

I… nevermind…

Smokeydope,
@Smokeydope@lemmy.world avatar

40% I’d estimate, I tend to write very long and in depth comments and will realize either I dont care enough about the subject to finish my statement or argument point, or I’m likely being baited by someone who doesnt care about having a genuine exchange of ideas and just wants to be “right”.

Tlaloc_Temporal,

Rough estimate, 30%. Either because my point ended up not being worth making, I ended up being wrong, or the message was dumped at some point between switching through 4 apps and 12 websites gathering information and I can’t be arsed to write 400 words again.

MargotRobbie,
@MargotRobbie@lemmy.world avatar

Rarely. I made it a point to finish my thoughts here, since I have a tendency to abandon what I write halfway, and I’m going to stop making excuses for myself.

I have had some misses, but people seems to like to read my random thoughts and corny jokes here. Mostly.

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