Expectation that my things will remain where I keep them.
Does anyone else have a tendency to get really frustrated and upset when something you keep in a certain location is moved randomly by someone else? And you look everywhere, and can't find it? And the more you look, and as you realize it's not turning up, and you just can't find it, a feeling of utter calamity and dismay, of catastrophic sense of "the universe is no longer the same" sets in.
I really can go into a highly upset state of mind. Some would no doubt call this a meltdown.
@neurotraveler@actuallyautistic This is such an issue with my partner and I. We both have AuDHD and as the primary caretaker of the home I tidy/clean according to the standards of my AuDHD. However, this means they can never find things because our logic systems are at odds. I've taken to dumping things in a million "doom boxes" because it seems to be the middle ground between our mental systems.