@neurotraveler@actuallyautistic This is such an issue with my partner and I. We both have AuDHD and as the primary caretaker of the home I tidy/clean according to the standards of my AuDHD. However, this means they can never find things because our logic systems are at odds. I've taken to dumping things in a million "doom boxes" because it seems to be the middle ground between our mental systems.