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Hi, if my user account did not give it away, I am going to be using this as a throwaway....

Let’s assume that you recently cracked your egg. You then had a period of intense focus on this realization. You came out to friends, you explored things typically associated with your newfound gender identity (such as clothes), and you reveled in how this made you feel. You were confident that you want to transition....

Heya! I’m Fabienne, a 20 year old trans-girl from Germany. I’ve been questioning my gender identity for two years and came out as trans ~8 months ago. Since then I’ve been struggling through the confusing and understaffed mess that is the german psychiatry system, and have finally managed to land a first appointment that...

Im just bursting with joy rn, and wanted to share. I came out to my FIL, who ive known for 6 years. I was nervous of course, it could have gone poorly, but the first words out of his mouth after i told him were "congratulations", and it set the tone for the rest of the convo. My own father is a difficult man and this guy has...

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Hello all the folks in the Transfem community!...

I am not feeling well, I feel guilty about how little I care about the billionaires lost in the titanic submersable, I feel bad for the 19 year old on board who didn’t wanna go. Some comfortlwould be nice

I did: curl https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/api/v3/community/list...

To me it’s a 🌈

Last night my fiancée told me that she is very happy for me for figuring myself out and that she doesn’t feel that we need couples counseling relating to my transition anymore which is exciting. She did say that she has realized the main problem she was having is that she is mourning the past. She mentioned one of her...

I was playing one of my “therapy games;” a game that, like, I use for therapy, ya know? I saw a line I hadn’t seen:...

I’m starting to hit a bit of a wall with voice training lately. I can find my resonance, I can adjust the positioning of my vocal cords and where my voice is coming from. I occasionally pass on the phone, and I work all day over the phone so I do get pretty regular indirect feedback in terms of how my voice gets me gendered....

Just a relatively new chick here, wondering how it goes? I i have lot of internal conflict personally. I’m also stressing about the shit going on in parts of the US right now. Partially for myself, a lot for my (amab) son, whom I am questioning on gender/Sexuality. He’s young(elementary) but has some signs that make me(newly...

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So, my Endocrinologist appt. is in November. I know it’s only three months, but it feels forever away. So, I guess I was wondering, has anyone here worked with Folx? What is their response rate like? Do they do blood work to monitor your hormones levels? How does that work, a referral to a local clinic? Is it worth the...

TW: (perceived?) Transphobia...

Since my last post I got my HRT 4 days earlier than I expected. Based on my last post you probably might’ve expected me to hem and haw about it. Myself I was gonna wait until the middle of the week for my first dose, but I couldn’t contain myself. I took my first dose as soon as I could, like literally. I felt great the next...

I’m having trouble finding affordable dress pants that aren’t total garbage. I’m 6’4”, and it’s always hard to find good clothes that fit me. Was wondering if any other tall ladies here have any recommendations for good places to look?...

Hello. I am changing my name by deed poll in the UK, then I can change my passport. This will be my passport for the next 10 years, so how can I look more feminine for a passport photo? I've been on HRT for about 4 months and I haven't had laser hair removal for my face yet. I would appreciate advice anyone can offer, thank you....

WHERE I HAD THE PROPER PARTS! IT MADE ME VERY EUPHORIC! AH, I CAN STILL SEE IT!

And you know what? They were right. My partner, trans elders, and levelheaded allies....

I’d like to welcome @ada to the transfem moderation team! 🤗 Ada is one of the admins of the lemmy.blahaj.zone instance and a very active member of the transfem community. She has already been providing me with assistance in running the community and answering any questions that I have, she’s a perfect fit for our second...

So I’m seemingly stuck wanting to medically transition, but perpetually fearful of doing so. I have the misfortune of living in Texas, as I have for most of my life, with no feasible way to leave any time soon, as well as having mostly unsupportive family - my parents especially…...

For context I have a genetic hair condition that almost all the AMAB peopleband one or two of the AFAB people on my dad’s side of the family have that means my hair will only ever grow a tiny bit before breaking and falling out. I currently haven’t been able to start hrt yet so maybe that will make it grow out but since...

Hello everyone! 😊...