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BearPear, in [Wikipedia] The Admin Who Created 80,000 Pages About Titties
@BearPear@lemmy.world avatar

I actually enjoyed reading this. Very interesting.

FinallyDebunked, in [Wikipedia] The Admin Who Created 80,000 Pages About Titties
@FinallyDebunked@slrpnk.net avatar

I once made a small edit to the page of some random piece of property, just changed the value from $70 millions to $50. I thought it would be hilarious to see if anyone noticed or cared enough to change it back. Surprisingly, nobody has yet

Master,

Someone somewhere cited that value for an important study and you fucked it all up.

antonim,

The one who fucked up was the one who cited Wikipedia for an important study without checking the source.

x4740N,

Yeah Wikipedia should never be cited qnd I personally don’t find Wikipedia reliable due to its ongoing editor wars and editor factions insisting that their version of a page is better and using built up reputation to delete any good faith edits they don’t like

Madbrad200,
@Madbrad200@lemmy.world avatar

what page was it?

Sir_Simon_Spamalot, in [Comic Books] Hey kids, wanna see Batman commit unspeakable atrocities while using slurs? Also, boobs, and the shaming of a beloved writer. The saga of All Star Batman and Robin

Oh yeah, I remember this!

smort, in [Mod Post] Hobby Drama Rules Discussion
@smort@lemmy.world avatar

Just my opinion, but I’m ok with reposts, at least until the original content here picks up.

And a waiting period seems like a good idea. Maybe 7 days is enough? 14 days works too.

Emotional_Series7814,

I do appreciate the reposter’s intentions, but if I was a newcomer and not someone who understands they’re doing it because there’s no content here, just one person posting all the time would turn me off immediately.

PassingDuchy,
@PassingDuchy@lemmy.world avatar

Fair opinions!

Since no one seems to have an issue with 14 days I’m thinking we might as well just stick with that. If it really chafes the community we can always change it later too. Thanks for the input!

gina, in [Mod Post] Hobby Drama Rules Discussion
@gina@lemm.ee avatar

I personally think that reposting should require the permission of the original author (not just in this community, but in general). I guess this is an unpopular opinion, but giving credit just means you aren’t plagiarizing. It doesn’t mean that someone else’s work is now yours to repost in full on another site. A bot for reposting news links is one thing, but it really bugs me to see someone’s writing that they put a lot of work into posted to a different site without their knowledge.

Wumbologist4,

100% agree with this. We should have the courtesy to ask the author for permission before spreading their work. They should be aware it was posted here in case they would like to respond to comments or if they need to make edits.

LeylaaLovee,
@LeylaaLovee@lemmy.fmhy.ml avatar

The only reason I don’t care all that much is because it’s all online in public, it’s made to be shared. Do you get upset when someone steals your meme and doesn’t credit you? The internet is just made for this kind of spread. It’s why comic creators use tags. Where do you draw the line for what online text is shareable or not shareable?

Wumbologist4,

I feel like memes are made and meant to be shared hence the name. I feel a hobby drama post is more like a blog post to a community they are a member of. They are sharing it with members of that community and not intentionally sharing it with other communities. I also think asking for permission seems like a good middle ground between reposting all hobby drama posts from Reddit and banning all reposts.

Corkyskog,

My only issue with this is some of the people might not be there. They might have forgotten their accounts, left reddit or might be literally dead. I have definitely made some posts with some alts that I no longer remember the password to.

If we are going to require permission (which I am not for, for the record. I have a different philosophical view) then I would prefer it be an opt out type of thing. Meaning message the account, say that you are planning on reposting their post to Lemmy in the next week unless they respond and say they would rather not. That’s a win, win, win. Not only will you get a better repost rate (because let’s face it even if people don’t care, some people won’t bother answering their messages), you still give them the opportunity to say no and on top of that you get to introduce them to Lemmy!

Wumbologist4,

I don’t know if we would be reposting really old posts or not so I’m not sure if that would be an issue. I think the opt out system is a good idea. At least it gives the creator a chance to decline the repost. Especially if we give them a decently long enough timeline to respond.

I wonder how this would all be enforced. Would you need to screenshot your PM to the OP?

PassingDuchy,
@PassingDuchy@lemmy.world avatar

I believe r/bestofredditorupdates usually just asks in the comments of the post so it’s public to everyone. Personally I don’t mind running on an honor system (since a fair share of the more popular HD posts are archived or authored by abandoned accounts) and if a write-up is reposted against the wishes of an author having a policy they can reach out to have the post here taken down.

For an example of a contacting the author issue though, the WoW write-up author was suspended by reddit and faik that was never revoked and the author never made another account. So there’s no way (that I’m aware of) to contact them and that’s a decently popular write-up that got voted an award by the subreddit community.

gina,
@gina@lemm.ee avatar

I don’t get fussed about it for myself because I know there is a large population on the internet that considers everything fair game and I post accordingly (not that I create so much stuff that everyone wants, haha). I learned that lesson twenty years ago when I spent ages in MS Paint creating a forum avatar for myself and soon started to see it popping up on other people’s profiles. I realized then that something might be legally* mine, but good luck enforcing that. Maybe most people also realize that and post knowing that they will be losing some control, but I don’t think that means we just give up all courtesy.

As far as sharing, I’m all for it - it is absolutely one of the best things about the internet. But to me it means sharing the link - “hey guys go read this cool thing” and then people can go and read and engage with the author on their work. Maybe you include some quotes with the link to give some context for sharing. It’s the wholesale cut+paste for the purpose of building up a different community that the author is not part of that I don’t care for.

Where I draw the line is a good question and I’m doubtless not always consistent. Memes? To me, the sharing and transforming is part of the nature of a meme - images are combined, text is updated or replaced, etc. Comics? Sharing one panel or whatever and directing to the artist’s site seems like the courteous thing to do, but if you are reposting so many of the artist’s comics that people just read your posts instead of going to the artist’s site I would consider that a problem.

Additionally, one benefit of requesting permission from the authors may be to attract some of them over here. I’d love to have more users passionate enough to write 5000 words about some obscure stamp collecting scandal on lemmy.

Anyway, that’s my 17 cents.

*this is from a US perspective, but I’m no lawyer

PassingDuchy,
@PassingDuchy@lemmy.world avatar

Going to answer you down here, but yeah I agree requesting brings us to the attention of posters and might entice them over here which would definitely help the community grow. I like the idea floated below of it being an opt-out request. I know it may come off a little rude, but some of the accounts for the most popular posts on the reddit are abandoned. The WoW one for example the poster was suspended by reddit and faik that was never revoked and OP didn’t make a new account or anything so there’s no way to reach them.

gina,
@gina@lemm.ee avatar

I like the opt-out idea, too. It’s clear that there are differing opinions on the ethics of reposting, so maybe attracting posters over here is the more widely-compelling argument. Maybe part of the notice of reposting could include an invitation to come and post it themselves.

PassingDuchy,
@PassingDuchy@lemmy.world avatar

I’m going to give it a week to see what everyone says, but right now I’m leaning towards (based on replies) strongly encouraging (but not requiring) posters sending an opt out message with a three day waiting period for a reply and then having a takedown policy for anyone who’s been reposted here who doesn’t want to be. More work for me, but I feel this might be a good middle ground. I mirrored my account on reddit so no one will have to make a Lemmy account to ask for a take down.

I did also reach out to the reddit mods a week ago asking for some guidance on how they’d like to link up, but I haven’t heard anything back which is why I decided to leave it to the community here.

Emotional_Series7814,

I can definitely say I’ve messaged the mods on r/HobbyDrama about maybe giving us some support, official backing, and it’s been 11 days with no reply. I’ll encourage anything that helps us grow and maybe have people post their content both on Reddit and here.

ohwhatfollyisman, in [Wikipedia] The Admin Who Created 80,000 Pages About Titties

one has to admire his commitment. i haven’t created 80000 anything in my life!

platysalty,

I know right? I wrote trash seo articles for a living and I don't think I've even broken the 1000 article mark.

kadu, in [Mod Post] Hobby Drama Rules Discussion
@kadu@lemmy.world avatar

Automatic reposts are terrible for everybody browsing New, I’d suggest not adding such a bot.

But for my communities, I do allow manual Reddit reposts and ask users to add [Reddit] in the title. The idea being that in the future, when third party apps allow filtering by keywords, people who do not want to see them can just add [Reddit] to the blocked words list.

Corkyskog,

What if the bot was programmed with conditions. Like it has to hit some sort of upvote criteria? (Not even sure that’s possible without API, but just a thought)

PassingDuchy,
@PassingDuchy@lemmy.world avatar

That’s a good point about the filtering and I think I’ll see about implementing that. I don’t expect people to totally abandon the subreddit for this community so it’ll be nice for people who use both to filter out reposts when filtering presumably eventually becomes available. Thanks for the suggestion!

Far as the bot goes I’m not interested in one personally, but I did see a post asking for it when I joined the community here. But I agree I don’t think it would help the community grow, but just make us a mirror for the subreddit.

Susaga, in [Mod Post] Hobby Drama Rules Discussion

I would absolutely recommend keeping the waiting period, and not just because of biased hot takes. We’ve all seen drama stories where the context changes radically in a very short time, and even the basic premise of the drama might change. If we keep the waiting period, we have a better chance of having the FULL story in a single post without needing update posts every week as the story unfolds.

PassingDuchy,
@PassingDuchy@lemmy.world avatar

That’s true. I totally forgot HD used to have a bunch of mini update posts before the rule was instituted. Since no one seems to mind 14 days we’ll probably just keep it at that then. I’ve seen people complain about it on the HD subreddit, but if no one over here minds it then no reason to change it I think.

Corkyskog, (edited ) in [Mod Post] Hobby Drama Rules Discussion

Regarding reposts, in my opinion if your going copy an entire post and link back to the reddit post and user, no permission should be required. It’s really not much different than Google or any other website that might aggregate their content. If your going to summarize or change their post in anyway, then permission should definitely be required.

Waiting period definitely needs to remain, 14 days is a blink of an eye and the entire story could be reframed in that time.

Edit: I also would like to see any repost be forced to be submitted with something like Repost or [RP] in the title. I think it’s important before anyone gets to far that they are aware of that. Will also make it a better experience for anyone who still browses r/Hobbydrama.

PassingDuchy,
@PassingDuchy@lemmy.world avatar

Both fair takes and I like the idea of having reposts marked. Like Kadu said in another comment, when filtering becomes available assumably this will be a good way for people who use both communities to filter out what they’ve already seen. Thank you for the input!

eee, in [Lolita Fashion] How to mistake a $1500 dress for a $150 dress and lose all credibility in the process

sounds like every other “entitled influencer” story tbh, but the lolita fashion thing is interesting

some people pride themselves on being labeled ‘brand whores’ for only ever wearing brand items.

these people just sound like brainwashed products of capitalist megacorps.

Corkyskog,

You might think they are brainwashed, but it’s definitely not “mega corps”. These companies custom design each item, using uniquely sourced materials. Their not like Gucci or something, they arent pumping out millions of items and then artificially keeping supply low by destroying items, the revenue of these companies are in millions, not billions.

This isn’t the case of regular brand/throwaway culture. The materials are all high quality and if taken care of well, the items can be resold at the same value in the future.

What I don’t understand about Angelic Pretty specifically is many women that don’t have the right body size for their clothes will still buy them and then go through an inordinate amount of effort tailoring it so it will actually fit, usually themselves. These projects can be incredibly complicated depending on the dress design, to the point where I start wondering why some of these women with great sewing skills don’t just make the dress themselves from scratch.

Emotional_Series7814, (edited )

I’m not into Lolita fashion myself, but this seems a similar to a discussion I saw about Dungeons & Dragons. Why spend all that time homebrewing a bunch of new systems and rules for situations when there’s another TTRPG system that already has systems and rules for those situations? Because some peoples’ enjoyment comes from tinkering with an existing product, adding onto it. They also get a starting point instead of having to build a whole new TTRPG, design and sew an entire new dress, for themselves. For some, it’s easier to see a pretty dress and change it to fit yourself than it is to think of a design for a pretty dress you’ll love as much. It’s easier to start a Dungeons & Dragons campaign and add on rules to tack onto it than to come up with a whole new campaign or rule set yourself, or to come up with the same campaign idea with the other TTRPG’s world as a basis.

Caesium, in [Lolita Fashion] How to mistake a $1500 dress for a $150 dress and lose all credibility in the process

how would someone mess up so much on that conversion… 100 yen is like 3/4’s of a us dollar, so all you really need to do is move a decimal two spaces for a rough estimate.

elbarto777,

How, you say? Because some people are dumb, dumb, dumb. That’s how.

larlyssa,

I wonder if her friend was Korean. I used to live in Korea and the currency difference is about 10:1 with Japan. I spent a weekend in Japan and made the same mistake once. I saw a 10,000¥ wallet, mistakenly did the Korean mental math (1000₩≈$1) and thought it was $10 instead of $100. Luckily the cashier corrected me before I bought it.

Caesium,

ooooohhh that would make a lot more sense! shame on me for doing the classic american-centric thought process

Enkers, in [Lolita Fashion] How to mistake a $1500 dress for a $150 dress and lose all credibility in the process

the fashion has nothing to do with that awful pedophilic book

I’m aware you’re not the original author, but I can’t really let someone bashing Nabokov stand unchallenged, so I’ve reproduced one of the top comments from the original post:

I appreciate the post, but need to defend Nabokov — Lolita is not a pedophilic book — it’s an ANTI-pedophilic book.

Nabokov is trying to show how deluded and unreliable the narrator Humbert Humbert is, even as he uses beautiful language to describe his monstrous crimes of murder, kidnapping and rape.

Humbert is trying to lure the reader into sympathizing with him. Nabokov won’t let him.

HipPriest,

And it's not just anti-paedophilic, it's one of the best books of the last century in my opinion - his writing is superb, the way Humbert is a creep who tries to dress everything up in flowery language to disguise what he is when he is just the same as Quilty, it's all really good.

majere, in [Lolita Fashion] How to mistake a $1500 dress for a $150 dress and lose all credibility in the process

I would never stumble on something like this on Reddit. An overall mundane story, but I still enjoyed reading it. Crazy such a culture exists and is widespread!

TimeMuncher2, in [Lolita Fashion] How to mistake a $1500 dress for a $150 dress and lose all credibility in the process

There's a tv presenter on NHK Japan wearing these dresses. She does the Japan railway journal show with a university professor. Gorgeous dresses imo. Too bad they went out of fashion.

x4740N, in [Comic Books] Hey kids, wanna see Batman commit unspeakable atrocities while using slurs? Also, boobs, and the shaming of a beloved writer. The saga of All Star Batman and Robin

This batman seems to be an edgy psychopath with George colony levels of cringey batman mixed in

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