Provide something other than t’n’a. Demonstrate a desire to build a partnership with a person where you can learn, nurture, teach and enjoy together; no matter how long it lasts.
I wouldn’t say yes to anyone without a brain; I’m not alone. A random artifact is much cheaper with the same credentials and lasts far longer.
Otherwise, just have a damn good wank by yourself without cameras, without posting it online, and call it a day.