@KatLS@haui@actuallyautistic I still maintain and do what's right for me, regardless of what the people around me are thinking or doing. Sometimes this makes me unpopular. Sometimes I miss out on stuff that would have been fun (it sucks when I'm wrong).
But either by statistics or confirmation bias, I seem to be correct more often than incorrect and that has given me the confidence that I need in order to maintain. Usually 😉