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AutisticAdam

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These days you will find me on BlueSky.

I do however check back in here every now
and then. Autising my way through life...

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@looneybyron @actuallyautistic

That's really good to know 👍

Wish it was like this for me in the 90s.

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@danimo @actuallyautistic

In the hope one day they will stop linking the two with me.

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@adelinej @actuallyautistic

All of the above.

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@guffo @actuallyautistic

I feel this.

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@niamhgarvey @actuallyautistic

It's a good call but trying saying that to someone who's not autistic.

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@mhoemmen @actuallyautistic

Absolutely.

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@alexisbushnell @actuallyautistic

Same.

I simply do worry about it would be my response to that.

I have to look, I can’t settle.

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@panduck @actuallyautistic

The "diagnostic criteria" from where you are is incorrect.

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@avuko @actuallyautistic

Agreed.

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@shinybat @actuallyautistic

I went to watch a couple of live recordings around then.

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@SuryMi @actuallyautistic

I try but normally fail.

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@webhat @actuallyautistic

When I'm in full flow that's the last thing I'm thinking about 😁

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@Richard_Littler @actuallyautistic

Hope alls ok Richard.

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@lizzard @actuallyautistic

There's not worse than the person not stating if they are going inside or not. So you get there and left in a state of panic wondering what to do. It's horrible.

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@CarolynStirling @actuallyautistic

Thank you for your kind words.

I hope it helps someone.

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@kkarhan @actuallyautistic

Thank you for sharing these Kevin 🙂

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@infmin @actuallyautistic

I think about this one too.

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@AnitaH2 @actuallyautistic

This is awful.

Hope your ok.

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@kaiserkiwi @actuallyautistic

100 % with this.

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@cloudguy @actuallyautistic

You're welcome.

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@skylar408 @actuallyautistic

Yes yes yes on the updates.

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@Ecosaurian @Briarheart @actuallyautistic

Thank you for these.

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@Byrdbrnz @actuallyautistic

Yes absolutely 👍

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@Autistrain @actuallyautistic

👍

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@niamhgarvey @actuallyautistic

👍

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@grammaticus @actuallyautistic

I often think about "at what point would it be okay to leave"

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@JanJ @actuallyautistic

👍

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@waywardpythonttv @actuallyautistic

It's a good question and I wonder this.

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@BettieJander @actuallyautistic

Then you should say the really nice thing.

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@Uniflame @grammaticus @servelan @Carex @actuallyautistic

I didn’t really know what it was until I was 30.

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The autistic urge to explain everything fully, so nobody has gaps in their knowledge and needs to ask questions.

@actuallyautistic

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@siderea @simid @nazokiyoubinbou @ar_collins @f1337 @ndvirons @actuallyautistic

I love the quote at the end there, Beautiful 🙂

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@TeacherGriff @f1337 @nazokiyoubinbou @ndvirons @actuallyautistic

Absolutely.

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@ScruffyDux @jrdepriest @actuallyautistic

And how do you find doing this ?!

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@PatternChaser @actuallyautistic

Thank you for your kind words.

If anything I say helps someone in anyway then.. to me, that's what It's about.

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@nazokiyoubinbou @foo @ndvirons @ar_collins @f1337 @actuallyautistic

You're merely expressing yourself

That's a beautiful thing Nazo.

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@loops @untemperedsteel @PatternChaser @VVitchy @dyani @theaardvark @actuallyautistic

Well said.

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Upset with an autistic person and want them to apologise to you, you’ll have more success if you tell them why you’re upset instead of acting passive aggressively or saying “you know what you did”. We often see things differently and might not intuit how you’re feeling.

Of course nobody who is hurt owes anyone an explanation as to why they are hurt. I’m thinking about this solely from a problem-solving perspective. Or maybe that's just the way I look at it.

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