Expectation that my things will remain where I keep them.
Does anyone else have a tendency to get really frustrated and upset when something you keep in a certain location is moved randomly by someone else? And you look everywhere, and can't find it? And the more you look, and as you realize it's not turning up, and you just can't find it, a feeling of utter calamity and dismay, of catastrophic sense of "the universe is no longer the same" sets in.
I really can go into a highly upset state of mind. Some would no doubt call this a meltdown.
@neurotraveler I absolutely and definitely have to make sure I put things where hubs expects to find them. Since we had to move, he has become badly discombobulated, because everything is not where it was...we moved from a 3 bedroom house with a large yard, to a 16ft van with annex, in a caravan park. His tool shed is at his sister's place. A lot of stuff is in a storage unit. It is a huge adjustment, and it drives his every-thing-in-its-own-place-mind crazy. (doesn't do much for me, either).😕 #Downsizing sucks for #autistics😬 @actuallyautistic