youronlyone, to actuallyautistic
@youronlyone@c.im avatar

When you're #Autistic you do look younger.

I voted earlier today. We have two, one for Barangay (Town) and one for Sanguniang Kabataan (SK or Youth Council).

The election rep handling the ballots asked for my ID because he had to confirm my age.

  • SK (Youth Council) is open for 15 to 30 years old voters.

I look like I'm in my late 20s.

While he did not ask me for my age, better to confirm it with an ID to avoid election fraud, when people ask me, I used to say, "I stopped counting at 30" (now it's 28). It's half-joke, the other half is the truth, people do mistake me to be in my late 20s.

Many #ActuallyAutistics, for some reason, look half their actual age once we enter adulthood. I'm not aware of any scientific explanation regarding this, but it has been observed.

For me, this was not the first time. I was always mistaken to be underage (under 18) until I hit 25-27. It was always funny whenever I was with friends or colleagues because they all reacted. 🤣

It was a 5–10-year gap. Now it's a 20+ year gap. Maybe one day, there will be a 30-year gap with my actual age.

How about you? What's your experience?

#Autism #AutismSpectrum #Age @actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics @autistics

youronlyone, to actuallyadhd
@youronlyone@c.im avatar

One stereotype about us is we like and . I'm a “yes” and a “no”.

I do like Prime numbers and Odd numbers:

  • 17
  • 13
  • 7

17 is very special.

  • 17 is the 7th Prime
  • 1 is an odd number
  • 7 is an odd number
  • 17 is an odd number
  • 1 + 7 = 8, although an even number, it symbolises infinity and eternity, and us

13 is also special.

  • A Prime
  • An Odd
  • A Fibonacci number

And depending on whom you ask:

  • The 8th Fibonacci number
  • The 7th Fibonacci number

Ironically:

  • The anniversary of my first romantic relationship was on: 1997-07-17. It was my first love who picked that, and she had no idea what my favourite numbers are.
  • My height is 175 cm or 5'75" to 5'85" (depending on whom you ask).
  • Favourite time of the day: 07:00 and 19:00 (7pm). 19 is the 8th Prime. (There's 8 again.)

And I'm . ^_^


How about you? What two stereotypes is you and not you?

@autistics @actuallyautistic @actuallyadhd @autism

youronlyone, to actuallyautistic
@youronlyone@c.im avatar

“Autistic Masking Is A Survival Mechanism Until It’s A Threat To Survival”

“It’s the environments we move in that need to change urgently”

A good read.

https://justinel999.medium.com/people-dont-know-i-m-autistic-but-i-m-not-masking-aa84a6c7c07a

@youronlyone

@actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics @autistics

youronlyone, to actuallyautistic
@youronlyone@c.im avatar

So, this is what's happening to me:

It describes it as:
“Autistic burnout is a syndrome conceptualized as resulting from chronic life stress and a mismatch of expectations and abilities without adequate supports. It is characterized by pervasive, long-term (typically 3+ months) exhaustion, loss of function, and reduced tolerance to stimulus.” ~Raymaker et al, 2020

Typically the Autistic person in question will still have multiple demands in their life that require cognitive resources, despite having little to no resources left to give. Life goes on, as they say.

Read the rest here: https://emergentdivergence.com/2023/05/12/creating-autistic-suffering-what-is-atypical-burnout/


Hat tip to: @emergentdivergence.bsky.social from the network.

What do you think? Anyone else?

@youronlyone

@actuallyautistic @actuallyautistics @autistics

JeremyMallin, to actuallyautistic
@JeremyMallin@autistics.life avatar

Are all Autistics autodidacts? Is that just a thing we do?

#AskingAutistics @actuallyautistic
#ActuallyAutistics

Autistrain,
@Autistrain@neurodifferent.me avatar

It applies to me. I learned languages, math and mostly everything as an autodidact.

School and what came later didn't fit me. I looked at the exercises and the books to learn it. It was easier for me.

@JeremyMallin

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