RickiTarr,
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There aren't subservient and submissive women; there are only scared women.

jamieannmason,
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@RickiTarr

The amount of porn or captions on social media that depict women as observient, "kept," and submissive is absolutely alarming. It's no wonder these dudes think like that. It is all over the place.. Be damned societal roles and the inferiority of women.

Jamie

YakyuNightOwl,
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@RickiTarr That sentence belongs in the book of things a gaijin better know before coming to Japan.

Or really, any patriarchal hellhole.

Nobody is fascinated by you. You aren't a spectacle generating waves of awe and wonder. You are an existential threat.

Dudes still think that reaction is because they ooze handsome.

RickiTarr,
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@YakyuNightOwl OMG What is with White dudes thinking they are gonna get an Asian Sex Maid?! It pisses me off so much, women are just objects to them.

YakyuNightOwl,
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@RickiTarr It's more than disgusting. We bombed the absolute hell out of your people in the not so distant past, and we've been occupying your nation ever since with anything from a sleazy expat bar to a full-scale military base. Please be fascinated by us.

RickiTarr,
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@YakyuNightOwl RIGHT SO MUCH GROSS

pnwpetey,
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@RickiTarr @YakyuNightOwl Ha! Pops thought he was getting a geisha girl, but she turned out to be less than pliable.

Here, coincidentally, is a book I’m reading that discusses sex workers’ agency in occupied Japan. (Cover of Occupying Power by Dr. Sarah Kovner) She suggests these folks chose this work, so it wasn’t as bad as all that. VD was rampant, 20 customers a shift was common, and payment went to a manager. The workers did this to feed and house their families. Is that choice?

YakyuNightOwl,
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@pnwpetey @RickiTarr Yikes.

I grow weary of scholarly white women who believe sex work is a choice when the choices aren't really choices.

The lengths some women will go to frame sex work as "feminist" is pretty astounding.

Farming out your body to escape poverty isn't the same as having bodily autonomy.

olena,
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@RickiTarr and most of the time you can’t even say it out loud that you’re scared. Not because you want to seem brave or something, but because those we’re so scared of don’t want to admit that they are scarying us. ‘But there’s nothing for you to be afraid of’

RickiTarr,
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@olena RIGHT, I've had so many dudes tell me Don't worry I'm safe, which is always a red flag

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