Seeking help for my boy

fundraising page here

Never thought I’d find myself in this position, but here I am.

Late one night last week, Bernie really wasn’t himself and we felt a mass in his belly. We called an advice line and were told it was an emergency situation, and that we needed to get him to an out of hours vet immediately.

Once he was checked, we learned he was suffering from something called idiopathic feline lower urinary tract disease, meaning his urethra is constricting and not allowing him to pass urine.

He has had 3 catheters, and is still unable to urinate. A fourth catheter has been inserted today, until he can (hopefully) have surgery on Monday.

The only option now to avoid losing him, is a procedure called perennial urethrostomy, to create a new opening in his urethra, so that he can urinate.

Unfortunately the care he has already received over the past week has taken us up to the limit of his insurance cover, and we have been quoted £6,500 for the procedure.

We are of course working to raise the funds ourselves, but the avenues we’re exploring aren’t guaranteed and if approved, are likely to take some time to get to us.

This is a living nightmare for us, so I’m throwing myself at the aid of the internet.

Even if all you can do is share the GoFundMe link where you think it may be seen by someone who can help, we would all be so grateful.

fundraising page here

hsl,
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Removing per rule #1

Mr_Blott,

Sorry about your cat, but imagine how fuckin awful asklemmy would be if everyone did this. It’d be intolerable and would kill the community in months.

Please remove this and post it elsewhere

Byereddithellolemmy,

Where do you recommend?

papajohn,

I’m not sure there is a community to post this to on Lemmy that will get the traction you need to save your cat. I hope I’m wrong. Sorry you and your cat are going through this. Best of luck!

Byereddithellolemmy,

For what it’s worth, I appreciate you replying.

This is a living nightmare for us and we’re doing whatever we can to save our baby.

Thank you for your comment.

vulnerability,

Maybe you can post it in a pet related sub? I really like your cat but I can’t do anything because I’m a student and I probably need a go fund me too lol.

Byereddithellolemmy,

I’ve posted it in a few places, and we’re seeing a steady uptick in donations.

To be clear though, I’m not expecting donations from my posts, but even just a reshare is appreciated.

I appreciate you replying though, thank you.

papajohn,

Hi friend, I understand. I commented because it is a sad and touching situation you shared. I hope you find a great way to get all the resources you need for Bernie. I feel like the system is being tested in a way. I’m glad you asked on asklemmy. I’m not sure anyone has done that and there might be some interesting discussion about it. You might find the advocates you need through your posts and we may find an answer to “ where should I post this” for your situation.

Byereddithellolemmy,

Your comments are really kind, and today, that means a lot.

Thank you.

I really love what Lemmy is becoming, and sure, if this prompts discussion around what’s ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ to post, then I’m happy to be a part of it.

I hope that my boy can feature in future posts.

jayknight,

/r/assistance on Reddit is a very well moderated sub. They have strict rules and procedures to prevent abuse. I moderate another sub that sometimes sends people there because we just aren’t equipped to do what they do.

Byereddithellolemmy,

That’s the kind of thing I was hoping to find, but I didn’t have much luck.

Lemmy is still young, so it’s understandable that it doesn’t yet have the infrastructure, but maybe this could prompt us to do something like that?

I absolutely agree that such a forum needs moderation to avoid abuse. Where I’ve been asked, I’ve provided what I can to back up what I’m claiming.

This is the internet though, so I get it. I’m just trying to do what’s best for my boy.

Norgur,

I get a hint of NIMBY here

Byereddithellolemmy,

Right? Initially I figured this might be a mod, but it just seems like someone who wants to moan at someone for posting something they don’t like.

If only they could do something to view something else, and get on with their day. Like, I dunno, maybe scroll past?

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