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But even that runs into issues of intersectionality of marginalizations, and further than that, individual life and sociocultural circumstances.
Basically, I'm rapidly moving towards a very social/cultural relativism point of view where there ISN'T any "right way" to view a situation. At best there's the "plurality way" because most of the observers happen to be similar enough in brain structure, social/cultural upbringing, and marginalizations to view the situation in a similar way.
There's not just the "NT Way" and the "ND Way" of viewing a thing, there's an infinite number of ways to view a thing, and none are inherently more "right" or "wrong" than any other. It's why trying to judge based on someone's intent is pointless. There's no way to objectively measure what was correctly intentioned or not.