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jahtnamas

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sam, 33, ♈🌞♑🌛♐⤴️, sie/hir+they/them, chaotic genderqueer demon and future bigenital androgyne, pansexual, polyam-curious, adhd+autistic, (invisibly) disabled, anarcho-socialist, former apple evangelist turned linux novice and android noob, romantic satanist and daemonolator

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Is it normal to misgender yourself?

When I talk to myself, sometimes I call myself my dead name, or my gender I don’t associate myself with. I am self-aware enough to know I’ve associated myself as male and [name] for thirty-seven years, but it annoys me I haven’t made that connection in my brain somewhere that yes, I’m a girl, my name is Eshe. I feel it...

jahtnamas,
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popping in again just to say i’ve been misgendering myself in my head since i figured myself out almost 2 years ago. It’s So Normal.

it's collapsing (tw: relationships, dysphoria)

Hi, I’m gonna reintroduce myself, first. I went by VirulentAura, and have been kinda active this past week posting, if anyone actually cares. I decided to change it up, cuz I was tired of lemmy.world being down, and, I dunno, I wanted to use my name. Preface aside, please be advised that the content may be troubling to some....

jahtnamas,
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the irony of blåhaj going down after you posted this. seems we’re back but just barely. i might not be able to post this comment!

i’ve been seeing these vents from the sidelines and i’m sorry your wife suddenly turned like this not even 2 weeks into your journey. i don’t think i can answer these questions for you, but it seems like she might be getting severely influenced by her family? something similar happened to me a long time ago, where a family friend tried twice to get me to break up with someone on his own personal moral grounds (read: some lies he made up). it only succeeded the first time.

jahtnamas,
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oohhh, that’s vile. reminds me a bit of what my mom did to me and my dad. absolutely stay by your kids.

The Queer Guide to Finding a Fediverse Server.

Joining the fediverse can be a daunting proposition, and it is understandable that many end up on larger more centralised servers that are easier to find. I have also had some bad experience with smaller servers also. The first one I arrived on was very quiet, almost inactive, and I should have taken that as a warning sign....

jahtnamas,
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the mastodon server i'm on, queer.party, is also invite only. the admin is a nonbinary, gay, and polyamorous furry.

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