fartdumpster420

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

i love those! i can never find a comfortable pair of boots because of my wide and flat feet, but i JUST finally bought some dansko clogs and orthopedic sandals with inserts… i would love a pair of boots to round out my shoe lineup!

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

yes, we’d never mutilate her cute little toes!

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

she gives you permission to kiss the beans

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago (edited 11 months ago)

hi, i live near detroit.

buddy’s is our go to spot. it’s fantastic. :)

however, i was raised for 18 years in the st. louis area so that’s my preference- STL style thin crispy crust, provel cheese, square cut. pretty opposite to what you’ll find in a detroit style 'za.

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

it changes all the time but right now-

ginger root coco & clair clair mag.lo jonwayne sales

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

i’ve been depressed my entire life and my dental hygiene used to be atrocious as a kid. these days, in my late 20s, i typically brush once a day in the morning and mouthwash before bed because the day takes a lot out of me energy wise and brushing my teeth ends up feeling like a monumental task. i go to the dentist every 3 to 4 months so more than the average person, but my insurance covers it. i use an electric toothbrush. i’ve only had one cavity and have all of my teeth including my wisdom teeth because they’re not damaged and don’t have cavities.

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

sending love to you

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

#wap

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

this is absolutely wild. where do you live? we go to the “emagine” theater chain and have been able to get the front row “cuddle seats” for 12$. it sits two of us to one loveseat. bring a friend/partner or have a giant seat to yourself. i think emagine is only in a few states tho (USA).

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

not really, at least in my situation. i've been married for over 5 years and my partner is absolutely my best friend and i can be my full self with them.

however, i also have a lot of other friends and acquaintances. each of them fills a different role in my life. all of them are unique. my partner doesn't have all of the same interests as me, but my friends all fulfill a different part of my personality that my partner cannot, and they also help support me through difficult times as a team.

it's really essential to have a support system and a wide variety of friends in your life. putting all your eggs in one basket isn't healthy or fair. adulthood can certainly be lonely. i'm approaching 30 and feel it now more than ever as people in my life go down different paths and we have less in common and less time for each other.

it's okay though. there are so many people in the world to connect with. you'll find your people.

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

i get that. a lot of my friends are working on degrees or starting families. we don’t have as much time to hang out anymore. one thing that’s helped is expanding my social group. you don’t have to be tight with every friend. you can have specific friends/acquaintances for specific hangout sessions. have you tried connecting with local groups to expand your social circle? i’m sure you have some hobbies. these are just examples i’ve seen in my area:

• weekly dnd group
• gardening club
• walking club
• bar meetups
• volunteer trash cleanup
• board game nights
• friend speed ‘dating’

i’m not sure where you live, but you’re bound to find something. facebook is a garbage platform but one thing it’s good at is getting you up to date with local events and local groups. don’t like facebook? try finding local discord groups.

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

i’m really sorry for your loss

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

meowdy

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

i'm writing this from the app. it looks and feels like apollo, so this is amazing. i really look forward to further development!

fartdumpster420, 11 months ago

i’m sad that reddit is dogshit, but excited to watch lemmy grow and to have the opportunity to be a part of its growth