DarkInspiration

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DarkInspiration, (edited )

I feel you, as I sometimes am also prone to oversharing, but I think I’ve managed to reel it in. It does help that I’m a bit of an introvert, so being quiet is fine for me.

Not trying to sound too rough, but have you given any thought to if what you said/say in a conversation is relevant to the conversation itself?

I think that sometimes the issue isn’t that a person talks too much, it’s just that they start talking disregarding everything else that is going in the conversation and that can leave the other participants feeling overriden.

I also feel that it’s somewhat important to try and have a filter. To think: “Is this remark I’m going to make needed to progress the conversation?”.

Try to recognize that sometimes the best thing one can do in a conversation is to listen and ask questions. It’s fine not to be an active participant if it isn’t necessary.

DarkInspiration,

The free tier has all the features you need, it’s open-source and it’s not a Google product.

It’s also quite easy to switch to it from other managers, even the Google one.

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