Me: Behaviors X and Y indicate an autistic neurotype is in play.
You, dismissively: But lots of people act that way!
Me:
You:
Me: nods slowly
You: drops jaw
Me: Yep. Lots of people have a neurotype in common with diagnosed autistics. And it's time to take their behavior as loosely indicative of this neurotype's true prevalence, while we wait for JAMA Pedriatics and the like to catch up.
JAMA, by the way, now says diagnosed autistics are 1 in 30.