In my family, I'm not the only #actuallyautistic. We are at least two, and we think we are more than that. The second person doesn't like rigidity, barriers, or rules. This person like to find compromise. The funny thing here is that finding compromise became in fact a rigid rule.
Don't take it wrong. It's not always a good thing to have a rule about compromise. It's a way to cope with other people and part of masking and social justice. Furthermore, it combines multiple aspect of the person. It can be exhausting.
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