Instance recommendation?

Right now the instance I’m on throws 500 errors almost daily (this is why I’m posting from my Lemmy account), so I think it’s time to find a new home.

Not looking for much, English language, NSFW allowed (most of our posts won’t be, but I’d prefer to have the option) and Federates with lemmy.ml and beehaw as I find m’self posting to groups over there frequently. And of course good uptime/low 500 errors.

I’m looking at a few instances now, but recommendations would obviously help me choose since many don’t have their About page filled out, and fewer still have an FAQ or TOS.