What you want is something you can’t have. Stop worrying about things that don’t immediately affect you and take a fucking chance in life. You will fail. You will make mistakes and judge yourself for it. People may judge you for things beyond your control like appearance and personality quirks. Fuck em. There’s only a hand full of people who know and care for you well enough that their opinion matters, the rest of em just see a shadow on the wall. Most people don’t care about you, they care about comparing themselves to their mental image of you. Who cares what they think. Do you have like severe anxiety of something because this is hardcore catastrophizing. 99% of your fears are baseless. You aren’t the center of anyone else’s world, nobody thinks about you that much. Sorry to burst your bubble but the sooner you realize this the sooner you can start to chill a little on the worrying.