Have you got a real world example that is not on the web/social media?
In my experience, the world is not run by NT folks, and if you're being yelled at as an adult that person doing the yelling is certainly not NT.
As I've gotten older I have come to realise everyone is dealing with something, whether it's a diagnosable condition or not. As an example my wife has anxiety with OCD thrown in, my daughter probably inherited both, my son has some ASD tendencies, my MIL is the biggest narcacist and a complete A-Hole, her partner is a functioning alcoholic with his own issues. Then my mum is likely got mild anxiety, as well as my little brother, older brother has anger issues as well as my father. All this is to say externally you would consider everyone I just mentioned NT, my wife is the only one that has been diagnosed with anything