I respect that you think I did something. It is real in your experience, and I do not discredit your perspective on what I did or didn't say, imply, or did. I appreciate opportunities to clarify what I was meaning to say. I appreciate you sharing what you received, but that doesn't mean I actually meant to send that. I cannot be certain about what you mean, and you cannot know what I meant, until we ask. For me, misunderstandings are an expected part of any attempt to communicate.