I just don't like labels. No question I "diverge" from others in the way I think, in what matters, in a zillion little things. My family think I am weird. My wife is still trying to "train" me to behave after 55 years of marriage. She still resents when I don't respond appropriately to something, "do it her way"
I
Can't
Fix
That
I try. But I fail. Time after time.
It's just who I am.