@ginsterbusch@theautisticcoach@actuallyautistic it's interesting to consider such different points of view in the same group.
To me, it's the opposite: to reach an almost "normal" life, I need different (or special) things than NT people. And it sounds strange, almost ableist to me, not to talk about that by saying we have the same needs as everyone. I'm not sure NTs would need methylphenidate :)